The thrill of cheating

[cuckoldbill]

The other day, I got called into work, while we were doing forplay, she went over the neighbors house, hooked up with him, and texted me a selfee of them in the act with a message, this could have been you. I had to go right to the bathroom and took care of myself.

That's my kinda slut. Just what my wife would do if she could.

 

[screwher]

I think cheating is doing anythkng the partner would not be OK with. That Varies from couple to couple

I agree with this. With my marriage my wife has my full approval and encouragement to have full on penetration sex with other men. But what we have is a semi open relationship. My wife doesn't have those same feelings and desires with regards to me in other women. She'd be crushed if I had sex with another woman. But she can get laid by a hundred guys in a hundred days if she wanted to.

But on a level playing field, for me with regard to these options, cheating is kissing and no permission sex.

 

[LadyIris]

Me and my husband have different views on this, so we're still discussing the parameters (15 years now). It's so different from person to person

 

[screwher]

The other day, I got called into work, while we were doing forplay, she went over the neighbors house, hooked up with him, and texted me a selfee of them in the act with a message, this could have been you. I had to go right to the bathroom and took care of myself.

I wish we had a neighbor that my wife even found attractive. Every guy on our street she's never even given a second look.

 

[LibraStud]

Best to talk to your partner first. We all get the itch to enjoy spending time with another person, especially when the chemistry is right. I give her my permission to go ahead, she gets it out of her system, and then realizes how good she has it - at least until the next man comes around. Same with me.

 

[scott6251]

My wife and I were separated for a while, so her having a boyfriend wasn't cheating. Now that we're back together, we've talked about their sex life together and she's surprised it turns me on. Little by little we're talking about her being with another guy once in a while if she wants. She's not crazy about the idea, but is intrigued that I'm open minded about it

 

[followmenow6969]

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When my last boyfriend found out I had been cheating on him with his brother, his roommate, and a few of his friends he hate fucked me so hard like this and kept asking me this question. The answer was yes yes yes!

Not cheated (or desire to with my hubby) but I ave cheated on old GFs

 

[ChattyAnnie]

There is definitely a thrill to cheating for me. I am always being asked if the reason I have sex with other men is because my husband doesn't satisfy me. That is not it. He's a little conservative but our sex life is not bad... at least once a week. Having sex with other men is like an addiction for me, and I know much of the thrill is knowing that I am cheating. If he knew and approved I honestly believe some of the "thrill would be gone" as BB once sang.

 

[followmenow6969]

There is definitely a thrill to cheating for me. I am always being asked if the reason I have sex with other men is because my husband doesn't satisfy me. That is not it. He's a little conservative but our sex life is not bad... at least once a week. Having sex with other men is like an addiction for me, and I know much of the thrill is knowing that I am cheating. If he knew and approved I honestly believe some of the "thrill would be gone" as BB once sang.

You sound like an old FWB of m hubby from Vt

 

[live4thebj]

I never cheated on my wife at the time but did cheat on her one time while we were dating for the simple fact she was FUCKING HOT!!!

The other times I cheated were with woman I dated after my marriage for I was not serious about any of them and I was just about up for anything. So when the opportunity came I jumped right in.

Now I am in a committed relationship.

 

[live4thebj]

What I would like to know has anyone cheated on their wife or husband with a family member?

 

[JackOffer]

What defines cheating?

Ok so I have various friends who talk/chat and get comfy with others outside confines of their relationship. I think most of this is perfectly normal but am curious what people think?? Obviously there are variations on the below answers.

A) Talking/chatting about life with someone of opposite sex?
B) Doing A but on dating site with no intent of dating?
C) talking/chatting about sex?
D) Kissing?
E) Massage?
F) Most obvious assuming no permission sex...

Only F is cheating! I have never cheated myself. Both of my wives and I have always had each others permission to have as much sex as we want with whoever we want including family members.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I think cheating is doing anythkng the partner would not be OK with. That Varies from couple to couple

I think that this is mostly true but must be qualified by the communication and reasonability factors. A friend of mine had a very liberal and adventurous sex life with his SO including open discussion about desires and past partners. But when she found out there were strippers at another buddy's bachelor party she lost her shit. He hadn't asked in advance but given their past dialogue and the fact that it was a bachelor party he (wrongly) assumed she would be ok with it.

Her view was he should have known and all her friends agreed with her (as if that has anything to do with it or validated some unspoken standard he was supposed to know).

Turned out she would have been ok if they went to a strip bar but since they invited strippers to a private party it was that much less of a controlled environment and might lead to a level of intimacy that crossed into cheating. Valid point but not one that I would have picked up on.

So with an honestly held difference of perspective which view prevails? What if a partner adopts a strident view not consistent with the past - does that view then prevail? There needs to be communication and some reasonable confluence of views including a reasonable assessment of the things not previously discussed.

 

[HesterP]

It seems to me that cheating is doing something of which your SO does not know about or approve. I think the thrill of cheating is getting away with something and doing something you should not do. No I do not encourage cheating as it can wreck your relationship but it does happen quite often. I have worked in a large office and I know there were a lot of men cheating on wives and a lot of women cheating on husbands that did not have a clue. From my observation men seem to cheat at all ages but for women cheating occurs more when they are in their 20's and late 40's. I think it is a lot tougher to cheat when you are raising a family. Not much time or energy.

 

[Sunshine420]

What I would like to know has anyone cheated on their wife or husband with a family member?

I have. Many times

 

[jb139659]

I travel for work. I was in a city for a two week assignment with a group of 7; second to the last night we went to dinner; drinks. We were having a great time. One of the women sat next to me most if the night. We talked and laughed and at some point, she started massaging my leg under the table, holding my hand, and overall causing me to completly lose concentration.
I resisted, even though she was beautiful. 'I can't, you know I'm married". I was worried it was just the alcohol and she would hate herself the next day.
"I will never tell" she kept whispering.

I went to bed alone.

And the next day at work couldnt stop kicking myself for not taking the chance. 19 years of marriage, and i'd never cheated. When work ended that day, i went to her hotel room, quietly knocked on her door, and when she opened it, she grabbed my hand pulled me inside and was all over me. It was primal, passionate and AMAZING.

And I remember thinking as i slowly slid inside her 'I am a cheater'.

SO doesn't know, and I dont intend to ever tell.

 

[Sunshine420]

I love cheating.

I'm a slut wife. I've been addicted to cheating and sex for years. I'm bisexual. I've fucked family, friends, neighbors, exes, etc. I just love the thrill

 

[jasonmason]

I'm a slut wife. I've been addicted to cheating and sex for years. I'm bisexual. I've fucked family, friends, neighbors, exes, etc. I just love the thrill

Please do tell more.

 

[Anchor_4966]

I admit that there is no sex quite as hot as cheating sex, but in the end the fallout just wasn't worth it.

Still....very hot.

 

[whenagain]

It's in how half this thread is a thoughtful discussion of consequences sand the other half is hot cheating pics/stories.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

I'm a slut wife. I've been addicted to cheating and sex for years. I'm bisexual. I've fucked family, friends, neighbors, exes, etc. I just love the thrill

This. I love this post. I don't know Sunshine. But she is so, so right.

 

[threewireman]

Thanks do all who've posted, very stimulating thread.

 

[Bigspurt]

I travel for work. I was in a city for a two week assignment with a group of 7; second to the last night we went to dinner; drinks. We were having a great time. One of the women sat next to me most if the night. We talked and laughed and at some point, she started massaging my leg under the table, holding my hand, and overall causing me to completly lose concentration.
I resisted, even though she was beautiful. 'I can't, you know I'm married". I was worried it was just the alcohol and she would hate herself the next day.
"I will never tell" she kept whispering.

I went to bed alone.

And the next day at work couldnt stop kicking myself for not taking the chance. 19 years of marriage, and i'd never cheated. When work ended that day, i went to her hotel room, quietly knocked on her door, and when she opened it, she grabbed my hand pulled me inside and was all over me. It was primal, passionate and AMAZING.

And I remember thinking as i slowly slid inside her 'I am a cheater'.

SO doesn't know, and I dont intend to ever tell.

Lucky you!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I can see the appeal of cheating, though for a long time it bothered me to see the faithful partner deceived into continued fidelity by the false assumption that it was mutual. That still bothers me, as a polyamorist, to see one person tricked into being faithful while the other is not, but I have learned that cheating is not a malicious act. It's caused more by basic human weaknesses or needs, even if the effect is still unfair to the deceived party. Still, I can see the appeal of risk, of the chance of being caught, of the sense of having a part of one's life compartmentalized that isn't accounted for and that society condemns. I can see the sense of power and independence that it would give the cheater, not sharing that part of their lives as part of an "us," because there are times when I just want to do things as a "me" or "I".

 

[Jake1945]

My wife has cheated a few times in our marriage. She can not cheat anymore since she has my permission to do whatever, whenever and with whoever. After seeing this thread, I asked her if she thought cheating provided a thrill. She thinks it does and the tension of maybe getting caught ads an element of danger and arousal. She also commented that cheating seems more natural. She thinks it is really weird that I am OK with her having sex with another guy.