The thrill of cheating

I don't think my hubby would be turned on and I think he would be excited so I almost wish I told him. I think he guesses though, so perhaps he gets turned on just speculating.

sometimes (for the cuckolded husband) it's the suspecting, but never knowing for sure, that's most arousing.
 
That's true sometimes. Other times it's being completely in the know and helping her get ready for a date

Yes. I can never figure out which is more intense. They're such very different sets of feelings, around the same basic thing. I guess, like everything else, it depends on the individual.
 
That's true sometimes. Other times it's being completely in the know and helping her get ready for a date

I fully agree. Nothing beats helping wife get ready for a hot date. Than dropping her off knowing that the next time you see her she will be full of another mans cum
 
For me, I think the sneaking around is more enjoyable than the actual sex. Cheating feels like some crazy addiction
 
Am a frequent cheater... I love gangbangs and double penetration... Cheating on hubby for over a year.. used to be total slut till my first night sex with my hubby... Had fucked 2 guys hours before marriage...
 
Am a frequent cheater... I love gangbangs and double penetration... Cheating on hubby for over a year.. used to be total slut till my first night sex with my hubby... Had fucked 2 guys hours before marriage...

I think your fab. Having two guys just before your wedding 😜. Are you sure he has no idea that your playing around ??
 
I love the idea of going behind his back, but since he allows me so much as it is, I don't think I could ever actually justify the action...
 
Cheating is not a turn on to me. It's just not something I'd do. Of course I suppose it depends on one's definition of cheating. I did hug and kiss male friends while I was married. But... I have always had mostly male friends. I just prefer hanging out with guys. My ex knew this when we got married.

Then there was that guy that I met at the airport but we didn't have sex and my friends and family knew about it. He was more like a friend but in the fantasy realm. Someone I knew from online but we had been communicating for a couple of years, so we felt like we knew each other. I knew his wife too but she and I were not friends.

I have been cheated on. Found out recently that my ex husband was a serial cheater. I called him out on this right from the start when I had evidence and he tried to make it out like I was crazy.

Thing is... My definition of love is: Selfless. Wanting for the other person what is in their best and highest good. I want them to be happy. And if that means being with another person, then fine. I will be happy for them.

If they want to be with me AND another person? I would be fine with that too. Because again, I want them to be happy. Of course deep down inside I would prefer them to be only with me. And I don't think I would ever enter into an open marriage or probably any marriage now.

I had an ex who was with other women. I knew this and was fine with it but in the end, he wasn't fine with it so he moved on. Also had a FWB many years ago who was bi and IMO a male slut. I full well knew this but when we were together, it was all good.

I'm not into jealously. It's not a concept that I understand. I want people to be comfortable and happy with me and around me. So I would not do anything to compromise that. Not on purpose anyway. And that would include cheating!

I also think if you're going to do it then own up to it. Because it's a trust thing. Sneaking around and doing stuff all the while proclaiming that you aren't doing it makes the other person feel and perhaps even look like a fool. And nobody wants to feel that way.
 
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Very Thrilling

I have just started cheating after 8 yrs of no sex in the marriage. Getting to know someone online with photos, chat, videos and phone calls is so thrilling. I have met a few women in hotels now and it is an amazing rush. They are all so different and the levels of fun vary but the excitement is amazing.

I am 47 and really hitting the gym hard, I think I look better now than I did 20 yrs ago. I am definitely getting more "looks" than I ever have, part of it has to be the "new body" from the gym but some of it has to be the confidence that is growing with each new encounter.
 
There seems to be a shortage of cheating threads these days. It's good to see one around. Let's see if we can breathe some life into one.
 
Girls cheat a lot -- they do because they can. Where to start?

I was thinking we could get to the joy of cheating. The thrill of it. And what have people found the most thrilling. What cheating have they done and how hot was it. Why did they cheat and how many times have they done it.

So many things this thread could hold. I love it.
 
I could never cheat on my wife. But the thrill of cheating I experienced was when my did. To be a fly on the wall of that hotelroom where th first guy took her. As well, the bedrooms where the other two fucked her!

I’m curious, Guys.When your wife of GF cheated where did the other guy take her?
 
I could never cheat on my wife. But the thrill of cheating I experienced was when my did. To be a fly on the wall of that hotelroom where th first guy took her. As well, the bedrooms where the other two fucked her!

I’m curious, Guys.When your wife of GF cheated where did the other guy take her?

His place mostly - he was separated at the time.
 
I have just started cheating after 8 yrs of no sex in the marriage. Getting to know someone online with photos, chat, videos and phone calls is so thrilling. I have met a few women in hotels now and it is an amazing rush. They are all so different and the levels of fun vary but the excitement is amazing.

I am 47 and really hitting the gym hard, I think I look better now than I did 20 yrs ago. I am definitely getting more "looks" than I ever have, part of it has to be the "new body" from the gym but some of it has to be the confidence that is growing with each new encounter.



Similar story here. Years in an abusive, sexless and loveless marriage. In the end realised I was getting offers from both sexes. Decided to accept a few.
 
Me too. Sexless for about 11 years. I confided in my best friend and I guess I turned bi. We started making out about 3 years ago. Her husband found out after our first encounter and didn't mind. Now I have sex with them about once a month. I have sex with her about once a week. I think they feel sorry for me. They're my best friends. I'm happier now. My hubby still doesn't know, but still no effort on his part to make things better. I think I wrote in another post, if he doesn't want me, I don't consider it cheating, I call it living.

It IS living!!!! Life is too short- get out and adventure- that is what it is about.....
 
Me too. Sexless for about 11 years. I confided in my best friend and I guess I turned bi. We started making out about 3 years ago. Her husband found out after our first encounter and didn't mind. Now I have sex with them about once a month. I have sex with her about once a week. I think they feel sorry for me. They're my best friends. I'm happier now. My hubby still doesn't know, but still no effort on his part to make things better. I think I wrote in another post, if he doesn't want me, I don't consider it cheating, I call it living.

Good for you. I agree, if your spouse isn’t interested, and there’s no physical ailment, then it’s not cheating.
 
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