Thinking about remarriage

[satindesire]

Youre fulla shit dear.

Females always retained title to their dowries just as they always had title to 1/3rd of their husbands estate. Both were to protect her from bastardy, illicit heirs produced by the husband. Dowries were an insurance policy to protect the husband from her bastards.

Patently false as historical records prove over and over again, women's dowries and property became their husband's property once married. The literal only thing that was truly a woman's was her jewelry, clothes, bed linens and dishes. That's not what I'd call "property rights" and "1/3rd of their husbands' estates", "dear".

There is a mountain of evidence to prove my words and you're a known troll with a penchant for sexist bullshit so I'm just going to disregard you as socially irrelevant as 99% of the rest of Lit does.

 

[silverwhisper]

SD, there's really no point in utterly wrecking JBJ's points (such as they are). i mean, they do a jim-dandy job of wrecking themselves!

i just hate duplicated effort. don't you?

ed

 

[satindesire]

SD, there's really no point in utterly wrecking JBJ's points (such as they are). i mean, they do a jim-dandy job of wrecking themselves!

i just hate duplicated effort. don't you?

ed

You're absolutely right!

 

[march_manness]

I haven't read through everything that's been posted, but the idea of "getting married but split if it doesn't work" doesn't appeal to either of us... no matter how iron-clad a prenup is, there's still cost emotionally to everyone involved including the kids, extended family, parents, etc.

We have started some counseling, and right away I basically started off with my concerns and the counselor appreciated that and we spent the whole hour talking through it. He also gave us some books we are going to read and work through.

We're not engaged; nothing is cast in stone. She has concerns too and we'll wait until we're 100% comfortable with that level of commitment.

 

[march_manness]

Last week she and I broke up... and I'm feeling much more relief than I expected.

Time to pick up and move on...

 

[midwestyankee]

Last week she and I broke up... and I'm feeling much more relief than I expected.

Time to pick up and move on...

And time to file this insight that your gut feeling about still wanting to get in some playing-the-field time was probably connected with the fragility of the relationship, even if it wasn't apparent then.

 

[HoneyFortune]

If you don't have to get married, don't. What is the big rush?

 

[FGB]

For a minute there I thought this was going to be about FGB marrying wife number 14.

OUCH!

Somebody needs a spanking!

Besides...I haven't found my next Ex-Wife yet.

 

[FGB]

Oh, snap!

Bunch of wise asses!

Just because life hasn't worked out very well for me in the love department...

 

[FGB]

I expect a beer from each one of you for the insults if we are ever at a Litogether, together.!

 

[lovecraft68]

I'll weigh in with others that if you have doubts then don't.

But it seems your doubts are childish...your only reservation is "is this the only pussy I'll ever have again" is what it comes down to.

If she is all you say and great sex? but your concerned over how many notches in the belt is pretty juvenile.

FWIW I was married 11 years, divorced, lived like a wild child for a couple of years and met a woman as amazing as yours sounds sweet, kind, lady in the street, freak in the bed, phenomenal step mom...

I remarried and have never regretted it. Then again I was mature enough not to think about how much pussy I might be missing.

 

[Que]

For a minute there I thought this was going to be about FGB marrying wife number 14.

Or remarrying wife number 3 or 4..

I actually thought the OP was talking about remarrying an ex. I know a guy who has been married four times his current wife was also wife number 2.

I've always heard that wife number 2 is the worst in the wife number 3 if it ever gets to that point is the keeper.

I have wisely avoided meeting wife number 2.

 

[Que]

OUCH!

Somebody needs a spanking!

Besides...I haven't found my next Ex-Wife yet.

It's something that you've talked about and I've kind of wondered about because it relates to a roommate of mine.

You're pretty open about being a person of faith. My roommate is sort of the same way although he seems kind of weird about things he never refers to him as God he always talked about him as the "big guy". He refuses to join or worship with any organized religion but considers himself Christian. He annoys the crap out of me about his coming to Jesus story because he seems to think that unless everyone's story is as dramatic as his (is to him) they havent been "saved." ...but I digress...

I think he's about to marry his ex wife number 2 at the age of 29 the first one was 19 and immature the new one is 19 and immature. He's been divorced about a year from the first wife he was married maybe 2 years and took about a year and a half to get divorced. Personally I don't think he's in any kind of shape to be in a committed relationship much last one that looks like it's headed towards marriage.

When he's not getting laid he's as horny as anybody else, indulges porn and runs around trying to get laid. As soon as he gets laid. When he gets laid, he seems to turn it into some kind of committed relationship so that he feels better about his fornication. At least that's my take on it.

Me, I just think fornication feels delightful.


Do you get married so often because it feels like it's more proper to get married then fornicate or are you just sort of impulsive about marrying?

Hope I'm not offending I'm genuinely curious.