Thought of being with a chubby thick women

I love my thick and curvy wife, but she has self esteem due to her weight and when I attempt to enjoy her curves and the way she looks she almost doesn’t was a be touched like that!?
Anyone have advice to make me make her feel more comfy in her own skin?
It took me until I was in my 30s to realize some men really love a BBW 😊...
One way is to compliment her yes, but has she said why she feels unattractive? Has she always been curvy, or maybe age and pregnancy can change the way we look.

One turn on for me was when my late husband used to tell me that he'd love my body, no matter if I was 500lbs.

Or, directly tell her during sex... Things specific.."your tits are amazing... Your belly gets me so hard... Your thighs are amazing!!"
 
It took me until I was in my 30s to realize some men really love a BBW 😊...
One way is to compliment her yes, but has she said why she feels unattractive? Has she always been curvy, or maybe age and pregnancy can change the way we look.

One turn on for me was when my late husband used to tell me that he'd love my body, no matter if I was 500lbs.

Or, directly tell her during sex... Things specific.."your tits are amazing... Your belly gets me so hard... Your thighs are amazing!!"
All of those things I want to say but am apprehensive that bringing her belly or thighs and large breasts into the conversation may just bring it to her attention.
Thank you all for your advice, I’ll just need to tread lightly and make love my wife the way she’s most comfortable and maybe each time make a little complement as we go.
 
All of those things I want to say but am apprehensive that bringing her belly or thighs and large breasts into the conversation may just bring it to her attention.
Thank you all for your advice, I’ll just need to tread lightly and make love my wife the way she’s most comfortable and maybe each time make a little complement as we go.
Good luck - I’m sure she’ll love you more
 
I like most shapes and sizes of woman but I think I am more attracted to the curvier woman. Most of my long term relationships have been with curvier or thick woman. My wife is a very curvy woman I love feeling her curvy body. She may not like it as much but I try everything to show her how sexy she is to me!
 
I worked construction going through college--went for thin, fit girls and in the banter on site proclaimed it. My journeyman ribbed me about it--"Son, I need a woman big enough to stand up to my pile drivin' ass!!"
 
I like most shapes and sizes of woman but I think I am more attracted to the curvier woman. Most of my long term relationships have been with curvier or thick woman. My wife is a very curvy woman I love feeling her curvy body. She may not like it as much but I try everything to show her how sexy she is to me!
I feel that. Just last night I attempted to praise her curves and body as a whole and she was like “oh ok” and “well I’m not sexy like that!”
I told her to be quiet and I wanted every inch of her, from head to toe. She kissed me and said ok honey. That was that.
 
I feel that. Just last night I attempted to praise her curves and body as a whole and she was like “oh ok” and “well I’m not sexy like that!”
I told her to be quiet and I wanted every inch of her, from head to toe. She kissed me and said ok honey. That was that.
I know exactly what you mean that whole scenario sounds very familiar!
 
I love my thick and curvy wife, but she has self esteem due to her weight and when I attempt to enjoy her curves and the way she looks she almost doesn’t was a be touched like that!?
Anyone have advice to make me make her feel more comfy in her own skin?
I don't have advice but I get it. The guys I've been with haven't really helped the situation. They say they find me attractive but you know what kind of porn they watch? Skinny. No bbw ever. Kinda hard to believe they actually find me attractive.

I have gotten more confident with age. And honestly being on here has made me feel better about myself. I wish I saw it more in person though.
 
I don't have advice but I get it. The guys I've been with haven't really helped the situation. They say they find me attractive but you know what kind of porn they watch? Skinny. No bbw ever. Kinda hard to believe they actually find me attractive.

I have gotten more confident with age. And honestly being on here has made me feel better about myself. I wish I saw it more in person though.
Oh my wife has caught me watching BBW porn plenty of times. She still doesn’t think anyone would find her attractive including myself.
 
I don't have advice but I get it. The guys I've been with haven't really helped the situation. They say they find me attractive but you know what kind of porn they watch? Skinny. No bbw ever. Kinda hard to believe they actually find me attractive.

I have gotten more confident with age. And honestly being on here has made me feel better about myself. I wish I saw it more in person though.
Hi DayDreamer, I don't know what you look like but if your a bbw I think your a very beautiful lady. I look at the bbw ladies pictures on here an watch bbw porn too. Just something about a lady that has more meat on her bones mmmmmm Hope to chat with you sometime.
 
I love my thick and curvy wife, but she has self esteem due to her weight and when I attempt to enjoy her curves and the way she looks she almost doesn’t was a be touched like that!?
Anyone have advice to make me make her feel more comfy in her own skin?
I'm a curvy girl and all I can say is keep telling her...
For me it was posting naughty pics on here and getting feedback..
But I'm assuming that isn't an option..
Good luck
 
I love my thick and curvy wife, but she has self esteem due to her weight and when I attempt to enjoy her curves and the way she looks she almost doesn’t was a be touched like that!?
Anyone have advice to make me make her feel more comfy in her own skin?
My wife took time accept her body after kids. A big factor was clothing shopping with her online. It's hit and miss but it's cheap, so she was able to build a wardrobe of flattering outfits from rosegal and shein. From there it was shoes, boots, jewelry, and now even lingerie to complete the ensembles.

Now she is confident, dresses to impress every day at work, and loves to sit at her dressing table in the morning to do her makeup and put on her jewelry.
 
I'm very attracted to thicker women. I love slim women too but there's something about a woman with wide hips, big butts, fuller breast it's incredibly sexy.

One thing I notice however is that thicker women (wider hips, bigger buttocks) for whatever reason have had a more difficult time accommodating a larger than average penis in bed especially in comparison with the slim body type ladies I've been with. This is irrespective of height as well. I honestly don't know why this is the case but that has been my personal experience.
 
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