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Thoughts on spanking?

I'm a fan, but I can't stand any "ooh, you've been a bad girl so now I'm gonna have to spank you" antics

I quite enjoy being the one doing the spanking too, but I have no interest in dominating anybody
 
mrron said:
I'm inclined to feel the same way. For me the whole "You've been a bad girl" works in online RP but in real life it seems a bit awkward and takes away from simply focusing on the sensations. While I've always enjoyed administering them I really never got what the appeal was to receiving a spanking. Then, one fateful day, with a wonderfully sadistic partner who wouldn't take no for an answer I was introduced to the joys of receiving. Now I know its better to give and receive.
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Agree with igoliquid, and mrron, its about a set of sensations and pleasurable activities done by and with someone you want to turn on, and who wants to arouse you. The RP stuff is fine online or at a distance, real life its about enjoying the stroking, the teasing, the warm up and the stinging that brings those endorphins rushing and the juices flowing.
 
Lucky

I've been lucky enough to find a woman who enjoys receiving a food spanking. At first it seemed liked just a novelty . However the more I do it the more I like to . it's also fun to kiss it better when we're done. She really seems to like it when the smack lands down on her ass .The audible crack of flesh colliding.
Maybe one day I'll get over her knee and let her feel the exhortation of being on the giving end
 
MistressMaggie said:
Guys that say this kind of stuff try to be flirty. But it usually comes off as something else.
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Well, what it should come off as is that I'm a person who isn't defined by a sexual concept such as dom/sub. My ex-girlfriend used to tell me that I seemed like a sub because I was always thinking about pleasing her. However, that does not reflect who I am as a man, and more importantly, it does not reflect me as a person.

I know what you are implying here, but really, all these guys who will bow to you are either saying what you want to hear so they can at least get in your PM box or are purely idiotic. We're all people. We want to be loved, respected, and maybe have some fetishes inside the bedroom. That does not constitute acting or being treated as a bitch all the time.

And if a guy is a bitch 100% of the time, then that's just a reflection of yourself and what type of men you attract. If that's what you're after, it's probably because it's all you can get.

So, I'll say it again. You'd be surprised. :)
 
Chris_Michael said:
Well, what it should come off as is that I'm a person who isn't defined by a sexual concept such as dom/sub. My ex-girlfriend used to tell me that I seemed like a sub because I was always thinking about pleasing her. However, that does not reflect who I am as a man, and more importantly, it does not reflect me as a person.

I know what you are implying here, but really, all these guys who will bow to you are either saying what you want to hear so they can at least get in your PM box or are purely idiotic. We're all people. We want to be loved, respected, and maybe have some fetishes inside the bedroom. That does not constitute acting or being treated as a bitch all the time.

And if a guy is a bitch 100% of the time, then that's just a reflection of yourself and what type of men you attract. If that's what you're after, it's probably because it's all you can get.

So, I'll say it again. You'd be surprised. :)
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Usually, when someone says "it's a reflection on.." it's meant to be a passive aggressive slam.
And if person A wants a bitch 100% of the time, and person B wants to be said bitch, is it wrong simply because it doesn't appeal to you?
You say as much by your implication that it's because that's all she can get, rather than what she really wants.
Way off base, unless your goal was to look like a judgmental ass hole that has a lock on whatever else should want to line up with your standard of norm.
 
pensivepoet said:
Usually, when someone says "it's a reflection on.." it's meant to be a passive aggressive slam.
And if person A wants a bitch 100% of the time, and person B wants to be said bitch, is it wrong simply because it doesn't appeal to you?
You say as much by your implication that it's because that's all she can get, rather than what she really wants.
Way off base, unless your goal was to look like a judgmental ass hole that has a lock on whatever else should want to line up with your standard of norm.
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There's nothing passive aggressive about it. I didn't make any implications about morality, and I couldn't give a rat's ass what people want to do with their lives. Vice versa, I actually hate it when women who are doms only talk to men willing to take it up the ass and if I do say something to them, I get treated as low as all of her other sub men.

So, you can take your accusations and shove it where she's going to be shoving her virtual dildo tonight.
 
Chris_Michael said:
There's nothing passive aggressive about it. I didn't make any implications about morality, and I couldn't give a rat's ass what people want to do with their lives. Vice versa, I actually hate it when women who are doms only talk to men willing to take it up the ass and if I do say something to them, I get treated as low as all of her other sub men.

So, you can take your accusations and shove it where she's going to be shoving her virtual dildo tonight.
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How do you know it's a she?
It's probably a ninth grader named Toby.
And just by chance, I happen to also not get the 24/7 tpe thing.
No thanks~bedroom only
But I don't disparage those that sail that way.
 
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