Thoughts on spanking?

I've never experienced it, but I like the idea.

For me, I'd quite like it if it were played out with a humiliation type of thing, perhaps me having to stand before him knowing it will happen but he's in no rush, he wants me to explain in great detail what I have done wrong and why it's deserving of a spanking. Something like that anyway
 
I love it... we use it in some of our scenes. Nothing like the squirm when waiting or the next slap to arrive.
 
This subject is one of the few things me and my wife haven't tried. We're not much into pain and such but we have talked about maybe some nice love taps to spice things up. The 50 shades books have opened our hirizons to trying it out one day. I'll let you know how it goes :)
 
Love it to death, when it's done from passion. I'm just not into cold, calculated punishment. I want to be manhandled.

I want to feel him so hungry for me that he just can't resist, grabbing and kneading and slapping at my ass as he mounts me. I want to feel how strong he is, to show him I can take it, and that I'm his to enjoy. I want the sharp sting and the slow, building burn from smack after smack after smack.

When I twist around enough to look up at him, gasping and flushed, I want to see that wry grin that says he just likes the way I jiggle.

Yes!!!! Exactly this.
 
Agreed with positivetension.

I certainly notice the difference between boyfriends and play mates in terms of spanking. As soon as i tell a boyfriend i like a bit of pain and try to explain it (i may have to memorize what positivetension has said!) i then just get slaps on the ass during sex or I've had to teach them how to use a whip properly... Really turns me off.

I want someone who knows how... Who uses spanking not just on my bum, who wants me to feel that warm sting whilst doing other stuff.
 
Agreed with positivetension.

I certainly notice the difference between boyfriends and play mates in terms of spanking. As soon as i tell a boyfriend i like a bit of pain and try to explain it (i may have to memorize what positivetension has said!) i then just get slaps on the ass during sex or I've had to teach them how to use a whip properly... Really turns me off.

I want someone who knows how... Who uses spanking not just on my bum, who wants me to feel that warm sting whilst doing other stuff.

So much of the pleasure of being a sub is letting go and trusting that your Top knows what he is doing.

I personally adore seeing her backside get uniformly warm and pink, the vibration from each strike traveling to her core.
 
So much of the pleasure of being a sub is letting go and trusting that your Top knows what he is doing.

I personally adore seeing her backside get uniformly warm and pink, the vibration from each strike traveling to her core.


Agreed and your last sentence made me do a deep longing sigh....
 
I adore watching her ass turn red. The way she lifts her bottom up to me. Her uncertainty as to how hard it's going to be from swat to swat. Including her lips and thighs in the spanking once her ass is red. Feeling my thigh get wet from her. It's an incredible feeling to have generated by her trust in me to do what she needs.
 
We indulge in spanking occasionally. I love to see her squirm as her ass gets red, or her tits... especially if she is bent over the bed with her legs apart so I can see her pussy swell and drip..yum. She will sometimes whip my erect cock with a cat o nine or a crop... the sensitivity increases after a few good wacks... then the feel of her wet mouth or pussy on the head or a quick deep throat then back to spanking... can cum very quickly like that!!!! I once made her squirt while tapping her pussy with a ruler and giving licks to her clit in between taps
 
I love it when I see someone say "I like it but only a light one." That makes me giggle. that ain't called a spanking, it's a butt massage or something or other...

It don't mean a thing unless it got a sting.

Coffee without caffeine is like sex without the spanking.
 
Love it to death, when it's done from passion. I'm just not into cold, calculated punishment. I want to be manhandled.

I want to feel him so hungry for me that he just can't resist, grabbing and kneading and slapping at my ass as he mounts me. I want to feel how strong he is, to show him I can take it, and that I'm his to enjoy. I want the sharp sting and the slow, building burn from smack after smack after smack.

When I twist around enough to look up at him, gasping and flushed, I want to see that wry grin that says he just likes the way I jiggle.
Everything she said.
 
I dont get put of control with the spanking but one or two ass slaps are nice but I prefer to really grab her ass and hips when I am pounding away.
 
Recently we have gotten more into this during sex play. I even went to the extent of ordering a leather paddle for such purposes. I don't like being spanked to the point of extreme pain but there is something about that mild stinging that gets me absolutely wet. The other night my husband "disciplined" me by having me lean over our couch while wearing a pair of weighted nipple clips. He then gave me a spanking, alternating one cheek to the other then sliding his hard cock over my ass and between my thighs. By the time we made it to the bedroom where he placed me on all fours on the bed and mounted me, I was more than ready. I practically begged him to continue spanking me while he fucked me which he did. It did not take long for either of us to orgasm.
 
Recently we have gotten more into this during sex play. I even went to the extent of ordering a leather paddle for such purposes. I don't like being spanked to the point of extreme pain but there is something about that mild stinging that gets me absolutely wet. The other night my husband "disciplined" me by having me lean over our couch while wearing a pair of weighted nipple clips. He then gave me a spanking, alternating one cheek to the other then sliding his hard cock over my ass and between my thighs. By the time we made it to the bedroom where he placed me on all fours on the bed and mounted me, I was more than ready. I practically begged him to continue spanking me while he fucked me which he did. It did not take long for either of us to orgasm.

Oh yes.

Try spanking until your partner begs to be fucked.
 
Agreed with positivetension.

I certainly notice the difference between boyfriends and play mates in terms of spanking. As soon as i tell a boyfriend i like a bit of pain and try to explain it (i may have to memorize what positivetension has said!) i then just get slaps on the ass during sex or I've had to teach them how to use a whip properly... Really turns me off.

I want someone who knows how... Who uses spanking not just on my bum, who wants me to feel that warm sting whilst doing other stuff.

I just love to spank, paddle or otherwise treat a willing partners ass for mutual pleasure. It has to be mutual, a pretence of a misdemeanour might be there but she and I are in no doubt it's for shared satisfaction.

The red glow appearing, spacing out the blows in time and target, down almost to her stocking tops....

Then, a real bonus, pussy spanking too, seeing her open and ready, nervous but oh, so wet. The feel of her lips under my hand as the blow lands and the telltale widening of the lips, the appearance of her clit....

Delicious, and indeed best done with and by someone who knows what it's about, who 'gets it'. X
 
I love it! Both giving and recieving can be on my list, but recieving is my thing. :rolleyes: Recently my partner has been trying it out and umph, steady my beating heart...
 
I just love to spank, paddle or otherwise treat a willing partners ass for mutual pleasure. It has to be mutual, a pretence of a misdemeanour might be there but she and I are in no doubt it's for shared satisfaction.

The red glow appearing, spacing out the blows in time and target, down almost to her stocking tops....

Then, a real bonus, pussy spanking too, seeing her open and ready, nervous but oh, so wet. The feel of her lips under my hand as the blow lands and the telltale widening of the lips, the appearance of her clit....

Delicious, and indeed best done with and by someone who knows what it's about, who 'gets it'. X

Mmmmmm agreed!
 
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