Tips for cunnilingus?

[hulmule]

Practice cursive !!

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Practice cursive !!

I just saw the post prior to yours and started laughing, was gonna write the same thing as you .

 

[hulmule]

I just saw the post prior to yours and started laughing, was gonna write the same thing as you .

Lost art lol For a guy ive been told i have very nice cursive

 

[KristainSC]

When a woman says ‘yes, right there’ we mean ‘yes. Right there.’ Don’t change it. Don’t move it. Don’t ‘improve it’ Don’t do a backflip and try to land back on that spot. Just keep doing what you’re doing, exactly where you’re doing it.

^^this. Just listen to us. And don’t think that making a ‘slurping’ sound is in anyway pleasurable. Well it may be for some but it is a complete turn off for me. Moaning or telling me how good I taste is, however, encouraged. In general, explore us all over, kiss, lick and don’t forget to suck on occasion as well.

 

[sterculius]

My wife likes me to tease her by biting, nibbling and licking on her belly, down to her pubes, then traveling down her legs before returning to her crotch, briefly licking her clit, then repeating the process. She lets me know when I should focus on her delicious cunt by first moving her hips to bring her pussy closer to my mouth, finally grabbing my head and forcing me into her pussy. After she has had one orgasm, I usually back off before giving her two or more orgasms. I usually jerk off as I'm eating her

 

[thespiceoflife]

^^this. Just listen to us. And don’t think that making a ‘slurping’ sound is in anyway pleasurable. Well it may be for some but it is a complete turn off for me. Moaning or telling me how good I taste is, however, encouraged. In general, explore us all over, kiss, lick and don’t forget to suck on occasion as well.

Always good to find out what works. Hope you find what you are looking for on these pages. Personally I love the variety and general lack of judgement of other people's desires. There is usually something which turns me on, so a satisfied member here.

 

[klippert]

1.) Eat like it’s your last meal and be a messy eater. And don’t forget to tongue her ass!!!
2.) Add some cream to that pie if you want to really show her how much you enjoy giving her pleasure.
3.). Refer to 1&2.

 

[uncle easy]

Everywhere

Try tongueing and sucking all of it. Then spread her open and tease her pee hole with the tip of your tongue. You might be surprised at her reaction. I love eating pussy!!! Always have and always will. Enough said.

 

[Mariepsylckr]

I'm interested in ladies thoughts on this too. Is it best to "focus on the clit", or using your tongue more liberally...up and down the lips. More "sucking" or licking, or a bit of both. Fingers inside or not?

Of course everyone. has their preference, and there's no "one lick fits all," but I'm very interested in ladies perspectives to give me more ideas. I, too, am VERY eager and enthusiastic, and could do it all day with a receptive partner.

Ask the lady if she likes it light or aggressive. When I go down on a woman I kiss the pussy lips like the lips, passionately with tongue action. The clit is last, lightly sucking and licking it at the same time. When she is about to come, insert a finger or 2 and hit the Gspot as you are eating her out. The hips would be bucking by now.

 

[BluegrassBelle]

Keeping in mind that every woman is different and what may produce magic for one may be well less magical for another.
1. Take your time. I once heard Robin Williams say " pack a lunch a stay a while" with regards to this topic and I have to agree. For me a good oral orgasm takes build up and that takes time which leads me to...
2. " Advance and retreat". In other words when you find what works don't just go in guns blazing. Take her right there to the edge and then back down just a little. Keep licking, kissing, sucking touching etc just slightly less and then slowly build back up again. This will drive me mad until I'm either begging Him to finish or I've got a death grip on his head using his tongue to finish myself.
3.Don't bring the tsunami. It's good to keep things nice and warm and wet but slobber is usually not welcomed.
4.It's not just about her clit. Don't get me wrong, clitoral orgasms are AMAZING, but I also like to have attention paid to my entire pussy. Lick and nibble the inner and outer lips, kiss her mound, penetrate her with your tongue, kiss the sensitive crease along her inner thighs.
5.It should go without saying but I've sadly had to tell a few guys in my time to WATCH THE TEETH. Once engorged a vagina in general is relatively sensitive and a clit even more so. A nibble can be nice, even a quick bite in the right spot at the right moment is pleasurable (I actually quite enjoy little love bites in the creases of my hips and thighs) but don't gnaw at it!

Beyond that just be enthusiastic about it, listen to what her body is telling you and be open to suggestions and direction and I think a good time will be had by all.
Bon Appetite!

 

[Escierto]

When a woman says ‘yes, right there’ we mean ‘yes. Right there.’ Don’t change it. Don’t move it. Don’t ‘improve it’ Don’t do a backflip and try to land back on that spot. Just keep doing what you’re doing, exactly where you’re doing it.

This is exactly right. A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to change it up. That’s fine if it’s not working but if she has her hands on your head applying pressure and moaning, CONTINUE WHAT YOU ARE DOING.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Ask her!

Here is the thing... All or none of these suggestions could be relevant. The best way to get good at eating pussy is to find out what the person who owns the pussy likes. I think the sexiest thing a person can do to make it clear from the beginning that they want to know what works for me. Say something like "tell me when what I'm doing feels good, I want to do what makes you crazy." Inviting feedback and not assuming you know is way more sexy than a person who dives in thinking they know what will make me cum, if they actually don't know.

If you know she's into butt stuff go ahead and try some of that. If you've never gone there before, I'd suggest a gentle brush with your thumb and asking "is it okay if I touch you here?" Before doing anything more. Permission is way better than waiting for her to stop you.

Mostly though, don't assume you know, go into it like an exploration. Make it your mission to find out what she likes.

 

[naughtymind]

Here is the thing... All or none of these suggestions could be relevant. The best way to get good at eating pussy is to find out what the person who owns the pussy likes. I think the sexiest thing a person can do to make it clear from the beginning that they want to know what works for me. Say something like "tell me when what I'm doing feels good, I want to do what makes you crazy." Inviting feedback and not assuming you know is way more sexy than a person who doves I'm thinking they know what will make me cum.

If you know she's into butt stuff go ahead and try some of that. If you've never gone there before, I'd suggest a gentle brush with your thumb and asking "is it okay if I touch you here?" Before doing anything more. Permission is way better than waiting for her to stop you.

Mostly though, don't assume you know, go into in like an exploration. Make it your mission to find out what she likes.

Well put. I love the last two sentences especially:
Mostly though, don't assume you know, go into in like an exploration. Make it your mission to find out what she likes
Part of the overall joy and pleasure from sex in general right there if you ask me.

 

[Mtnmike]

Here is the thing... All or none of these suggestions could be relevant. The best way to get good at eating pussy is to find out what the person who owns the pussy likes. I think the sexiest thing a person can do to make it clear from the beginning that they want to know what works for me. Say something like "tell me when what I'm doing feels good, I want to do what makes you crazy." Inviting feedback and not assuming you know is way more sexy than a person who dives in thinking they know what will make me cum, if they actually don't know.

If you know she's into butt stuff go ahead and try some of that. If you've never gone there before, I'd suggest a gentle brush with your thumb and asking "is it okay if I touch you here?" Before doing anything more. Permission is way better than waiting for her to stop you.

Mostly though, don't assume you know, go into it like an exploration. Make it your mission to find out what she likes.

So True, I've been with women that liked similar things & others that liked something totally different, so yes explore & ask in a polite, sexual way. Just my two cents.

 

[AlexBailey]

My second ever lover and I were each other's seconds. We had fun exploring all the stuff we'd missed on our first time around with other partners. We agreed to allow the other to try anything and if it was too much for either of us we would say so. It would probably be some seriously funny stuff to watch. We tried all kinds of stuff and never stopped each other and boy did I enjoy her pussy.

The nervous young tension, the insecurity of inexperience... Like seasoning good food with intense hunger. Oh, to be able to do it for the first time again...

 

[KimGordon67]

Hold her so she can't move away. I have no idea why, but a lot of us wriggle away from things that feel good. Stop her doing that - even pull her in closer so she knows you really want. And hold her there and keep going when she cums.

 

[LincolnDuncan]

I love to eat pussy like a lesbian.

Seriously, I love to eat pussy.

I love the reaction I get from my lover.

I want her to cum so hard that she's afraid of hurting me.

I've had women ask if I'm o.k when they are able.

I love it!

 

[NationalParker]

Spell the alphabet on her clit. Slowly with the tip of your tongue.

Now if you know calligraphy you are a genius! Long, slow deliberate strokes is what I do with my woman. I enjoy being patient, enjoying the moment to see, feel and hear her excitement building.

 

[SubmissiveMom]

Lol x It's called a CLITORIS, just north of our labia (lips) x x x

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Work up to the "meal" before diving in. I have been with men who thought I wanted to be tongue fucked hard right from the start. Yes, after I have been sufficiently worked up, but take your time. Listen to her moans, pay attntion to her body movements and if she says something like " Don't stop..." for good ness sake don't stop! Also, guys, no one knows how to pleasure women, like other women, so take in some professionaly done lesbian videos. Nina Hartleys Guide To...series of videos explores this and other aspects. Girls, if you have a man who knows how to pleasure you orally..hes a keeper. Mine has for 30 years and still like the first time, can send me over the edge

 

[hulmule]

These all sound great, but wife is in menopause so she has no interest this either ...

 

[bunny4med]

I’m curious how many woman would like to have a nice guy they could contact for no reciprocation necessary booty call oral.

Tongues 'R' Us?
Female and male options?
Yes please.

Shave
Don't Try to please us in 30 seconds.
Vary a pace and place
Patience, we don't always know what will send us over the edge either
Nipple play and kisses on the thighs
Look us in the eyes

 

[AlexBailey]

Fresh is nice. It doesn't have to be freshly washed, but please no perfumes or scented douches... they can make me sneeze!

rose scent can be okay...

 

[Mariepsylckr]

I'm interested in ladies thoughts on this too. Is it best to "focus on the clit", or using your tongue more liberally...up and down the lips. More "sucking" or licking, or a bit of both. Fingers inside or not?

Of course everyone. has their preference, and there's no "one lick fits all," but I'm very interested in ladies perspectives to give me more ideas. I, too, am VERY eager and enthusiastic, and could do it all day with a receptive partner.

There is a similar post here.. My answer would be the same - Focus on the clit and most women like it gentle in my experience (myself included). Gentle licking, kissing, tongue flicking on the clit, light sucking. When she is wet, insert 1 or 2 fingers and aim for the G spot while still gently licking or sucking the clit. That will drive her nuts and most of the time either she will cum or want to be penetrated more.

 

[Mariepsylckr]

Fresh is nice. It doesn't have to be freshly washed, but please no perfumes or scented douches... they can make me sneeze!

rose scent can be okay...

Waxed or newly shaved too.