Tips for cunnilingus?

[Mariepsylckr]

One more thing

I also kiss pussy lips like I would kiss the lips/mouth. So there would be some tongue action

 

[Dutchslut39]

There is a similar post here.. My answer would be the same - Focus on the clit and most women like it gentle in my experience (myself included). Gentle licking, kissing, tongue flicking on the clit, light sucking. When she is wet, insert 1 or 2 fingers and aim for the G spot while still gently licking or sucking the clit. That will drive her nuts and most of the time either she will cum or want to be penetrated more.

That !

 

[frenchknickers]

One of my live in partners had very prominent pussy lips that would hang down when excited They would get bigger as I sucked on them ,which turned her on immensely Now and again she would just say,,, Suck me baby till I blow.. Her thighs were very thick so it was one hell of a ride.
Never complained just went down to do her request.

 

[Mariepsylckr]

One of my live in partners had very prominent pussy lips that would hang down when excited They would get bigger as I sucked on them ,which turned her on immensely Now and again she would just say,,, Suck me baby till I blow.. Her thighs were very thick so it was one hell of a ride.
Never complained just went down to do her request.

Sounds amazing!!!

 

[Titsandclits]

For my wife and I, a lot has to happen before I dive in. But when the time comes, I want to taste and lick every part of her cunt. I will lick all of her lips from the bottom to the top, occasionally coming into contact with her clit but not staying for long before heading back down. I like to try and insert my tongue but I'm not blessed with a long tongue but I try. I might also be sliding two fingers in but I will avoid her G-spot. She will try and depress her bum so that it brings her clit into contact with my mouth which I will allow for a while but then I will put my hands under her and lift her up so I can lick all of her again. We do this for a good while (I've never timed it). Eventually I will give in and give her clit all the attention it needs. I like to stretch the skin above the clit which will pull her hood back leaving her clit totally exposed. This direct contact will drive her over the edge. She will want me to keep going until she has had three or four orgasms, occasionally it is more. As mentioned by someone I have to hold on as it becomes a wild ride. Fingers on her G-spot will make the orgasms more intense. She has never squirted, I don't know if it's something I need to do or it's something she won't allow to happen. Getting her so that she is on the edge of the bed with me kneeling on the floor gives me the most access.

Occasionally when she has got out of the bath, I will dive straight in but slowly and the focus is all on her, it will not end with me fucking her. I love it when she is squeaky clean. The final step to ultimate nirvana would be to get her to shave. I would pay whatever was needed for laser treatment, oh for her to be silky smooth.

 

[Mariepsylckr]

For my wife and I, a lot has to happen before I dive in. But when the time comes, I want to taste and lick every part of her cunt. I will lick all of her lips from the bottom to the top, occasionally coming into contact with her clit but not staying for long before heading back down. I like to try and insert my tongue but I'm not blessed with a long tongue but I try. I might also be sliding two fingers in but I will avoid her G-spot. She will try and depress her bum so that it brings her clit into contact with my mouth which I will allow for a while but then I will put my hands under her and lift her up so I can lick all of her again. We do this for a good while (I've never timed it). Eventually I will give in and give her clit all the attention it needs. I like to stretch the skin above the clit which will pull her hood back leaving her clit totally exposed. This direct contact will drive her over the edge. She will want me to keep going until she has had three or four orgasms, occasionally it is more. As mentioned by someone I have to hold on as it becomes a wild ride. Fingers on her G-spot will make the orgasms more intense. She has never squirted, I don't know if it's something I need to do or it's something she won't allow to happen. Getting her so that she is on the edge of the bed with me kneeling on the floor gives me the most access.

Occasionally when she has got out of the bath, I will dive straight in but slowly and the focus is all on her, it will not end with me fucking her. I love it when she is squeaky clean. The final step to ultimate nirvana would be to get her to shave. I would pay whatever was needed for laser treatment, oh for her to be silky smooth.

You sound like you drive your wife wild with your talented tongue.
And yes, women can get to orgasm several times in a row. I think some squirt and some dont. It’s not something that can happen just like that bec I’ve only had it happen to me about
2 or 3 times. And once with an ex-girlfriend.

 

[bill3901]

do the ABCs? lol

 

[Mariepsylckr]

do the ABCs? lol

That works too.. even better with a tongue piercing.

 

[Titsandclits]

Am I missing something?

What are the ABC's? Is it anything I'm not doing as mentioned in my post above?

 

[Mariepsylckr]

What are the ABC's? Is it anything I'm not doing as mentioned in my post above?

No. We just mean you’re writing the alphabet with your tongue. If you want to do all “O”s or “I”s, sure that will be welcomed.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

There is a similar post here.. My answer would be the same - Focus on the clit and most women like it gentle in my experience (myself included). Gentle licking, kissing, tongue flicking on the clit, light sucking. When she is wet, insert 1 or 2 fingers and aim for the G spot while still gently licking or sucking the clit. That will drive her nuts and most of the time either she will cum or want to be penetrated more.

ARE YOU SURE---, WE HAVE NEVER MET BEFORE???
Becuz other a few 'other' flourishes that I throw into the mix you just mentioned, you outlined my most favored modius operendi.
With the exception that the wife can no longer take even a pointer finger inserted inside her without a GREAT deal of pain. And lubrication is not even a consideration as far as a source of pain. She would be wet enough for me to catch her drippings
in my hand.

I know this sounds ridiculous on the face of it but could send me a pic of the top of your head? Nothing else just the crown of your head?

 

[Titsandclits]

No. We just mean you’re writing the alphabet with your tongue. If you want to do all “O”s or “I”s, sure that will be welcomed.

Thanks, I thought I had something missing in my pussy licking repertoire. Not sure I'm going to practice this, I would be spending to much time concentrating on which letter I had got to and not enjoying bringing my wife to multiple climaxes You know us men struggle with multi tasking LOL.

 

[Titsandclits]

That works too.. even better with a tongue piercing.

I wouldn't mind feeling a tongue piercing on my cock, but that's off topic

 

[IsItBad]

I'm eager, willing & very happy to every day but wife lost her libido 12 years ago

Wish I could find a lady willing to fill in.

there is literally nothing YOU can do. im in the same boat. tried everything imaginable. simply ZERO desire for ANYTHING remotely physical. it is a sad state of affairs almost worse than actually being alone. maybe it is worse. being with someone you love and care about but who has no physical desire for you whatsoever. it sucks and yet many couples find themselves in this situation at some point in their marriage. heartbreaking really.

 

[klippert]

There is no science. Eat that pussy and her ass like it’s your last meal. When she pulls you off, you know you’ve done well. Don’t be afraid during your meal to follow her directions. That’s who you only care to learn from

 

[VA_Boy]

One size does not fit all. Rather than asking what other people do, ask your partner what she likes. Have her show you. My ex wife placed my hand over her hand while she masturbated, so I could learn the rhythm and pressure she liked. Apply that to cunnilingus, then watch how he body responds to what you are doing. Learn how she responds when she gets excited. Many of my lovers will get a red flush across the upper chest, nipples harden, etc when getting excited. Take your time.

 

[oneblueye]

there is literally nothing YOU can do. im in the same boat. tried everything imaginable. simply ZERO desire for ANYTHING remotely physical. it is a sad state of affairs almost worse than actually being alone. maybe it is worse. being with someone you love and care about but who has no physical desire for you whatsoever. it sucks and yet many couples find themselves in this situation at some point in their marriage. heartbreaking really.

maaaaaan, I know what ya' all are going thru having traveled that road myself. After my wife came out on the other side of "the Pause". We almost had a sexual relationship again...though admittedly it was at a minus 1 in a Zero to Ten scale.
There were times when she would initiate the activities but found herself incapable of completing anything, except sometimes she would jack me off.
She did spend a lot of time trying to explain the same things over and over and over again, about how it is during the Pause for women...something that I heard alot in the fifteen years she was going thru...something on the order of several times a day.

 

[lil_jenni]

So, like others have said, pay attention! listen to what she's telling you with words (oh yes... do that... don't stop... fuck yeah... ow, no biting!... stuff like that), listen to the non-linguistic sounds she's making (moaning, whimpering, gasping, saying ow... etc.), pay attention to her non-verbals (pulling head in closer probably means she doesn't want you to stop; pushing it away probably means she does ). And ask if she likes it. Sure, a limited number of women may want you to be so good at it you don't have to ask, but I bet most are like me and are more than willing to let you know if it's working if you ask.

But most important--don't generalize what one girl liked to what all girls want and ignore everything above and expect to magically get the same result. Hell, I don't always like the same thing from moment to moment, not to mention from one time to the next. And I'm just one woman. But that doesn't mean don't try what's given you success in the past. Just realize that it may not always work, and be ready to adapt when it doesn't.

Oh, and if you have a beard, don't run out and shave unless your woman tells you to. Hubby was always clean shaven, and I preferred him freshly shaven when he went down on me rather than stubbly. But he grew a beard during Covid shut down, and oh my God do I ever love the feel of his beard tickling my inner thighs. He's not allowed to shave it too short anytime soon.

 

[Mtnmike]

So, like others have said, pay attention! listen to what she's telling you with words (oh yes... do that... don't stop... fuck yeah... ow, no biting!... stuff like that), listen to the non-linguistic sounds she's making (moaning, whimpering, gasping, saying ow... etc.), pay attention to her non-verbals (pulling head in closer probably means she doesn't want you to stop; pushing it away probably means she does ). And ask if she likes it. Sure, a limited number of women may want you to be so good at it you don't have to ask, but I bet most are like me and are more than willing to let you know if it's working if you ask.

But most important--don't generalize what one girl liked to what all girls want and ignore everything above and expect to magically get the same result. Hell, I don't always like the same thing from moment to moment, not to mention from one time to the next. And I'm just one woman. But that doesn't mean don't try what's given you success in the past. Just realize that it may not always work, and be ready to adapt when it doesn't.

Oh, and if you have a beard, don't run out and shave unless your woman tells you to. Hubby was always clean shaven, and I preferred him freshly shaven when he went down on me rather than stubbly. But he grew a beard during Covid shut down, and oh my God do I ever love the feel of his beard tickling my inner thighs. He's not allowed to shave it too short anytime soon.

Thank You for mentioning the last paragraph, I've had a neatly trimmed beard for over 35 years and can tell you I've had women refuse to let me go down on them at first, some never would let me. Like you, the ones that did said they wished they'd tried it sooner.

 

[lil_jenni]

Thank You for mentioning the last paragraph, I've had a neatly trimmed beard for over 35 years and can tell you I've had women refuse to let me go down on them at first, some never would let me. Like you, the ones that did said they wished they'd tried it sooner.

No problem. And yeah, I kinda wish now he would've grown it years ago. Not that he was ever bad -- his tongue and fingers are awesome. But the beard takes it all to a whole new level. Of course, he washes and grooms his. I probably wouldn't like it it if it were unkempt and wiry like some guys' beards look to be.

And I did want to add one more thing about asking if she likes what you're doing. If she says yes and tells you to quit asking, then quit asking.

 

[Perfectangel100]

Kiss her pussy lips like you would kiss her mouth. Your tongue probing between them. Biting the lips softly. And then focus on the clit. I orgasm easiest when he is licking my clit and has two fingers deep in me. If she likes her ass touched, do that as well. And for a lot of women what is going on in their mind is very important. So if she likes it rough, or to be dominate or whatever she is into, make sure she feels it.

 

[Titsandclits]

Kiss her pussy lips like you would kiss her mouth. Your tongue probing between them. Biting the lips softly. And then focus on the clit. I orgasm easiest when he is licking my clit and has two fingers deep in me. If she likes her ass touched, do that as well. And for a lot of women what is going on in their mind is very important. So if she likes it rough, or to be dominate or whatever she is into, make sure she feels it.

A great first post, I look forward to hearing more.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

Kiss her pussy lips like you would kiss her mouth. Your tongue probing between them. Biting the lips softly. And then focus on the clit. I orgasm easiest when he is licking my clit and has two fingers deep in me. If she likes her ass touched, do that as well. And for a lot of women what is going on in their mind is very important. So if she likes it rough, or to be dominate or whatever she is into, make sure she feels it.

Thank you for taking the time to write this...really appreciate your insight and guidance!

 

[OlderBtm4U]

Thank you for taking the time to write this...really appreciate your insight and guidance!

So do us lurkers

 

[Pad_Foot]

The hard way?
I doubt many women could
Or would ever admit it

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