totally not bdsm related - your take on lingerie??

[cookiecat]

re: cookie's underwear. cookie doesn't wear any underwear (I felt like Sissy typing that! ) Ages ago, it was a sexy "command" from someone. Now, it's just a lazy habit. It's kind of exciting to think about actually putting on panties to feel sexy.

re: what is lingerie? Have to agree with twister. It covers a lot! (hey! I punned!)

omg. I have to go. Time.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

re: cookie's underwear. cookie doesn't wear any underwear (I felt like Sissy typing that! ) Ages ago, it was a sexy "command" from someone. Now, it's just a lazy habit. It's kind of exciting to think about actually putting on panties to feel sexy.

re: what is lingerie? Have to agree with twister. It covers a lot! (hey! I punned!)

omg. I have to go. Time.

Time?!

Good luck! Have fun! You're beautiful!!

 

[jaF0]

 

[twister947]

No, no, no, no! This is not a picture thread! Take spam somewhere else!

 

[cookiecat]

^^^ hahaha.

Nope.

Kinda greasy, too.

 

[gracie920101]

I just thought that spray tan needed more drying time.

 

[gracie920101]

Lingerie=

1) lace-edged demi bra with stretch-lace skimpy high rise panties. Add a garterbelt if appropriate to what you're wearing.

2) lightweight corset with attached garters - the corset can have a half or cutout bra, both look really sexy.

Just my opinion...

 

[Aphro]

I only really got into lingerie in the last couple of years or so.

I used to avoid it because I didn't look like a Victoria's Secret model, and thought I was too chubby for sexy, lacy things. I stuck resolutely to white cotton sensible undergarments.

But then, I branched out, gradually, and developed a taste for pretty little whips of panties, so pretty. And they even had some in my size! I revelled in the joy of matching bra/panties, the sexy secret you carry all day. This brought me to garters, corsets, and thigh highs - oh my! I just love lace, and adore sheer, see through things. In many ways so much sexier even than naked.

My love of pretty things has actually helped me so much with confidence and body acceptance. Not being "perfect" has made me learn to enhance my good features with things that fit well and make me feel feminine. I wear it for me, first and foremost.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Ooooh, i want a cupless corset! I like my boobs.

Maybe wear it to a kink event, if i ever get to one.



Aphro, you look amazing in everything I've ever seen you wear.

 

[seela]

My love of pretty things has actually helped me so much with confidence and body acceptance. Not being "perfect" has made me learn to enhance my good features with things that fit well and make me feel feminine. I wear it for me, first and foremost.

This sounds so lovely.

I wish it could be me.

My experience is that I feel so awkward in lingerie that I make everybody else feel awkward as well. When wear lingerie I can only see the bits that are wrong.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

This sounds so lovely.

I wish it could be me.

My experience is that I feel so awkward in lingerie that I make everybody else feel awkward as well. When wear lingerie I can only see the bits that are wrong.

...

 

[cookiecat]

I only really got into lingerie in the last couple of years or so.

I used to avoid it because I didn't look like a Victoria's Secret model, and thought I was too chubby for sexy, lacy things. I stuck resolutely to white cotton sensible undergarments.

But then, I branched out, gradually, and developed a taste for pretty little whips of panties, so pretty. And they even had some in my size! I revelled in the joy of matching bra/panties, the sexy secret you carry all day. This brought me to garters, corsets, and thigh highs - oh my! I just love lace, and adore sheer, see through things. In many ways so much sexier even than naked.

My love of pretty things has actually helped me so much with confidence and body acceptance. Not being "perfect" has made me learn to enhance my good features with things that fit well and make me feel feminine. I wear it for me, first and foremost.

What a good post! 100% agree with being clothed feeling sexier than naked. It's refreshing to hear you grew in to your confidence. As evidenced by your avatar.

 

[cookiecat]

cookie's underwear update:

Or really, my first time back in the sex saddle update

(because I'm sure you're all on the edge of your collective seats)

So I had a sleepover with a guy.

This would be the first time I've been sexual in a very very long time. And intimate. I haven't been touched or held hands or been hugged by a lover in a very very long time. (Mr. cookie's hands were the first to go )

It was with a guy I've known pre-Mr. cookie. He knows about the ALS "journey, via FB and a blog.

We started talking. Fast forward to the slumber party.

Without sounding too crass, I really wanted to get fucked.

That didn't happen. Cute underwear and all.

As much as I love and deeply, profoundly, heart-achingly miss Mr. cookie, I don't feel guilty about the thought of being with someone else. I used to. I can't say I've moved on. Maybe moved forward? I was ready.

Needless to say, he wasn't. The ghost of Mr. cookie loomed large. I never really took that in to consideration - what affect it could have on new guy. We got through it in a cuddly, snuggly way. Unfortunately not in a ravish and fuck way.

Hmmmm. This is a lingerie related thread. Not a dissertation about my first time back in the game sex shenanigans.

I wore cute red cotton undies and a white tank top the first night of the sleepover. The ensemble was well received.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Thank you for the update. I was wondering! And hoping for good things.

Did you enjoy the snuggling? Was he a good kisser?

 

[AlwaysFara]

Thank you for the update. I was wondering! And hoping for good things.

Did you enjoy the snuggling? Was he a good kisser?

This last question is what I’m waiting to hear. With bated breath. She’s being very secretive, our cookie is.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

This last question is what I’m waiting to hear. With bated breath. She’s being very secretive, our cookie is.

Haha!

Also, does he have a hairy dad bod?

 

[midwestyankee]

This last question is what I’m waiting to hear. With bated breath. She’s being very secretive, our cookie is.

1,000 points to New York House for the correct spelling of "bated."

 

[AlwaysFara]

1,000 points to New York House for the correct spelling of "bated."

Kewl!

 

[cookiecat]

haha! I don't kiss and tell. Or did I do that already??

Let's just say it ended up being all good.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

haha! I don't kiss and tell. Or did I do that already??

Let's just say it ended up being all good.

Yay!

 

[gracie920101]

Dammit! I thought that mating and lost virginity dance I performed at the new moon would have helped.

Maybe I shouldn't have substituted snow crabs for the oysters. (I don't like oysters!)

Sorry Cookie, my bad.

 

[twister947]

This is very good news. I'm happy for you, Cookie.

 

[Goldenfinger]

It doesn’t have to be lingerie, I like sexy outfits. I think my wife looks sexy in a dress shirt or sweatpants and a wife beater. It doesn’t have to be see thru and lace.