Turn ons/Turn offs

Turn ons - nice smile, gray hair, well groomed and smelling great and beautiful hands
Turn offs - smoker, body odor, loud attention seeker, ear hair, nose hair and unruly eyebrows but the no 1 thing is a coated tongue.
 
I Can Only Imagine!

It happens for both genders although I would venture to say more so with women posting....
On top of that a number of them are there solely for a one way exchange....focused on them getting off and then gone....the old phrase "Wham, Bam thank you Ma'am! comes to mind....

Now don't get me wrong, if the exchange begins to warm up .... OK. Just make sure some time is spent reading the profile and a little historical info on past posts....guess what? You can learn quite a bit! OK, now I will climb down fro m the soap box!


Who think because im on here, all I want to do is talk dirty to them, to get rid of there morning wood, they don't even say hello
 
It happens for both genders although I would venture to say more so with women posting....
On top of that a number of them are there solely for a one way exchange....focused on them getting off and then gone....the old phrase "Wham, Bam thank you Ma'am! comes to mind....

Now don't get me wrong, if the exchange begins to warm up .... OK. Just make sure some time is spent reading the profile and a little historical info on past posts....guess what? You can learn quite a bit! OK, now I will climb down fro m the soap box!

Haha.... I was going to come in here and post this as a turn off too:D

In spite of my very pointed signature, in the last 15 minutes I still got 2 No post, No profile wonders PMing me in a very patronising way, thinking they were somehow going to get lucky.

Turn on - someone who posts interesting, witty posts on the threads and talks to women like they are *gasp* people.
 
OOPS! My bad. I guess you are talking to me. I missed the word "visually" in the first post.


Turn-ons: Nice hair that looks like it has been combed/styled (any length or color and bald-headed women are also hot if it'a a look they can pull off); dark eyes; necks with an exaggerated throat; deep, round belly buttons; back of the knee; muscular legs; impossible hips; teardrop breasts that can be seen from behind; smooth pussy or hair that has been shaved into a "V" shape (it's the idea of doing that for someone that makes it a turn-on).

Turn-offs: Bad teeth; heavy makeup; flat ass; skinny legs; areola that cover more than fifty percent of the breast; bed breast implants; butt implants; hideous tattoos; smokers; drug users.

I guess smokers and drug users are less of a "visual" turn-off, but I just can't get around those two for anyone. Definitely deal-breakers.

P.S. A lot of people in this thread can't read.
 
Turn on - someone who posts interesting, witty posts on the threads and talks to women like they are *gasp* people.

That's what gets me... like I wonder if the guys who write this stuff ever actually read the BS they write or if they even THINK they might get lucky with it...

Or if they just send the same PM to 1000 different women figuring if they get lucky 0.1% of the time, they're still getting lucky once.
 
In general…
Turn on: older men, "salt and pepper" hair, nice body, intelligence, confidence, awesome sense of humor, and a gentleman in the streets but freak in the sheets
Turn off: cocky, rude, smoking, huge beer gut, the "preppy" frat boy thing, and I don't like my men more drunk than me lol
 
Turn Ons: Confidence, Smart (this is like number 1), Good hygiene, physically active, will get done up once and a while, great at oral

Turn offs: smokers, lazy, rude, pessimistic, girls who sing musicals all the time,
 
I'm listing visual and non-visual traits, because they're both equally important to me.

Turn ons: Intelligence, sense of humor that matches my own, confidence, runners, readers, strong shoulders, chest hair (but not too much), tall men, 5 o'clock shadows, boxer briefs, combat uniforms, dog tags, men who are great with kids, sweat (the kind on an in-shape man after a workout, not because he is winded from climbing a flight of stairs), great smile, suits, strong hands, blushing, a man who know his way around the English language.

Turn offs: Arrogance, pushiness, pretentious hipsters, ear hair, tighty whities, gold chains, too much cologne, sports cars, show offs, aloofness, uneducated, ugly jeans (subjective, I know), bad dressers in general, long fingernails, bad teeth, talks down to women, strangers who ask "can I get a smile?" (I'll smile when I feel like it, asshole), moobs.
 
Oh and by the way. some people on here might not be able to read, but you can't spell.. "bed breast implants".


Turn-ons: Nice hair that looks like it has been combed/styled (any length or color and bald-headed women are also hot if it'a a look they can pull off); dark eyes; necks with an exaggerated throat; deep, round belly buttons; back of the knee; muscular legs; impossible hips; teardrop breasts that can be seen from behind; smooth pussy or hair that has been shaved into a "V" shape (it's the idea of doing that for someone that makes it a turn-on).

Turn-offs: Bad teeth; heavy makeup; flat ass; skinny legs; areola that cover more than fifty percent of the breast; bed breast implants; butt implants; hideous tattoos; smokers; drug users.

I guess smokers and drug users are less of a "visual" turn-off, but I just can't get around those two for anyone. Definitely deal-breakers.

P.S. A lot of people in this thread can't read.
 
Turn ons (among many): A mischievous smile, a riding crop in her hand hand, and a British accent. ;)
 
I'm listing visual and non-visual traits, because they're both equally important to me.

Turn ons: Intelligence, sense of humor that matches my own, confidence, runners, readers, strong shoulders, chest hair (but not too much), tall men, 5 o'clock shadows, boxer briefs, combat uniforms, dog tags, men who are great with kids, sweat (the kind on an in-shape man after a workout, not because he is winded from climbing a flight of stairs), great smile, suits, strong hands, blushing, a man who know his way around the English language.

Turn offs: Arrogance, pushiness, pretentious hipsters, ear hair, tighty whities, gold chains, too much cologne, sports cars, show offs, aloofness, uneducated, ugly jeans (subjective, I know), bad dressers in general, long fingernails, bad teeth, talks down to women, strangers who ask "can I get a smile?" (I'll smile when I feel like it, asshole), moobs.

Sweet...I have a lot of the turn on's and none of the turn off's :D I'm not a big runner though...but I can always change that :D

And I will never ask you for a smile cuz I don't wanna be an asshole in your eyes :kiss:
 
Sweet...I have a lot of the turn on's and none of the turn off's :D I'm not a big runner though...but I can always change that :D

And I will never ask you for a smile cuz I don't wanna be an asshole in your eyes :kiss:

Lol. Well, get to running! ;)
 
Turn Ons: Everything in proportion, beautiful eyes, great smile, soft skin, sense of humor, down-to-earth, caring (without being a bleeding-heart), beautiful hair, gracefulness.

Turn Offs: Holier-than-thou-art attitudes are a huge off for me, fake people, stupidity (not knowing something is one thing, but being a downright dumbass is another), hipsters/yuppies, bad teeth, bad hygiene.
 
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What turns you on visually about a guy/girl

the biggest 'turn on' to me is 'symmetry'
how everything physically relates to everything else on that can be seen or at least guessed.
Then how everything that can be seen, felt, heard and understood about them relates to me. I know it sounds like a long drawn out process but it just takes a couple of minutes.
 
Well, my last post didn't quite fit the thread, now did it? So visually speaking...

Turn-on-- It's all about the smile

Turn-off-- Negative facial expressions... Pissed off, haughty, eye-rolling, frowns
 
Hello Susanne1987. I guess my biggest turn on is learning about her secrets, especially sexual secrets and interests. I also like watching how a woman moves. Sometimes small things she does will be a turn on. Physically, I like a lot of variety. But I agree I don't care for my women to have back hair. :)
 
Smoking is probably my biggest turn off. I absolutely can't stand the smell of cigarette smoke or it on someone. Fucking gross and disgusting.

Way to many turn ons to list

L:rose:
 
For men:

Turn on-Long hair, nice teeth, nice eyes
Turn off-unclean teeth

For women:
Turn on-Bigger women, pretty eyes, soft hair, nice teeth
Turn off-unclean teeth
 
Turn-ons about men: gorgeous hair, nicely-toned body, strong-looking arms, strong-looking legs, nice butt, pretty eyes, confident yet easygoing attitude, humility, if he looks good in cargo shorts or gym clothes

Turn-offs about men: smoking, tattoos, baldness, shaved heads, hairy chests, beer guts, arrogance, misogyny
 
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