Turn ons/Turn offs

[BongoGal]

Turn on: cyclist calves
Turn off: weak-looking rounded shoulders

 

[baller4130]

Turn ons: Intelligence, passion, confidence, humour, optimism, different accents, nice hair, I'm a sucker for a toned bum as well,

Turn offs: Smoking, anyone who is rude to customer service workers (rude in general actually), discriminating of other cultures/races/genders/ages/orientations

 

[BongoGal]

Turn offs: ...anyone who is rude to customer service workers...

Yeah. I was once on a date with a guy that I was definitely going to bed with later that night...until he decided to 'impress' me by belittling our waiter. My knees quickly slammed shut.

 

[baller4130]

Yeah. I was once on a date with a guy that I was definitely going to bed with later that night...until he decided to 'impress' me by belittling our waiter. My knees quickly slammed shut.

Agreed. If a girl were to do that we would not go very far at all.

 

[Curiouscouple8]

That's a tough one bc attitude is the most sexy thing to me.

 

[susanne1987]

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That's a tough one bc attitude is the most sexy thing to me.

This may sound dumb, and I can hear the giggling around the globe, but what does bc attitude mean?

 

[jackdaw]

This may sound dumb, and I can hear the giggling around the globe, but what does bc attitude mean?

Hey. Nothing dumb about not getting other people's abbreviations . . .

. . . I think it means 'because'. In other words, 'That's a tough one because attitude is the most sexy thing to me.
'
Does that help?

 

[monsterrdude]

Turn-ons: long hair, that sharp-eyed intelligent look, friendly, outgoing, smart, confident and has a damn job. (Stay at home moms/housewives are sexy; they do have a job, but the sit on your ass in a filthy house while bitching and claiming to be a housewife is another story...), and as far as body type, I like all of them.

Turn-offs: that uppity, hateful, I'm better than all of you look, unkempt personal appearance, negative/poor little innocent victim attitude, liars, and stupid. God help me, I'm done with stupid.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I guess a big turn on is is knowing a woman is not ashamed of her body.

 

[absorb]

When a woman flirts and touches my legs then does the same to my husband! I just finished writing a story about this particular turn on it was approved and published today!

 

[luckyjim70]

Visual turn-on: a dress, not tight but light and clingy, hinting at the wonders beneath. Smiles.

Visual turn-off: no smiles; haughty air of being unpressed.

 

[AutumnBliss]

Sticking to the visual here.

Turn ons: Eyes, smile and the way that his behind looks in jeans.

Turn offs: Creepy smiles and shifty eyes. Overly hairy men don't do it for me either (sorry, guys, just my preference).

 

[Livelifetofullesy]

turn ons: eyes, nipples, inside of thighs, humor, laugh, smile
turn offs: crankiness, self absorption, inability to laugh at yourself

 

[MastersDelight]

Turn ons: Intelligence, easy going, strong arms, long hair or hairy in general, confidence without being arrogant, into nerdy things like D&D, MtG, Doctor Who, Star Wars, etc.

Turn offs: Smoking or chewing tobacco, dad jokes, pick up lines, BO or bad breath, overly handsy behavior, rudeness or treating others like they're above them, victim mentality or it's never their fault, racist or misogynist.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

1. Black pussy
2. Brown pussy
3. White pussy


Lmao notice the pattern.

 

[powermanp3]

.....

 

[Touch_Me_Daddy]

Hard now

Breeding,orgy,cane,anal

 

[Eliphaz]

As far as physical turn-ons, good posture is a big one for me, for some reason. Not that the lack of it is a turn off, it's just a special enhancement or something.

 

[MrEd63]

Turn on - Susanne (the OP)

Turn off - No sense of humour

 

[BongoGal]

Tattoos on both Male and Female is a big turn off!

I wouldn't go so far as to call tattoos a turn-off for me, but I am pretty sure I've never had sex with a guy who had any tattoos.

One of my biggest turn-ons is finding out that someone has an excellent record collection.

 

[yourgoodgirrl]

Turn ons: great personality, intelligent, polished, confident, mature, older (to a certain extent), toned body.. which doesn't need to be perfect, but just the right about of lean muscle and I'll be drooling. Physical turn ons: nice shoulders, arms, butt, smile, tall in height.

Also, if you love 80s music... you may have won me over.

Turn offs: overly cocky, egotistical, narcissistic, too needy, only fascinated with looks and nothing else, judgmental, selfish in bed (wanting to get themselves off, but not caring about what the woman wants).

Okay, I definitely sound really picky after that... oops.

 

[MrEd63]

I love a woman with long dripping wet hair

 

[MistressCassy]

A mans eyes and smile are instant turn ons.

Males that wear their jeans hanging off their upper thighs are repulsive to me.

 

[BadAmy]

Turn ons...eyes, soft tender lips. Confidence especially in his or her body. Intelligence and humor.

Turn offs...unnecessary rudeness. Bad breath. Poorly dressed. Packrats. Ugh. Too much stuff.

 

[Jada59]

My turn ons are not so much visual. His mind and scent are the first things I notice. I like a guy who can carry on a good conversation and isn't afraid to talk about life and stuff. Also isn't afraid to make a fool of himself once in a while. I will also sometime notice their aura. Not always. But if it's good and clear, that's always a good sign. I suppose I also notice how they dress, how they carry themselves, their eyes and smile.

Turn offs are not so much visual either. I dislike people who are mean or constantly angry. I'm not really into tattoos or a lot of piercings. I have been with guys who had a small tattoo or pierced ears but I'm not really into tons of piercing or tattoos.