Turning people down after sex

[Rother]

Even if he's trolling, he's still an arse.

The worst of both worlds

 

[kcesar68]

That was a pretty obvious troll. Not sure why it even got past a second page. Oh well, empathy does make people get riled up.

 

[Bramblethorn]

That was a pretty obvious troll. Not sure why it even got past a second page. Oh well, empathy does make people get riled up.

The thread you're replying to is two years old.

 

[southern_gal]

You need a health warning stamped on your forehead, you arrogant man!

You shallow douchebag.

*With my apologies if I have insulted any decent douchebags

How did I miss this thread? I'm slipping. I quoted these two cause they're my fav's from the first page.

 

[Doog_kuron]

Someone please tell me this story ended on a happy note? Say, a big house fell from the sky and landed on him, then someone called Dorothy or Southern Gal stole his Ruby Slippers? Please?

 

[southern_gal]

Someone please tell me this story ended on a happy note? Say, a big house fell from the sky and landed on him, then someone called Dorothy or Southern Gal stole his Ruby Slippers? Please?

He has ruby slippers? hmmmmm I don't have ruby slippers. hmmmmm...........ok this has possibilities.

 

[Harold_Hill]

Hi all, Does anyone else have experience of this?

You should poke as many as you can while you are young, because when you get old, you are going to regret the one's you passed up! No guarantee the GF you have now sill stay with you anyway. Never pass up the ice cream when it is free. Although, be sure to use a condom, because child support can be the fucking you get for the fucking you got!

 

[satindesire]

The thread you're replying to is two years old.

Right?!

It's like people don't bother reading timestamps anymore.

 

[Eilan]

Reading is fer yellabellies and filthy libruls.

 

[Miles Long]

This old gem!

 

[lovecraft68]

Hi all,

In my previous work place I got talking to a work colleague on a work night out. After one drink too many we began to kiss at the end of the night. I went back to her place (after some "nice guy" persuasion) and we had sex, twice I think. The next morning I woke up and realised she wasn't as good looking as I remembered/without make-up. I sucked it up and had sex again to say good bye.

Afterwards we agreed to keep the encounter secret. I was civil to her but to be honest I tried to cut all contact as I was just not that in to her. She seemed to get a bit annoyed when I turned down invitations over to her place etc. I felt it was better to be "cruel to be kind" sort of thing. She really began to hate me and I could see that her friends in the office also turned against me. I never told her it would be anything more than a night, and I didn't come back for seconds when she invited me back a second and third time not to give her the wrong idea, even though, frankly, I would have loved to sample her again.

Now, in my current business, there is a really cute secretary who I just hired. To be frank, I found it hard not to get a boner during the interview so you can imagine what it is like to work with her. I stressed that we have a "business atire" at work policy and she seems to be wearing mini skirts at present So that's a win!

Anyway, I have been flirting with her and playing the "nice guy" routine. Listening to her problems, being really sweet to her, it is working well. We went for a "business chat" over drinks two nights ago and it seemed to go very well (she kept playing with her hair and gave me a kiss on the cheek when leaving). I really want to get her in to bed. But since a) I have a GF and b) the secretary is my employee, I would prefer to have a situation where I can cut all contact after the night. Is there any easy way to do this so it doesn't turn out like the previous girl I had sex with in the office? I pretty much had to leave my previous job because the last office girl I had sex with was really acting the bitch and turning everyone against me.

Does anyone else have experience of this?

Yes I think many have had experiences with misogynistic knuckle dragging sacks of shit.

If you were not into her you should not have tried "friendly persuasion" which I am sure involved more alcohol.

"not as pretty as..." what do you look like? Probably a fat pig.

You're a walking talking piece of shit and good for her spreading the word about you. I hope the cute secretary has a boyfriend and tells him about you and he gives you the beating you're asking for.

Do the world a favor, get drunk and wrap your self around a telephone pole.

 

[simplegirl]

well, since the OP hasn't posted in the last year and a half, I'm guessing he got canned/sued and can no longer afford an internet connection, as he hasn't come back to brag about fucking the rest of his co-workers, his lawyer, the judge, the cleaning lady, the maintenance man, etc...

 

[glynndah]

Someone please tell me this story ended on a happy note? Say, a big house fell from the sky and landed on him, then someone called Dorothy or Southern Gal stole his Ruby Slippers? Please?

This can be arranged.

A from the good little witch.

 

[Doog_kuron]

This can be arranged.

A from the good little witch.

Well I be...bravo. I confess people, I didn't see this one coming. *applauds* I compliment your comedic timing.

 

[gamegamale]

And he didn't know what this lady looked like before he began consuming alcohol?

He deserved his missery. I wonder how often he does this to other women.
Impotence is this guys just punishment.

Hi all,

In my previous work place I got talking to a work colleague on a work night out. After one drink too many we began to kiss at the end of the night. I went back to her place (after some "nice guy" persuasion) and we had sex, twice I think. The next morning I woke up and realised she wasn't as good looking as I remembered/without make-up. I sucked it up and had sex again to say good bye.

Afterwards we agreed to keep the encounter secret. I was civil to her but to be honest I tried to cut all contact as I was just not that in to her. She seemed to get a bit annoyed when I turned down invitations over to her place etc. I felt it was better to be "cruel to be kind" sort of thing. She really began to hate me and I could see that her friends in the office also turned against me. I never told her it would be anything more than a night, and I didn't come back for seconds when she invited me back a second and third time not to give her the wrong idea, even though, frankly, I would have loved to sample her again.

Now, in my current business, there is a really cute secretary who I just hired. To be frank, I found it hard not to get a boner during the interview so you can imagine what it is like to work with her. I stressed that we have a "business atire" at work policy and she seems to be wearing mini skirts at present So that's a win!

Anyway, I have been flirting with her and playing the "nice guy" routine. Listening to her problems, being really sweet to her, it is working well. We went for a "business chat" over drinks two nights ago and it seemed to go very well (she kept playing with her hair and gave me a kiss on the cheek when leaving). I really want to get her in to bed. But since a) I have a GF and b) the secretary is my employee, I would prefer to have a situation where I can cut all contact after the night. Is there any easy way to do this so it doesn't turn out like the previous girl I had sex with in the office? I pretty much had to leave my previous job because the last office girl I had sex with was really acting the bitch and turning everyone against me.

Does anyone else have experience of this?

 

[CuddleMeLong]

Is this for real? There is a very applicable saying "You can't have your cake and eat it too".

 

[satindesire]

Is this for real? There is a very applicable saying "You can't have your cake and eat it too".

If you look at the timestamps and the OP, the post is now TWO years old and the person who wrote the OP hasn't been back to post again on Lit in over a year.

So really, anyone who comes to berate the OP is beating a dead horse and not even a dead one, a GHOST...because the OP isn't even around to see this. Not a value judgement on you Cuddle, just a reminder to everyone who comes here that the OP is loooooooong gone and we're all just continuing to keep a zombie thread around.

Timestamps are your friend!

 

[Hipshot1554]

Hi all,

In my previous work place I got talking to a work colleague on a work night out. After one drink too many we began to kiss at the end of the night. I went back to her place (after some "nice guy" persuasion) and we had sex, twice I think. The next morning I woke up and realised she wasn't as good looking as I remembered/without make-up. I sucked it up and had sex again to say good bye.

Afterwards we agreed to keep the encounter secret. I was civil to her but to be honest I tried to cut all contact as I was just not that in to her. She seemed to get a bit annoyed when I turned down invitations over to her place etc. I felt it was better to be "cruel to be kind" sort of thing. She really began to hate me and I could see that her friends in the office also turned against me. I never told her it would be anything more than a night, and I didn't come back for seconds when she invited me back a second and third time not to give her the wrong idea, even though, frankly, I would have loved to sample her again.

Now, in my current business, there is a really cute secretary who I just hired. To be frank, I found it hard not to get a boner during the interview so you can imagine what it is like to work with her. I stressed that we have a "business atire" at work policy and she seems to be wearing mini skirts at present So that's a win!

Anyway, I have been flirting with her and playing the "nice guy" routine. Listening to her problems, being really sweet to her, it is working well. We went for a "business chat" over drinks two nights ago and it seemed to go very well (she kept playing with her hair and gave me a kiss on the cheek when leaving). I really want to get her in to bed. But since a) I have a GF and b) the secretary is my employee, I would prefer to have a situation where I can cut all contact after the night. Is there any easy way to do this so it doesn't turn out like the previous girl I had sex with in the office? I pretty much had to leave my previous job because the last office girl I had sex with was really acting the bitch and turning everyone against me.

Does anyone else have experience of this?

What a douche!

 

[HoneyFortune]

Cannot believe I wasted an hour reading this shite.

 

[Que]

Since this looked vaguely familiar I started at the end of the thread and was working my way back when I saw comments about the Lazerus effect here.

You have a good point but on the other hand if ever there was a zombie thread in need of living on in perpetuity this one might be one.

Just as a cautionary example, mind you.

The suggestion about tattooing I am a jackass on his forehead cracked me up. It probably would not hurt his game any.

I'm a big fan of truth in advertising.

The psychological write-up by MsQuote was both spot-on and part of his "charm" dubious though that term may seem to those of us that can view it with the benefit of distance.

The so-called dark triad traits. The Machavellian ones are attractive on some level to a lot of women. Much as enlightened individuals we'd like for that not to be true, unfortunately it is true. It's interesting when sociologist, anthropologists and biologists and various people design these psychological studies to suss out human kind's matting and attraction have its it's interesting how often those sort of traits do come up in the people that are successful in one night stand type behavior.