Uncollared subs/slaves

[graceanne]

lol .... we don't mob .... we speak with soft voice ...

*spew*

 

[babiesmiles]

*spew*

I didn't undertand sorry .

 

[chris9]

I didn't undertand sorry .

Graceanne ha sputata. Probabilmente perchè doveva ridere troppo forte.

 

[graceanne]

I didn't undertand sorry .

It means I laughed so hard I spewed what I was drinking. You know, spit it out?

 

[graceanne]

Graceanne ha sputata. Probabilmente perchè doveva ridere troppo forte.

show off

 

[chris9]

show off

I was just trying to help!

 

[babiesmiles]

thank you both ..now i am spewing my tea on the keyboard !!

Not a wise move !

edit to add : chris your italian is really good

 

[Marquis]

In response to Netz:

I agree about showing more experienced subs respect. What cracks me up is the sneaky little ways they try to fake being subby while they tell you what to do. I'm always getting called "Sir Marquis"

"Just Marquis will be fine thank you."

"But in our society calling the males Sir is a sign of respect."

"Then perhaps you could show me the respect of addressing me as I'd like to be addressed?"

"Yes Sir"

 

[chris9]

thank you both ..now i am spewing my tea on the keyboard !!

Not a wise move !

edit to add : chris your italian is really good

Thanks, I haven't used it in too long *sigh*

 

[babiesmiles]

if you want we can practise !!

 

[chris9]

if you want we can practise !!

Thanks for your offer! Any ideas where we can do so?
I tried to practice on the Italian forum. But there's not much going on.

 

[h_i_s]

But this is some serious art!
Maybe I'll change it back eventually.

i like this new av of your's & i liked the seashell av too.

It looks cute with a holiday edge tossed in there too. Holiday Avs

 

[Betticus]

In response to Netz:

I agree about showing more experienced subs respect. What cracks me up is the sneaky little ways they try to fake being subby while they tell you what to do. I'm always getting called "Sir Marquis"

"Just Marquis will be fine thank you."

"But in our society calling the males Sir is a sign of respect."

"Then perhaps you could show me the respect of addressing me as I'd like to be addressed?"

"Yes Sir"

Some girl called me Patrick the other day.

 

[catalina_francisco]

In response to Netz:

I agree about showing more experienced subs respect. What cracks me up is the sneaky little ways they try to fake being subby while they tell you what to do. I'm always getting called "Sir Marquis"

"Just Marquis will be fine thank you."

"But in our society calling the males Sir is a sign of respect."

"Then perhaps you could show me the respect of addressing me as I'd like to be addressed?"

"Yes Sir"

LOL, there do seem to be more than a few subs around who like to think they know what is best for the Dominants, and that by asserting their will on Dominants depsite what expressed requests are made, that they are showing respect and their 'real' submission.

Catalina

 

[Kajira Callista]

Thanks for your offer! Any ideas where we can do so?
I tried to practice on the Italian forum. But there's not much going on.

you can come to my house and practice

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... their 'real' submission.

Catalina

Pity we can't match them with "True Dominants"

 

[babiesmiles]

Thanks for your offer! Any ideas where we can do so?
I tried to practice on the Italian forum. But there's not much going on.

yup that forum is real silly stuff ! What about starting a thread in cafe where only language allowed is italian

I bet there are lot of people on here that would understand it .... b.

 

[FLButtSlut]

What I DON'T understand is why when your master said it didn't matter where you ate, YOU unilaterally chose the restaurant without asking your friend HER thoughts? Once your master stated that he didn't care where you ate, why was it not the least bit rude on your part to not discuss it with your friend?

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Why on earth would you assume that it wasn't discussed with her?
My question pertained to my "being bitchy" about reprimanding her, and I use the term lightly. Naturally, the choice of restaurants was discussed "unilaterally" before hand. Ultimately, someone had to choose where to eat, and yes I made the decision. She does not live in my city, so she wouldn't know where to go, nor did she care. Yes, my friend can be a ditz (although I loathe to say that about her) She is also the type that would defer to others to make a decision for her. I am not so inconsiderate as not to discuss "where to eat" with the other people present.
I apologize for not including every gory detail of the circumstances, but I didn't find it necessary to do so.

I can't imagine approaching a Dom/me without calling them Sir or Ma'am first, but thats just me. If they wish to correct me, then that is their choice. If they ask me to call them by their first names so be it, but I will not do so on first meeting.

There is a very big difference in using the term "Master or Mistress" in addressing a Dominant who is not "yours" and personally, I feel that Sir or Ma'am is not in that same category. Somewhere along the way we have veered off topic, but thats just as well. Thanks very much everyone for your input....cati

Why on earth would that assumption be made?

Matter settled.... I said to my friend... "OK lets go to that one, then".

Seems pretty much undiscussed.

Typically, when one asks for advice, leaving out information can lead people to make assumptions you didn't want them to. Reading your posts, you have had to apologize for coming across as "thinking you are better" because you are collared, and now because you appeared rude to your friend.

As for what you call dom/me's upon first meeting, you are right, it is merely your choice. I am personally of the opinion that one doesn't earn that respect just because they claim to deserve it, anymore that I believe a submissive or slave is less deserving of respect because of their chosen position. Unless the situation is one where these roles are defined, I am equal to anyone else, regardless of what they say. Given the number of "dom/mes" who I don't feel are fit to lick MY boots, I save the respect for those I believe deserve it.

By the way, if something is discussed "unilaterally", you are discussing it with yourself only.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Frankly it's none of my husband's business whether another slave is interested in me, or I in them and if I'm not I can make it clear in my own way on my own terms TO that other slave. I am not his "turf" and he does not have veto rights on others, though he can certainly tell me what he thinks of them when it's appropriate to do so in private.

I don't cater to jealousies, I've made that abundantly clear since day one, and my relationships to others are not subject to the control or desires of those who would submit to or even love me.

I would personally be very offended and there would definitley be discipline if I were spoken on behalf of in this type of matter. And the second submissive would not be the one getting the talking to.

Ditto this entire post

 

[Kajira Callista]

I miss you Ma'am

 

[Private_Label]

Pity we can't match them with "True Dominants"

Perhaps, Sir Quam would be up to educating these wise subs?

 

[cati]

By the way, if something is discussed "unilaterally", you are discussing it with yourself only.[/QUOTE]
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Thankyou very much for the lesson in word definition...
... and here I thought I knew it all.