Welcome to OA - Overthinkers Anonymous - What Are You Overthinking About Today?

[Radiantcurves87]

Anyone else get the Overthinkers Eye Twitch? Just me?

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Yup

 

[Mikey1970]

Anyone else get the Overthinkers Eye Twitch? Just me?

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OMG!!!!! yes Today at the V.A this young dude came in with a baseball kicked to the side was like the needle scratching the record eyeballs twitching everywhere!!!!!!

 

[spankableBelle]

The silence...

 

[FunLi]

Conversations.

Reflecting more on what I share vs the the other person.

If I’m the only one that has the conversation of those pesky feelings and emotions, does that mean it’s pretty much one sided?

I think so. Or I’ve at least convinced myself it does.

Geez Louise, I feel really dumb sometimes.

I have way too much time on my hands at night. I need to shut this mind of mine off.

 

[Backagainpart4]

So many things going in circles in my mind. hoping To shut it all off and sleep

 

[Chillygirl]

Nighttime is definitely the worst, or early mornings. I used to love the quiet times but now it can be rough.

 

[snexxer]

I’m overthinking availability.

Am I too available? Do I give too much? Does it make me less desirable and put me more in a friend category?

Oh god I've been there.
Am I the nice guys finish last person?
Do I put myself in the ultimate friendzone?

 

[Backagainpart4]

I’m overthinking posting on Lit. I look at threads and want to respond. Should I? Does my take on it matter? Am I missing something and my words will be way off base? Am I conveying my thoughts or will they be misunderstood? What if I make a typo? Oh no. I waited too long and that was five posts back. Can I still reference it or is it too late?

 

[MrsPassion]

I’m overthinking my personal boundaries/rules for self governance. I’m also over thinking fucking everything I do that takes me right up the edge of where I said my rules were? Is it growth or am
I a weak willed harlot?

 

[MindYaBitness]

I’m overthinking posting on Lit. I look at threads and want to respond. Should I? Does my take on it matter? Am I missing something and my words will be way off base? Am I conveying my thoughts or will they be misunderstood? What if I make a typo? Oh no. I waited too long and that was five posts back. Can I still reference it or is it too late?

Yep. That's why I've been on here for 12+ years have less than 200 comments

 

[Coyote100]

Yep. That's why I've been on here for 12+ years have class than 200 comments

I have been overthinking why someone as attractive as you would join Lit and then make so few posts in twelve years. It’s a mystery.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Motivations .. what motivates people to act the way they do … I know I’m the most oblivious person in existence sometimes and maybe that frustrates other people. Maybe my frustrations with others aren’t anything they are doing on purpose. I still wonder about why people say or do what they do.

 

[hairball18]

That's because you are Canadian, and that is how we think.

 

[MindYaBitness]

I have been overthinking why someone as attractive as you would join Lit and then make so few posts in twelve years. It’s a mystery.

I like to people watch, lurking in the forum is just another form of that. Reading the interactions, seeing clicks & friendships form, and the ideas I get on here, is entertainment enough. Plus, not commenting prevents the need to overthink

 

[Chillygirl]

Apologies…giving and receiving. Forgiveness and grace.

 

[snexxer]

I've written something, but im unsure if to send?

 

[Shymidwestgirl]

I've written something, but im unsure if to send?

If it’s not a mean or hurtful comment then I would take a chance and send it. Says the shy girl lurking in the shadows or hiding under a blanket. Haha

 

[snexxer]

If it’s not a mean or hurtful comment then I would take a chance and send it. Says the shy girl lurking in the shadows or hiding under a blanket. Haha

I'm not a mean or hurtful person (usually, just dont hurt my friends). Just an overthinker

 

[Mr_bogey]

My overthinking has been in overdrive all week. After all that hard work, I decided I earned a day off.

 

[PassionsFlame]

Weekend - time to think and of course overthink all the things. Driving me crazy.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

 

[Deleted member 6607120]

Nighttime is definitely the worst, or early mornings. I used to love the quiet times but now it can be rough.

I appreciate quiet mornings more than nights anymore, but nights have been more difficult for me lately.

 

[Chillygirl]

I appreciate quiet mornings more than nights anymore, but nights have been more difficult for me lately.

Nights suck. I dread putting my phone down and turning the light off.

 

[Deleted member 6607120]

Nights suck. I dread putting my phone down and turning the light off.

That silence can be deafening. I'm sending you a big hug.

 

[Chillygirl]

That silence can be deafening. I'm sending you a big hug.

Back at ya babe