What about anal sex turns you on?

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Re: Re: Bump!

Oh god.

Yes, please!!!

Thats what I like...appreciation!
I also enjoy the acrylic dildo for humiliation..not to much is more humiliating for a submissive than to be strapped to the kitchen table with a clear acrylic didldo up the ass and the Dominant peering up inside making comments about owning them inside and out!

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Bump!

Thats what I like...appreciation!
I also enjoy the acrylic dildo for humiliation..not to much is more humiliating for a submissive than to be strapped to the kitchen table with a clear acrylic didldo up the ass and the Dominant peering up inside making comments about owning them inside and out!

I think I most enjoy (yet squirm in frustrated arousal) when I am over his lap and he is inserting the plug into my ass.

I know that intense spanking and terrific sex will follow, but I'm usually totally restrained and I struggle and fight to get away.

*sigh*

Incredible.

 

[tr65]

Sarah

Now there's a good thought. Over the lap plugging and spanking. Excellent idea!

 

[watergirl]

Hmmmm...

I love the soreness the next day after being pounded. Driving over speedbumps in my parking lot has to be done gently and going to the pool for class - jumping jacks have never been so painful!

mmmmmm.

 

[psiberzerker]

"What turns ME on about anal?"

Not a damned thing. I'm pretty hard pressed to think of two things that have less to do with each other than sex, and shit. I much preferr the other end of the intestinal tract.

 

[Guest]

Re: "What turns ME on about anal?"

Not a damned thing. I'm pretty hard pressed to think of two things that have less to do with each other than sex, and shit. I much preferr the other end of the intestinal tract.

Yep. Shit happens!

I don't think the "messy" aspect of anal is erotic, although there are some people who do enjoy that. (Many folks choose to internally cleanse themselves before engaging in any type of ass play.)

And some people are not at all anally erotic - no problem - everyone is different!

For many of us, it is the tightness, the absolute sensitivity of that area (so loaded with nerve endings) and the submissive feeling you often have while being roughly fucked that's so arousing.

 

[DVS]

Re: "What turns ME on about anal?"

Not a damned thing. I'm pretty hard pressed to think of two things that have less to do with each other than sex, and shit. I much preferr the other end of the intestinal tract.

Well, you couldn't find anyone less interested in scat than me, but you also couldn't find anyone more interested in anal sex than me, also.

 

[navarre]

Re: Bump!

Bump!

Anyone ever used a vibrating dildo to train a sub's ass?

Yes.
I find them good for developing a proper attitude in a sub's ass.

 

[Quint]

Re: Re: Bump!

Yes.
I find them good for developing a proper attitude in a sub's ass.

What exactly do you mean, Navarre? My attitude is usually one of laughter; it just feels funny to me, and a little ridiculous. 'Zat a "proper" attitude? o)

 

[navarre]

Re: Re: Re: Bump!

What exactly do you mean, Navarre? My attitude is usually one of laughter; it just feels funny to me, and a little ridiculous. 'Zat a "proper" attitude? o)

That was said tounge-in-cheek Quint.
However, I do have a vibrating butt plug that I like to use on my subs to help them relax. loosen up, and more readily accept my cock.

 

[sweetnpetite]

Re: "What turns ME on about anal?"

Not a damned thing. I'm pretty hard pressed to think of two things that have less to do with each other than sex, and shit. I much preferr the other end of the intestinal tract.

funny, when you're a kid, poop seems fascinating, but when you first hear about sex you think "ewwww"

LIFE is gross if you really think about it, eating, eliminating, having sex, blowing your nose- all the things we need for survival- there all gross when you consider the mechanics. food for thought....

 

[Hexiegirl]

yeah for anal sex!!!!
I hope to have some again soon, since my six week post partum period is over~

 

[redelicious]

yeah for anal sex!!!!
I hope to have some again soon, since my six week post partum period is over~

Congrats!!!!!

(/hijack)

 

[ReadyOne]

A note of encouragement...

For perspective, I'm now M/48. My introduction was when I was in my early twenties.

My first anal sex experience was a disaster. Started cold, only some spit for lube, don't know why I was crazy to even try. I wasn't surprised in the least when she quickly aborted the attempt.

The next one went much better, especially given our lack of education or experience!

I overheard (ex-)wife talking to her friend one day. "What do you think about anal sex?"

Friend replies, "If something that big comes out, then something that big can go in."

Wife: "But would it feel ok?"

Friend: "Sometimes almost anything can feel good."

The next weekend, wife and I have fucked once and were having pillow talk while we revive (much, much shorter when you're mid-twenty!) She proposed trying it, which I am willing to do, and I related my first experience to her. She still wanted to try, telling me that she had done some thinking about it.

Her mom used K-Y for dryness so she had gotten some thinking that lube would be nice. She also Told me she had cleaned herself up extra well and assured me that there shouldn't be any BM poised "in the pipe". And she offered me a condom (she'd bummed from her friend) to use if I felt uncomfortable.

We petted a bit until I was rock hard again, including my fingering her pussy just to give her pleasure; I didn't understand that being well aroused can make it easier for many women. Then she handed me the K-Y, got down on all fours, and reached behind herself to spread her cheeks with her hands.

Now I've been fascinated with anal rings and rectums from childhood, so I spent a lot of time playing and stretching her just because I liked slipping my finger(s) in and out. Only as she loosened up did I realize that pre-stretching would really help.

Then being very tentative about this and not wanting to hurt her or tear something, I entered slow and followed her directions exactly about when to pause or continue.

She described the feelings of fullness and wanting to go, and then added that she knew she was empty so she wouldn't worry about them and not try to fight them.

So far, so good, even if only by accident and not by experience.

I started pumping; she let go of her cheeks and started fingering herself. I started wondering if I should try to cum or try to hold off. Her body language said things were going fine for her so there wasn't any question about quickly aborting the attempt.

Asking her about how she was doing got her encouragement to keep going. I tried a couple of things like deep vs. shallow, fast vs. slow, angle changes, and she directed me to one that she said was "hitting a really good spot". I adopted it.

I also decided to hold out as long as I could and see where all this would end up. It took a while, but her excitement built up into some sort of orgasm after which I couldn't tell for sure when she was or wasn't cuming. I just knew she was getting lots of pleasure and that I didn't need to/shouldn't stop.

Eventually I came, and slowed down. I let myself be pushed out of her ass, after which she lay down to recover her strength. I got a warm washcloth and cleaned her up and we talked about how good the experience had gone.

In summary, we ended up doing almost all the right things not knowing that we were following a good recipe. The result was great, and we adopted it on a regular basis.

I introduced anal sex to those of my future lovers who had no experience, and enjoyed it with those who already knew about it's pleasure.

Two lovers had had a bad previous experience. One I successfully "seduced" by teasingly rubbing her anus, inserting a finger during orgasm, then before orgasm (which could push her over the edge), then as foreplay, and finally by talking to her until the idea of gentle penetration under her control won out.

The other remained so paranoid about her anus that I would always avoid even brushing over it. I really regretted being unable to win her over because I had developed a strong taste for anal sex!

 

[ReadyOne]

A note of encouragement...

For perspective, I'm now M/48. My introduction was when I was in my early twenties.

My first anal sex experience was a disaster. Started cold, only some spit for lube, don't know why I was crazy to even try. I wasn't surprised in the least when she quickly aborted the attempt.

The next one went much better, especially given our lack of education or experience!

I overheard (ex-)wife talking to her friend one day. "What do you think about anal sex?"

Friend replies, "If something that big comes out, then something that big can go in."

Wife: "But would it feel ok?"

Friend: "Sometimes almost anything can feel good."

The next weekend, wife and I have fucked once and were having pillow talk while we revive (much, much shorter when you're mid-twenty!) She proposed trying it, which I was willing to do, and I related my first experience to her. She still wanted to try, telling me that she had done some thinking about it.

Her mom used K-Y for dryness so she had gotten some thinking that lube would be nice. She also told me she had cleaned herself up extra well and assured me that there shouldn't be any BM poised "in the pipe". And she offered me a condom (she'd bummed from her friend) to use if I felt uncomfortable.

We petted a bit until I was rock hard again, including my fingering her pussy just to give her pleasure; I didn't understand that being well aroused can make it easier for many women. Then she handed me the K-Y, got down on all fours, and reached behind herself to spread her cheeks with her hands.

Now I've been fascinated with anal rings and rectums from childhood, so I spent a lot of time playing and stretching her just because I liked slipping my finger(s) in and out. Only as she loosened up did I realize that pre-stretching would really help.

Then being very tentative about this and not wanting to hurt her or tear something, I entered slow and followed her directions exactly about when to pause or continue.

She described the feelings of fullness and wanting to go, and then added that she knew she was empty so she wouldn't worry about them and not try to fight them.

So far, so good, even if only by accident and not by experience.

I started pumping; she let go of her cheeks and started fingering herself. I started wondering if I should try to cum or try to hold off. Her body language said things were going fine for her so there wasn't any question about quickly aborting the attempt.

Asking her about how she was doing got her encouragement to keep going. I tried a couple of things like deep vs. shallow, fast vs. slow, angle changes, and she directed me to one that she said was "hitting a really good spot". I adopted it.

I also decided to hold out as long as I could and see where all this would end up. It took a while, but her excitement built up into some sort of orgasm after which I couldn't tell for sure when she was or wasn't cuming. I just knew she was getting lots of pleasure and that I didn't need to/shouldn't stop.

Eventually I came, and slowed down. I let myself be pushed out of her ass, after which she lay down to recover her strength. I got a warm washcloth and cleaned her up and we talked about how good the experience had gone.

In summary, we ended up doing almost all the right things not knowing that we were following a good recipe. The result was great, and we adopted it on a regular basis.

I introduced anal sex to those of my future lovers who had no experience, and enjoyed it with those who already knew about it's pleasure.

Two lovers had had a bad previous experience. One I successfully "seduced" by teasingly rubbing her anus, inserting a finger during orgasm, then before orgasm (which could push her over the edge), then as foreplay, and finally by talking to her until the idea of gentle penetration under her control won out.

The other remained so paranoid about her anus that I would always avoid even brushing over it. I really regretted being unable to win her over because I had developed a strong taste for anal sex!

 

[TxBelle]

It's amazing how the topic of anal sex can bring people from all walks of life together. The subject came up on infidels.org which is a secular philosopy type of board (mind you the thread is located on one of the boards called "Elsewhere" where they put all the off the wall topics). There are even christian boards where you find threads posted about the topic. I just find it funny that so much time is spent on the topic....now if I can just get my husband to pay attention! I'll think I'll go post a reply on infidels with a link to this thread.

Hugs
Belle

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

It's amazing how the topic of anal sex can bring people from all walks of life together. The subject came up on infidels.org which is a secular philosopy type of board (mind you the thread is located on one of the boards called "Elsewhere" where they put all the off the wall topics). There are even christian boards where you find threads posted about the topic. I just find it funny that so much time is spent on the topic....now if I can just get my husband to pay attention! I'll think I'll go post a reply on infidels with a link to this thread.

Hugs
Belle

You are on infidels.org?!? I think I love y...wait, hold on. You're marries and in Texas, I'm single with 17 girlfriends in North Carolina. It would never work...but I still think you are cool.

 

[TxBelle]

You are on infidels.org?!? I think I love y...wait, hold on. You're marries and in Texas, I'm single with 17 girlfriends in North Carolina. It would never work...but I still think you are cool.

Damn long distance relationships all to hell and back!
Are you an infidel too?

 

[psiberzerker]

17 girlfreinds?

What are you, a Mormon? I figure I owed you a cut.

 

[James G 5]

I think anal turned me on once
But I realized last night it's been almost 2 YEARS and my memory grows hazy with age
So it might've all been just a dream

 

[Netzach]

As long as I can remember, I've been into guys.

As long as I've known such things were possible, I've been into fucking them.

When I fantasize about fucking men, 7 times out of ten, I'm doing the fucking.

Anal sex is normalized in this way, it's my penetrative norm. That's the turn on. I can be so far inside my object of desire, make him squirm and moan and beg for more. Sure, I can do that while being penetrated too, but I think of it as the shortest distance between two points.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Damn long distance relationships all to hell and back!
Are you an infidel too?

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Damn long distance relationships all to hell and back!
Are you an infidel too?

Local chapter of the Evil Atheist Conspiracy, actually. I had no idea that there was a forum over there, but I have been checking out the newswire for 2 years or so!

 

[sweetnpetite]

Supreme Court will decide legality of state sodomy laws

By William Mears, CNN

Tuesday, December 3, 2002 Posted: 10:48 AM EST (1548 GMT)

WASHINGTON (CNN) -- The Supreme Court will revisit the issue of whether states can continue to prosecute homosexual men for having consensual sex in their homes.

In a case that tests the constitutionality of sodomy laws in 13 states, the justices will review the prosecution of two men under a 28-year-old Texas law making it a crime to engage in same-sex intercourse.

At issue is the constitutionality of anti-sodomy laws currently in force in a handful of states.

In 1986, the court on a 5-4 vote upheld the prosecution of two gay men under a Georgia anti-sodomy law in the case of Bowers v. Hardwick. That case focused on the right to privacy.

The Lambda Legal Defense Fund in New York, a gay-rights group, is urging the court to revisit the Bowers decision and to rule that prosecuting same-sex couples, but not heterosexuals, for sodomy violates the equal-treatment standard.

The latest case, Lawrence v. Texas, arose when two men, John Lawrence and Tyron Garner, were arrested in a Houston-area apartment in 1998 by officers who were responding to a false report of an armed intruder. Instead, police arrested the men, and they were fined $200 for having sex.

The men were charged under Texas' "homosexual conduct" law. The Texas law criminalizes "deviate sexual intercourse with another individual of the same sex."

Although only 13 states now criminalize consensual sodomy, a Texas state appeals court found the law "advances a legitimate state interest, namely, preserving public morals."

Much has changed since 1986, say gay rights supporters, including changes in public attitudes, and the fact that such laws are rarely enforced. Texas prosecutors argue government can and has the right to enforce public morality.

But the court could be faced with grappling with the issue of whether homosexual sex should be treated differently than couples engaging in heterosexual sex, and if such laws should apply to adults in the privacy of their own homes.

"The state should not have the power to go into the bedrooms of consenting adults in the middle of the night and arrest them," said Ruth Harlow of the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, who is representing the two Texas men. "These laws are widely used to justify discrimination against gay people in everyday life; they're invoked in denying employment to gay people, in refusing custody or visitation for gay parents, and even in intimidating gay people out of exercising their First Amendment rights."

State sodomy laws have been on the books for a century or more, and define the act as abnormal sex, including oral and anal sex. By the time of Bowers v. Hardwick, only half the states carried criminal sodomy laws, and now only a fourth do. In a 1996 decision, Romer v. Evans, the court voted 6-3 to overturn a Colorado amendment that barred local governments from enacting ordinances to protect gays.

The Supreme Court has struggled with how much protection the Constitution offers in the bedroom. The court ruled 5-4 in 1986 that consenting adults have no constitutional right to private homosexual sex, upholding laws that ban sodomy.

Arguments in the case will be heard early next year and a decision is expected by June.

The case is: Lawrence and Garner v. Texas (No. 02-102).


Laws that discriminate against two adults having consensual sex in their own home (which does include married couples in many states) are ridiculous!!

Unless I choose to post about it here, when I suck my husband's cock or he puts it into my ass, that is MY business! (and um, his!)

So there!

agreed

shit like that makes me feel very unpatriotic

 

[sweetnpetite]

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