What about anal sex turns you on?

[ReadyOne]

1. Females (well, lots of them) want to be really aroused with a couple of orgasms before they take a guy up their ass. So... getting them ready is so much fun! What would be a good night of loving for many is just a warm up for anal!

2. For those females who have A-spot orgasms, they seem to be the hardest, most intense, most powerful kind there is. Now I can't get enough of watching females really cum, the better the orgasm they have the better I like it.

The more a girl shows her pleasure by squirming, shaking, moaning, talking, squealing, etc. the more reward I get. And I've seen several ladies who were normally very quiet finally break loose and let it all hang out when the pleasure of an anal orgasm stripped their last layers of their self-control. Super!

But even better than watching is being part of what's making a girl cum. It's not just using mouth, hands, and cock to stimulate them but also being able to get inside their head and mentally push them along by setting the scene, playing to their fantasies and turnons, using the right words, and treating them so their brain gets overcome with pleasure as well. It's like a musician giving an excellent performance to an appreciative audience. There's a powerful feedback.

3. Always did like tight places, and seem to shoot longer and harder when I cum from something squeezing hard around my cock. It's a different way of cuming when you are sliding in and out a tight slippery ass as opposed to slamming hard into pussy.

In the ass, it's a big stream under low pressure pouring volumes of thick spunk coating over everything nearby. Cuming in the cunt is like shooting lots of little high-pressure gobs as far as possible, over and over again. Both feel good, but I enjoy ass cums as a special treat.

 

[ReadyOne]

I've come to the conclusion that I'm a thread killer. Too many times I seem to have the last post on a dead thread.

How do I break this jinx?

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

I get off more on the control aspect of it

 

[Guest]

I've come to the conclusion that I'm a thread killer. Too many times I seem to have the last post on a dead thread.

How do I break this jinx?

Nahhh - that's just coincidence, I'm sure.

Or perhaps it's your AV? (The poor little subbie boy mouse. I keep waiting for something bad to happen to him on the mousetrap!)

 

[sweetnpetite]

It seems to have some kind of link straight to some part of my brain that simulates being drunk or something.

I loose all inhibition, become incoherant, suddenly get very emotional and even somewhat spiritually conected.

2. It seems really nasty and that;s a big turnon.

3. It involves a great deal of trust. Therefore it's a special and sometimes bonding experience.

4. Combination of pain and pleasure, fear and anticipation.

5. That really nasty aspect again- I really love that.

Question: does anyone else ever experience elated emotions during anal sex such as uncontrolable laughter or crying? Is there any explanation for this?

 

[aanthony]

My turn-on has to do with imprinting. In the early 80's, when I was a teen, condoms weren't everywhere. Marie and I were both "virgins," though we had a lot of oral sex and/or handjobs. One day, we were making out hot and heavy, and had no condom. It wasn't planned or discussed, but at the end of that makeout session, she wasn't an anal virgin any longer. Before that day, I hadn't really given anal sex much thought. After that day, it became a major fantasy item for me.

Today, Marie is my wife, and anal sex with her is still the biggest turn-on I can imagine. Part of the turn-on is that, for Marie, anal is pretty much all about submission. It is the one sex act that she does just for me. I know that when I'm fucking her in the ass, it is a gift from her. The other part of the turn-on is how it feels to be in her tight little ass, and by "feel", I mean all of the touch and sensation involved. Anal takes her to her limits- her breathing changes, her body moves a different way, and every signal she gives off tells me that I am taking her in the most intense way possible.

 

[Marquis]

Aanthony, you actually brought me out of lurking, give us more detail on the story of you taking Marie's anal virginity!

 

[aanthony]

I don't remember all of the details, since it was over 20 years ago. Basically, she was sucking my cock and was wet as hell. I used to "play chicken", IIRC, by laying in the missionary position and moving my cock around the lips of her vagina. I put her in that position, and just moved my cock a little lower than usual and pushed in. I'm sure that I didn't last very long after that.

You gotta remember that this was much more taboo back then than it is now...

 

[Marquis]

Craziness I tell you.

 

[Quint]

How do, Marquis. We miss you over on Top-opolis; come bless us with your insight.

 

[Marquis]

Wow, I'm honored to know I made an impression with the short time I spent on Lit.

Unfortunately I really don't have a lot of time these days, after October 4th you might see me post a lot more.

 

[Epiphany]

For me...it's the whole thing. I just like anal sex period.

I like the mix of pain and pleasure, the feeling of being "taken", the hair pulling and ass smacking that usually takes place.

and..........

4 Most women wouldn't let just anyone there, so there is a certain feeling of being special when I am allowed to enter a woman there. It's like a showing of trust and in some ways submission.

 

[landiek]

Anal was really a taboo subject when I was a child. Yet I learned about "backdoor" sex at an early age.

The feeling of that throbbing flesh that inches it's way into a hole that was never meant to be explored in more then two ways. Extraction of wastes and enimas to encourage the extraction of wastes when constipated.

I found after I over came the fear of being stretched too far and the organs falling out, see the misconceptions of a young mind. Anal sex was an exquiste sensation that makes a new joy in the idealism of foreplay. True some men can't stand the thought of something being shoved into their rectum where others may show keen curiousity.

The slow entrance can reassure the receiver that you are truly wanting to make this a learning awareness experience and it shows patience. After all this might be a form of sex you both want to have often in your life together and it only takes one rushed moment to ruin years of sexual bliss that can be acheived from anal sex.

Rushing can make nerves more edgy and cause the moment to turn into a disaster from the first instant. Rushing into the rectum can cause pain and tearing. Thus scarring can lead to blockage and that is another can of worms down the road.

Finger exploring of one's anus can cause mixed reactions. Rejection or arousal... Opening the mind to new play possiblities or closing the door to exploration. First experiences can lead to positive fun or negative refusal, thus being a never ending debate to very sexual partners that may wish to explore that form of foreplay or lovemaking.

A great deal of trust is involved in taking this unique journey. After all this is too be good for both sides, giver or receiver. Though I openly admit that I am a greek lover it doesn't mean that I will allow myself to be hurt by someone that doesn't respect that I choose this form to please not only them but myself.

Enjoy and have plenty of foreplay. It relaxes all parties involved and makes it easier to get to next time.

 

[JarringJoe]

A Male's Point of View

I get the idea that the person who started this thread wished to hear women's views on anal sex, but let me chime in from a male's view point. After more than 20 years of marriage, anal sex is pretty much second nature to us: it's there when either of us wants it, and I fuck her ass as a matter of course -- not at frequently as her pussy, to be sure, but enough to keep in practice. Why do I like doing so?

-- The position, for one thing. When you are fucking a woman's ass, she is truly submissive. She is head down, her bottom in the air, as you impose your strength on her body via your cock.

-- The added stimulation of her cunt. When my cock is in Kitsy's ass, my fingers are at play on her pussy, frigging her and tweaking her clittie. She usually climaxes from this digital stimulation long before she climaxes from her ass being fucked (as if you could tell the difference).

-- Double penetration. This goes along with the point cited above. Often Kitsy will be atop another guy (who has his cock in her cunt) when I am around behind her, taking her ass. She describes the sensation as "utterly fantastic" and indeed taking two cocks at once is among her greater turn-ons. Given that I am bi, I also get a kick out of the sensation of my penis rubbing against another man's dick, separated only by a thin membrane. I must be candid. The first time Kitsy took two at once, she had to wiggle and squirm, and for a bit she was not all that comfortable. But once both cocks were inside her body, all was fine.

-- Tightness. (If any of our swing women friends read this posting, I am not referring to you. Wink.) Some pussies, let me say, are a bit looser than others. There are two women in particular who I have in mind who are far better fucks when you take their ass versus their cunts. Just why this is so -- the looseness -- is something I shall leave to medical experts. Other women who've fucked just as often, and with multiple partners, can be as tight as a teen's twat (the way I remember teen twat, at any rate). Others...well, they ain't, and I think that all of us like sticking our dicks into something tight, eh?

Concerning methodology, we always do a thorough shower before anal sex, and I take care to cleanse my lover's ass hole. I start by licking and kissing and tonguing, and then tease her with my fingers and slowly slide one or two inside. As y'all realize, getting the spincter loose is paramount; once that barrier is breached, the entry of a cock is relatively simple. (BYI, I am about seven inches, and thick, and have a crown the size of a small lemon.)

There ARE women who simply are not comfortable being fucked in the ass, but wish to try it anyway. I'll only go so far, and there are times when I realize I was really hurting someone. I keep pressing only when she demands that I do so -- a true sub who revels in the pain of having something very big stuck up her ass.

An interesting thread.

 

[landiek]

hmmmm Joe you saint you gave me the reason to love greek all the more

Have a good one and two more kisses to the better head

 

[Ms_Kat]

It turns me on

When I take my husband anally, it is the most completely submissive act I can imagine. The total trusting bond that it creates is truly beyond my ability to explain. I can also get much stronger physical reactions from him that way than I do without (and they are good reactions - not screams of pain - I'm not into pain at all).

When I am on the receiving end, it is just not only a similar emotional experience, but is incredibly erotic physically. I love the feeling of his beautiful cock sliding in and out of my ass.

He's going to definitely get it tonight! Maybe I will, too.


Hugs,


Kat

 

[sweetjulia]

anal sex is just the most wonderful nasty sex act ever invented, dont get me wrong i like a good pussy fuck too, but i love the way a man's eyes light up when you say yes, i love the way they grunt like animals when they are in your ass. men get wild when plowing a girl anally and i love it (specially if he gives me a few good smacks on my cheeks during it, if we are doing it doggy!)

 

[Sami78]

What about anal sex turns me on?

Well, we have only had anal sex (penis in ass) once, and that was a long time ago, but my husband does occasionally use a vibrator (soft latex) in my ass and his fingers as well. For me, right now, his penis is waaay too big for my ass.

It makes me feel naughty and sexy and slutty. It brings submission (on my part) into the equation and I love it. My hubby knows I like him in control, but we don't often get a chance to play into that.

What is really a turn on is that we have a "pet name" for anal sex/pleasure/penetration and he will say it when there are other people around. It fits into the context of most regular conversations, but we both know what he really means, and makes me tingle ... makes the little hairs stand up all over my body, and makes my pussy start to tingle and get wet ... really wet. Yum.

 

[landiek]

I stand firm on the choice. Greek sex stimulates a grander orgasm then I ever dreamed possible and even more so is that gushing rush of hot cream flooding the walls of my rectum... I love it!

Loving it even more in my dreams, Landi

 

[Wizard]

I must say itis intresting to hear some of the comments other have to say on this..........

 

[landcruisergal]

Its nasty and naughty, a sin in the bible ( crucification is on my 'to do' list), Its dirty and I love the way a man's eyes light up at the mere mention of anal.Its tight on his cock and I KNOW sometimes they close their eyes and imagine they are fucking a virgin.And of course... because master likes it ..

 

[Guest]

Please forgive the blatant self-promotion . . .

Oh, No, Not There: Ode to Anal Sex
by sweetsubsarahh

Does it sometimes seem to you that men will often crave
to breach that small tight portal that we women wish to save?

We guard our crinkled apertures so carefully, it seems.
We won’t allow a touch or poke not even in our dreams.

My husband has been interested in probing that new ground.
He gently teases, begs and pleads, in hopes I’ll come around.

I clench my cheeks in self-defense and wonder, won’t it sting?
We share so many sexual games, why does he want this thing?

It’s never been my fantasy, to let a cock back there
Me on my knees, with him behind, holding to my hair?

Well actually, that sounds quite nice, I muse with chin in hand.
I need some time to think this through, do I misunderstand?

I ask my husband, “Honestly, is this a vital need?
Or is it merely just a kick to do the sexual deed?”

He strokes my hair and kisses me. “I’ll never cause you pain.
But I have a feeling once we start you’ll love it just the same

as I do,” he continues on, his love bright in his eyes.
“How will you ever know for sure if this we never try?”

Of course, he’s right, my mind agrees, and though I have some fear,
I love him and our sex life, so I offer him my rear.

Late that evening we begin to practice new techniques.
He nuzzles and embraces me, then gently spreads my cheeks.

I feel his tongue upon my ass and shiver in desire.
He licks and nips and nibbles me, awakening my fire.

Lubed digits penetrate me now, my hips pump in reply.
I’m gasping, squirming, begging him to give my ass a try.

So on my knees, my ass held high, I open up to him.
He fits his cock behind me now and slowly pushes in.

I close my eyes in worry as my tender hole submits.
His velvet steel is entering, the head and more he fits.

He pushes further, sliding, while I grip the sheets and moan.
Then all his member fits inside. We’ve done it; yes, he’s home.

And now he waits, caressing me, his murmured words of love
cause me to clench upon his cock. He fits me like a glove.

And then he gently starts to move his hardness out and in.
I love it, I think happily. How can this be a sin?

My eyes are open wide now as the pleasure makes me soar,
I whimper in surrender, wanting more, oh give me more.

His strokes increase in power and I want him to be rough.
I love to be fucked in my ass; I’ll never get enough.

He reaches under me to tease my nipples, then my clit.
I rock back to him wanting more; I’m so close, this is it!

I cum so hard, I think I’m blind, the feeling is intense.
I notice he’s not far behind, his cock becomes immense.

He growls and empties in my ass, his big hands grip my hips.
His perspiration joins mine as I turn to meet his lips.

Hearts beating fast and breathing hard as if a race we’d run,
we share the satisfaction of a new job that’s well done.

We spoon together on the bed, my favorite place to be.
We fall asleep so happily, sweet husband, smiling me.

The moral of this story? Ladies, listen to your men.
Though it may be tongue in cheek to say, you’ll love it in the end.


Is this autobiographical? You bet, baby!

 

[Marquis]

Wow, you're really talented.

 

[lillum]

Re: Please forgive the blatant self-promotion . . .

Oh, No, Not There: Ode to Anal Sex
by sweetsubsarahh

Does it sometimes seem to you that men will often crave
to breach that small tight portal that we women wish to save?

We guard our crinkled apertures so carefully, it seems.
We won’t allow a touch or poke not even in our dreams.

My husband has been interested in probing that new ground.
He gently teases, begs and pleads, in hopes I’ll come around.

I clench my cheeks in self-defense and wonder, won’t it sting?
We share so many sexual games, why does he want this thing?

It’s never been my fantasy, to let a cock back there
Me on my knees, with him behind, holding to my hair?

Well actually, that sounds quite nice, I muse with chin in hand.
I need some time to think this through, do I misunderstand?

I ask my husband, “Honestly, is this a vital need?
Or is it merely just a kick to do the sexual deed?”

He strokes my hair and kisses me. “I’ll never cause you pain.
But I have a feeling once we start you’ll love it just the same

as I do,” he continues on, his love bright in his eyes.
“How will you ever know for sure if this we never try?”

Of course, he’s right, my mind agrees, and though I have some fear,
I love him and our sex life, so I offer him my rear.

Late that evening we begin to practice new techniques.
He nuzzles and embraces me, then gently spreads my cheeks.

I feel his tongue upon my ass and shiver in desire.
He licks and nips and nibbles me, awakening my fire.

Lubed digits penetrate me now, my hips pump in reply.
I’m gasping, squirming, begging him to give my ass a try.

So on my knees, my ass held high, I open up to him.
He fits his cock behind me now and slowly pushes in.

I close my eyes in worry as my tender hole submits.
His velvet steel is entering, the head and more he fits.

He pushes further, sliding, while I grip the sheets and moan.
Then all his member fits inside. We’ve done it; yes, he’s home.

And now he waits, caressing me, his murmured words of love
cause me to clench upon his cock. He fits me like a glove.

And then he gently starts to move his hardness out and in.
I love it, I think happily. How can this be a sin?

My eyes are open wide now as the pleasure makes me soar,
I whimper in surrender, wanting more, oh give me more.

His strokes increase in power and I want him to be rough.
I love to be fucked in my ass; I’ll never get enough.

He reaches under me to tease my nipples, then my clit.
I rock back to him wanting more; I’m so close, this is it!

I cum so hard, I think I’m blind, the feeling is intense.
I notice he’s not far behind, his cock becomes immense.

He growls and empties in my ass, his big hands grip my hips.
His perspiration joins mine as I turn to meet his lips.

Hearts beating fast and breathing hard as if a race we’d run,
we share the satisfaction of a new job that’s well done.

We spoon together on the bed, my favorite place to be.
We fall asleep so happily, sweet husband, smiling me.

The moral of this story? Ladies, listen to your men.
Though it may be tongue in cheek to say, you’ll love it in the end.


Is this autobiographical? You bet, baby!

Wonderful work! your such a great writter.This piece took my breath away.

Thankyou for sharing!!

lillum

 

[Guest]

I always feel a little uncomfortable self-promoting like that but the poem stated everything I wanted to add to this thread!

(Thank you for your sweet words!)