What about anal sex turns you on?

[sweetnpetite]

My EX had a lot of issues with sex & allowing herself to feel pleasure from it
She got the most uninhibited during anal (which took me 2 YEARS to work her up to and was still a rare thing(
The MOST active sex session we ever had, and the one where she had her hardest orgasm, was during anal
That was the ONLY time in 10 years she did things like DEMAND I fuck her harder, etc etc
Unfortunately, after it was over she got in the shower & cried & then wouldn't speak to me for 2 days
She said she felt guilty for liking it so much & she blamed me for making her feel dirty because she liked it

now that's a hang-up!

I have a problem, that no matter how much I want it, no matter how much I'm prepared, or how much KY I use, I'm REALY sore for at least a day and a half afterwards. I'm thinking of trying that numbing creme for after- I would never use it for during, I think if you couldn't feel any pain- you'd really hurt after, and as I said, I hurt quite enough.

for james and others (hi james!) how do you feel about anal stimulation, and how far have/would you take it? (ie, fingers, toys, big toys, strap on, the real deal...)

 

[Pixie Mischief]

now that's a hang-up!

I have a problem, that no matter how much I want it, no matter how much I'm prepared, or how much KY I use, I'm REALY sore for at least a day and a half afterwards. I'm thinking of trying that numbing creme for after- I would never use it for during, I think if you couldn't feel any pain- you'd really hurt after, and as I said, I hurt quite enough.

for james and others (hi james!) how do you feel about anal stimulation, and how far have/would you take it? (ie, fingers, toys, big toys, strap on, the real deal...)

I know what you mean.. I have trouble sitting for 2-3 days after LOL
well I'm 4 foot so *Shrugs* its alot to taken in for me lol

 

[sweetnpetite]

pixie, are you really only 4 ft? I'm 4'10 1/2 inches. Also, if you don't mind my asking, what state do you live in?

 

[Pixie Mischief]

pixie, are you really only 4 ft? I'm 4'10 1/2 inches. Also, if you don't mind my asking, what state do you live in?

yeah I'm in between 3'10" to 4 foot hehe
I live in the Yukon brrrrrr lol

 

[sweetnpetite]

oh my gosh, you are tiny!!!!!!

 

[Pixie Mischief]

oh my gosh, you are tiny!!!!!!

LOL YEPPERS I AM!!!! hehe
I have a disability that affects my height.

 

[sweetnpetite]

you just changed your av. I like this one a little better. Where did James go?

 

[Pixie Mischief]

you just changed your av. I like this one a little better. Where did James go?

hehe my leather jacket and skirt hehe

and he left us LOL *Cries*

 

[James G 5]

for james and others (hi james!) how do you feel about anal stimulation, and how far have/would you take it? (ie, fingers, toys, big toys, strap on, the real deal...)

You mean ME being stimulated?
If so.....I like a really good rimming, and my perenium is my only ticklish spot, I enjoy light finger play along it while receiving oral
I dont' enjoy penetration
I've let a couple of women experiment (at their request) with putting a finger in me during a BJ and it's done nothing for me
They were careful, used lube, etc
It didn't HURT, it just didn't have a positive effect.
I also tried a small plug on myself once at the behest of one of my Mentors when I was first getting in to BDSM. Again, it didnt hurt, but it didn't stimulate me either.
*shrug*

 

[sweetnpetite]

you changed it again!

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I never knew having your ass licked felt good *blushes* LOL didnt think I'd like it

 

[James G 5]

you just changed your av. I like this one a little better. Where did James go?

I was trying to type a post/reply while arguing the Bible & talking sex with my girlfriend and my subbie playmate (2 seperate people LOL) in a private chatroom
It took me a minute

 

[James G 5]

I never knew having your ass licked felt good *blushes* LOL didnt think I'd like it

I like it & so far no one's complained when I've DONE it

 

[Pixie Mischief]

you changed it again!

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I like it & so far no one's complained when I've DONE it

I thought he was blufing.. alot of things hes done I thought he was bluffing... the man doesnt really bluff I found out LOL

 

[sweetnpetite]

I looked at some of your pics, you really do look like a pixie! Wow, do guys like alwasy try to pick you up (literally pick you up) YOu kinda remind me of a cross between the "little mimi" woman on Drew Cary (she's been on other stuff too) and the dark girl from "the craft"

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I looked at some of your pics, you really do look like a pixie! Wow, do guys like alwasy try to pick you up (literally pick you up) YOu kinda remind me of a cross between the "little mimi" woman on Drew Cary (she's been on other stuff too) and the dark girl from "the craft"

they would have to pick up the electric chair as well as me LMAO
and you know I've been told countless times I look like Fairuza balk (from the craft)

 

[sweetnpetite]

I was trying to type a post/reply while arguing the Bible & talking sex with my girlfriend and my subbie playmate (2 seperate people LOL) in a private chatroom
It took me a minute

your forgiven. by the way, I sent you feedback on your story just a few minutes ago.

girlfriend AND subbie playmate, something tells me you've got a lot of good stories to tell...

 

[sweetnpetite]

they would have to pick up the electric chair as well as me LMAO
and you know I've been told countless times I look like Fairuza balk (from the craft)

now your just living up to the other part of your name and being mischieviouls by switching your av around. lol

 

[Pixie Mischief]

now your just living up to the other part of your name and being mischieviouls by switching your av around. lol

I'm a brat

 

[James G 5]

I thought he was blufing.. alot of things hes done I thought he was bluffing... the man doesnt really bluff I found out LOL

Lots of people seem to have to find this out about me the hard way..........

 

[James G 5]

and you know I've been told countless times I look like Fairuza balk (from the craft)

You do in the AV you have up now where you're sucking your finger
SEXY!

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Lots of people seem to have to find this out about me the hard way..........

same here... he always talked about bitting clits.. I thought he was bluffing... how can I say this... he doesnt bluff LOL he jokessometimes hard to know if hes serious about something or joking... but he doesnt bluff LOL

 

[Pixie Mischief]

You do in the AV you have up now where you're sucking your finger
SEXY!

*Blushes* thank you hehe

 

[James G 5]

your forgiven. by the way, I sent you feedback on your story just a few minutes ago.

girlfriend AND subbie playmate, something tells me you've got a lot of good stories to tell...

Thanks I've got a D/s one half done that I need to finish & submit


Yes, girlfriend and subbie playmate
Thy're both here on Lit
PoutyKitten is my 6' redhead Amazon sweetie and Moondusksub (who's posted here in this thread, her last post at my request) is my subbie playmate

WynEternal (a former subbie playmate & still good friend LOL) says I need a "Dirty Details" thread at some point LOL