What about anal sex turns you on?

[Pixie Mischief]

<-guesses she will have to give it another change. benifit of the doubt

 

[James G 5]

<-guesses she will have to give it another change. benifit of the doubt

You just need a guy with a real small dick like mine
that way you can try it without really feeling it, to help you get used to the idea

 

[MoonduskSub]

Yep....Ive had phone sex and there were times when I just could not. And guys always feel like they have to make a woman cum to be a man (okay not nearly all cases but alot)...here's the thing with that.....if you can not then you can not and perhaps it is just not the time and to clear that up with the other person I've just told them...."Hey it aint happening" but I also explain that orgasm doesnt mean I didnt enjoy it.....sex is about two things, pleasure and orgasm to break it down....you can enjoy it and be pleased but never cum.....least in my opinion.....and you can orgasm and hate it.....doesnt make a difference....its for you to decide..... the question here is basically if you enjoy just the masturbating, sex, whatever and if so then the next would be if you NEED to orgasm to feel fullfilled....if not then explain that you enjoy the pleasure of it and dont need it...... that is what did it for me... I never had to cum or orgasm to enjoy myself.....i always have and did.... its always worth a shot, right?


Moonie

this is even worse LOL when there like "I want you to cum for me... cum nice and hard" and keep going on saying how they want me to cum for them LMAO DOESNT HELP!

 

[redelicious]

You just need a guy with a real small dick like mine
that way you can try it without really feeling it, to help you get used to the idea

(Pixie, it's really not that small, just check the pics)

 

[Guest]

You just need a guy with a real small dick like mine
that way you can try it without really feeling it, to help you get used to the idea

Don't say such a thing about yourself!

I would suggest women get started anally with small toys - work their way up - the key is relaxation and lots of lube.

You must be relaxed for this to work. Of the two sphincter muscles, the internal is involuntary (like your heart beating) and stress can cause it to clench tightly - thus it causes pain! The external muscle you can easily control.

Anal sex works, you just need time, patience, an understanding partner and too much lube!

 

[James G 5]

(Pixie, it's really not that small, just check the pics)

Puh-LEASE, everyone knows the camera adds 10 pounds

 

[James G 5]

Don't say such a thing about yourself!

Why not?

 

[Guest]

Why not?

I have never heard a guy talk down about the size of his dick. Amazing! (and no, I haven't seen the pics - but you just shouldn't say things like that!!!)

 

[James G 5]

I have never heard a guy talk down about the size of his dick. Amazing! (and no, I haven't seen the pics - but you just shouldn't say things like that!!!)

Just being honest!


My tongue, on the other hand, hangs down to my knees.......

 

[redelicious]

Puh-LEASE, everyone knows the camera adds 10 pounds

Um, now that would be a very LARGE dick.

Silly

 

[James G 5]

Um, now that would be a very LARGE dick.

Right, so think of how small it must actually BE

 

[Pixie Mischief]

You know thats very true when he was here.. I didnt get to cum all the time only way he managed was attacking me with a vib egg. anyway but I was the most sexualy sastified ever. Even if I didnt always cum. and as for my having trouble cumming.. he says its ok no big deal takes time. . But I dont wanna disapoint him and I feel like I am but I cant help it LOL I'm not aloud to masterbate 2 weeks before he gets here I thought he was bluffing!! he wants to make me cum badly. LOL 2 weeks. GAWD!!!!!!!!!!!!!~

Yep....Ive had phone sex and there were times when I just could not. And guys always feel like they have to make a woman cum to be a man (okay not nearly all cases but alot)...here's the thing with that.....if you can not then you can not and perhaps it is just not the time and to clear that up with the other person I've just told them...."Hey it aint happening" but I also explain that orgasm doesnt mean I didnt enjoy it.....sex is about two things, pleasure and orgasm to break it down....you can enjoy it and be pleased but never cum.....least in my opinion.....and you can orgasm and hate it.....doesnt make a difference....its for you to decide..... the question here is basically if you enjoy just the masturbating, sex, whatever and if so then the next would be if you NEED to orgasm to feel fullfilled....if not then explain that you enjoy the pleasure of it and dont need it...... that is what did it for me... I never had to cum or orgasm to enjoy myself.....i always have and did.... its always worth a shot, right?


Moonie

 

[Pixie Mischief]

You just need a guy with a real small dick like mine
that way you can try it without really feeling it, to help you get used to the idea

are you available? *raises eyebrow*

 

[James G 5]

are you available? *raises eyebrow*

LOL, I'm already in ONE long distance relationship, sorry

 

[Pixie Mischief]

LOL, I'm already in ONE long distance relationship, sorry

hey I wasnt talking about that I ment your cock

blah from what you said.. too small I bet BLAHHH

 

[James G 5]

hey I wasnt talking about that I ment your cock

blah from what you said.. too small I bet BLAHHH

Probably
sorry

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Probably
sorry

aww geez LOL too tiny for even little me LOL awwwwww

 

[sweetnpetite]

some of these have already been said but still:


there is something very naughty about it
there is also something loving about it- you have to really trust someone to let them in there
I think maybe thats where the real G-spot is, theres this spot that you ONLY hit during anal, sometimes it makes me really raunchy- it seems to shut down ALL inhabition, dirty words I didn't even know I knew start coming out of my mouth-- sometimes it makes me feel increadably emotional. Like the sex is just spiritual or something and I'll just be crying or laughing like a lunatic. So basically what I've described is a drug, its totally like a drug of some kind. Does anyone else have this kind of reaction?

 

[Pixie Mischief]

some of these have already been said but still:


there is something very naughty about it
there is also something loving about it- you have to really trust someone to let them in there
I think maybe thats where the real G-spot is, theres this spot that you ONLY hit during anal, sometimes it makes me really raunchy- it seems to shut down ALL inhabition, dirty words I didn't even know I knew start coming out of my mouth-- sometimes it makes me feel increadably emotional. Like the sex is just spiritual or something and I'll just be crying or laughing like a lunatic. So basically what I've described is a drug, its totally like a drug of some kind. Does anyone else have this kind of reaction?

wish I did.. hell lot better then grinning and bearing it LMAO

 

[sweetnpetite]

I have never heard a guy talk down about the size of his dick. Amazing! (and no, I haven't seen the pics - but you just shouldn't say things like that!!!)

I have! this guy I used to know used to always say he had a small dick, but it was HUGE and in fact so big it was scary- and he was only 16! beware of guys that say they have a small dick!!! That's what I say

 

[James G 5]

some of these have already been said but still:
there is something very naughty about it
there is also something loving about it- you have to really trust someone to let them in there
I think maybe thats where the real G-spot is, theres this spot that you ONLY hit during anal, sometimes it makes me really raunchy- it seems to shut down ALL inhabition, dirty words I didn't even know I knew start coming out of my mouth-- sometimes it makes me feel increadably emotional. Like the sex is just spiritual or something and I'll just be crying or laughing like a lunatic. So basically what I've described is a drug, its totally like a drug of some kind. Does anyone else have this kind of reaction?

My EX had a lot of issues with sex & allowing herself to feel pleasure from it
She got the most uninhibited during anal (which took me 2 YEARS to work her up to and was still a rare thing(
The MOST active sex session we ever had, and the one where she had her hardest orgasm, was during anal
That was the ONLY time in 10 years she did things like DEMAND I fuck her harder, etc etc
Unfortunately, after it was over she got in the shower & cried & then wouldn't speak to me for 2 days
She said she felt guilty for liking it so much & she blamed me for making her feel dirty because she liked it

 

[Pixie Mischief]

My EX had a lot of issues with sex & allowing herself to feel pleasure from it
She got the most uninhibited during anal (which took me 2 YEARS to work her up to and was still a rare thing(
The MOST active sex session we ever had, and the one where she had her hardest orgasm, was during anal
That was the ONLY time in 10 years she did things like DEMAND I fuck her harder, etc etc
Unfortunately, after it was over she got in the shower & cried & then wouldn't speak to me for 2 days
She said she felt guilty for liking it so much & she blamed me for making her feel dirty because she liked it

thats not cool at all

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I have! this guy I used to know used to always say he had a small dick, but it was HUGE and in fact so big it was scary- and he was only 16! beware of guys that say they have a small dick!!! That's what I say

*Cringes* I'm only 4 foot tall LOL soo.. stay away from men who say they have small dicks? lol

 

[James G 5]

thats not cool at all

Nope
At least you can enjoy sex, even without orgasms

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Nope
At least you can enjoy sex, even without orgasms

I have no shame in anything sexual. Sex is natural.
makes me sad to hear about how people feel dirty and the likes about sex I think part of it is religion.

only one thing I am ashamed of sexualy and thats I had anal before loosing my virginity.
and the reason I dont like the reson I did it.. I should have done it because I wanted to. and not the reason I did it for which was because I didnt want to disapoint him.

I feel really bad for your ex.