What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

When someone tries to cheer me up by saying that some people have it worse... how is that supposed to cheer me up? That there are people in a worse situation than me, or whomever is being told that, is not something to be happy about!
I'm experiencing this in different ways. People who used to come to me to talk about their problems. Rarely do anymore. When I ask why. I often get. "I'm sorry. I shouldn't be venting to you. You have way bigger problems than I do "

I'm not trying to compare who has the biggest fucked up life. 😡🙄
I want to be treated normally.

I have cancer. I am not the cancer. 😪
 
I'm experiencing this in different ways. People who used to come to me to talk about their problems. Rarely do anymore. When I ask why. I often get. "I'm sorry. I shouldn't be venting to you. You have way bigger problems than I do "

I'm not trying to compare who has the biggest fucked up life. 😡🙄
I want to be treated normally.

I have cancer. I am not the cancer. 😪
🫂🫂
 
Why is it so hard for men to understand that perimenopausal women have little control over their emotions? If I cry, I cry. Telling me it's pointless doesn't make me feel better. It makes me mad. It makes me want to shank you. It makes me frustrated that I can't stop and I can't shank you. So I cry harder. Just be sympathetic or otherwise keep your dang mouth shut!

Ok, rant over.
 
What kind of wine and what do you need to do tomorrow?
I am always team wine 😂
Cabernet Sauvignon is my go-to. I technically have tomorrow off, but have some R&D to do — need to create a glaze for a Valentine’s Day meatloaf special. Need to figure a way to incorporate passion fruit.
 
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