What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[J D Danger]

How much I want to suck someone

I hope you get to

 

[Xerxes82]

I am exhausted. Today should be a rest day. But I have things to do.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I think I’m going to be “sick” on Friday.

 

[TheGoodLife3976]

I think I’m going to be “sick” on Friday.

I anticipated the same thing. I've already put in for a PTO day.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE when I get messages out of the blue titled DADDY WANTS YOU!

Who even knew I had one? I'm glad he informed me of that, because I don't know who TF he is! (I still don't want to know!)

Anyway, he starts his sweet message with "mmm" - . The rest of his message isn't much better. It's degrading, not my kink. You'd think he'd know me better by now, right?

Why are guys like this? Writing someone they don't know, have never interacted with such weird messages? I'm not his fuck toy or his cock whore, and it probably was a cut/paste, so I'm not even special.

 

[LostHorizon]

I’m done with this meeting.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I’m done with this meeting.

But is the meeting done with you?

 

[Nightbird]

Im thinking I am so done with the cold weather.

 

[Doctor_Nobody]

I think people are more affected by my presence than they appreciate it. I need to stop expecting things.

 

[blueeyedgirl69]

That I need to be fucked… hard.

 

[MissRadiant]

I guess there is a first for everything.....just wish missing a flight wasn't one this time.

Not how I wanted to start vacation.

 

[MrMakersMark]

Hey God....
You know you kind've fucked me with this peanut butter cookie craving, right?

 

[MrMakersMark]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE when I get messages out of the blue titled DADDY WANTS YOU!

Who even knew I had one? I'm glad he informed me of that, because I don't know who TF he is! (I still don't want to know!)

Anyway, he starts his sweet message with "mmm" - . The rest of his message isn't much better. It's degrading, not my kink. You'd think he'd know me better by now, right?

Why are guys like this? Writing someone they don't know, have never interacted with such weird messages? I'm not his fuck toy or his cock whore, and it probably was a cut/paste, so I'm not even special.

Hey! Don't say that!
Of course you are special!
He didn't send ME one of those messages did he?
Nope.

 

[seela]

I need more boobage in my life. Boobitude. Boobdom.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

I try to read the posts of the person I am interested in. Especially threads they've started.

I want to know if we actually share any interests, if I think our personalities might be compatible. I want to be able to say to her, okay, these seven fantasies you've written about at length? Yes to all of those, and I'm serious.

I then tend to describe how they would play out and I show her I've had those same fantasies for a long time, when I speak to her.

I know a lot of folks on here are contacting people because it's like porn to them, it's just for a wank. There's not a person who has needs on the end, who might want to be mentally stimulated.

That's what they think, perhaps- it's a bit lazy.

I try to do my homework so there's actually something to talk about.

And, sometimes, when I see someone's posts, I find them saying something that tells me, oh, I shouldn't even contact them.

"I do not like to receive oral sex" okay loud and clear!

No judgments. I couldn't live without that so I won't contact you.

Or she posts how she's a kinky dominatrix interested in findom. Oh sweetie if I had money, maybe, but I hate to disappoint. There's no way I have any money. I am for someone who wants romance, sex, a good conversation, and a partner in life, but if you want me for my money, I've got fuck all of that. Hahah. If I had any I'd share, I just don't. Side effect of having children you know.

Why guys are like this- raised on porn. Now, I love porn, some of it, some of it's actually good, but real women in real life are not porn actresses there for the sole purpose of being wanking material.

I've spent the past two decades posting on forums. I know how to have long correspondences and I can write lengthy interesting scenarios and also, carry on long conversations that have got fuck all to do with sex.

A great big part of life happens outside of the bedroom and outside of the orgasm itself. No matter what, if you can stand being in the same journey through life together, chances are, you talk about things other than sex at least 90 percent of the time.

It's a good idea to try that. Though, I know this is a sex site. And meeting someone based on a shared kink does make sense.

But it should be a shared kink and some effort should be put in.

I think some men are of the theory that if they send 100 private messages, maybe 1 will lead somewhere, so they low effort each one.

I may not be perfect but I've never sent an unserious message and I always actually care what my partner says back. I listen even more than I talk, which....

You may need to experience to believe but yes, I do. That's why I have something to say when I PM someone, I've read the things she's discussed liking, and I know we have them in common now.

Old fashioned approach I suppose. I've always been a forum goer first, instant message chatter second. If someone has no experience on forums or talking to women for hours, days, weeks, and months of a year, probably they have no idea how to approach with anything more than a "sup" and a dick pic.

I am sure it works for them, someone will see their cock and go oh yes, thats what I want.

No shame no judgment.

I don't think that works for most women though. Not that I've tried.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

That I need to be fucked… hard.

Welcome back to Lit.

I took a long break, but, single again!

Same.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

so I'm not even special.

Oh you're special alright...

 

[EctoJohn]

It's February third. It happened!

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

I think people are more affected by my presence than they appreciate it. I need to stop expecting things.

I had a psychologist tell me once to try not to expect things from people because expectation often leads to disappointment

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I had a psychologist tell me once to try not to expect things from people because expectation often leads to disappointment

I would have told them not to expect payment from me

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

I would have told them not to expect payment from me

Luckily it didn't cost me a cent.

 

[CurvyButterfly1978]

I wonder what the weather is like in Dayton Ohio?

 

[MissRadiant]

made it with minutes to spare.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

Being awake is overrated

 

[LostHorizon]

But is the meeting done with you?

Ohhh yes… the meeting is definitely done with me