What do you guys most like in a blowjob?
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StrongMaster7
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While I'm not an expert, I do have my opinion...
Here's the thing. When it comes to sex, for me, it's all about the woman's desire. If she is not doing what she wants to do, then I can sense that and it ruins my good time. So, it about her wanting to do it, whatever 'it' is.
The girl who gave me the best blowjobs acted as if she had something to prove. I think that for her, giving a blowjob and making a guy come in her mouth showed her power over him. And she did it with glee. Sometimes, as the man is building up to his climax, it takes a while. For some women it kind of becomes work at that point. The best girl would just attack my cock every which way, tongue, teeth, lips, deep, head-only, slobbery wet, sucking audibly, smiling as she sucked and rubbed and loved my cock. And she loved to show off how she 'never wasted a drop' and gulped down my load, smiling and showing me her empty mouth after.
So, it's great if a woman has all the skills, but a woman who is hungry to do it and who reads the man and gives him everything he can handle, that's the best.
Here's the thing. When it comes to sex, for me, it's all about the woman's desire. If she is not doing what she wants to do, then I can sense that and it ruins my good time. So, it about her wanting to do it, whatever 'it' is.
The girl who gave me the best blowjobs acted as if she had something to prove. I think that for her, giving a blowjob and making a guy come in her mouth showed her power over him. And she did it with glee. Sometimes, as the man is building up to his climax, it takes a while. For some women it kind of becomes work at that point. The best girl would just attack my cock every which way, tongue, teeth, lips, deep, head-only, slobbery wet, sucking audibly, smiling as she sucked and rubbed and loved my cock. And she loved to show off how she 'never wasted a drop' and gulped down my load, smiling and showing me her empty mouth after.
So, it's great if a woman has all the skills, but a woman who is hungry to do it and who reads the man and gives him everything he can handle, that's the best.
cowboyup6977
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All of the above
Paddydrack
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Couldnt agree more. It not really how attractive a woman is that’s important to me in a sexual encounter its her desire for me. If shes wet from the get go …… its on
It’s all good! 
Most important you should ask the guy your giving it to what he likes.
For me there’s a couple ways it can go.
Sometimes she’ll kneel between my legs
“Watch me” and she’ll touch her breast’s and place her vibrator on her clit. After her first orgasms she’ll start to blow me. Her moan vibrations against me through her next orgasms drive me crazy.
Other times, she’ll massage me slowly, then my balls, eventually my prostate with either a vibrator or finger as she sucks the tip.
Most important you should ask the guy your giving it to what he likes.
For me there’s a couple ways it can go.
Sometimes she’ll kneel between my legs
“Watch me” and she’ll touch her breast’s and place her vibrator on her clit. After her first orgasms she’ll start to blow me. Her moan vibrations against me through her next orgasms drive me crazy.
Other times, she’ll massage me slowly, then my balls, eventually my prostate with either a vibrator or finger as she sucks the tip.
Replicant2018
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My wife rarely sucks my cock. Partly due to health issues. I miss a long slow deepthroating and cumming in her mouth. Been ages since I’ve had a blowjob.
Lonelyinwa
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I agree with others it's about the enthusiasm. If it feels like the lady is doing it because she has to, the sucking falls flat. If she has enthusiasm and she obviously wants to suck, even a simple technique even feels good at that point. Some men like swallowing, some men like me like to cum on you. You will be able to tell what the guy likes by how he reacts.
nakedfun4uandme
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I like variety to make it last longer and change the sensations. While I don't mind one hand stroking up and down my shaft while being sucked, I don't like this all the time. I prefer a "hands-free" approach that involves sustained deep throating every few minutes, and that allows the hands to play with my balls and my ass. While I agree with others that eye contact is very hot, variety is more important--coming off of the head and shaft in order lick and suck my balls, under my balls, and down even further if you really want me to get off. Repositioning is an important part of variety, as it feels different to have the person giving the blowjob move from between my legs to along side of me. When my wife does this while sucking me it gives me access to her pussy and ass. I love to explore and rub her with my hands while she continues licking and sucking me all over. But what absolutely does it for me EVERY time is when she then lifts her leg and positions herself in a 69. It excites me to see that giving me a blowjob has also been getting her excited--evidenced by her very wet pussy. Tasting her while she continues to suck me usually makes me cum pretty quickly. The only thing that would be even better would be if she would ask me to lick her ass after I had given her pussy some attention, or would adjust her hips and position without saying anything so that her asshole moved down onto my tongue. She does not like having her ass played with in any way, unfortunately. If a woman or man did this to me while giving me a blowjob I think I would cum almost immediately.
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Love feeling the use of tongue.
RandallOldman
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Number one requirement is enthusiasm. If you're not enjoying it, I'm not enjoying it. Unless it's a bdsm situation where I'm holding you and fucking your throat like a pussy - then I'm not so concerned if you're enjoying it. But in that situation, you'd have to enjoy being dominated, so there's that.
After that, personally I like an open, wet mouth, deep strokes, deepthroat if you can, relaxed and soft tongue. No hands, please. Just your mouth.
That's what I like best.
Some women wanted to swallow my load, either to please me or to challenge themselves. It was a big turn-on to see them struggle with it as I spurted massive amounts of come when I'd been saving up for a while. My wife, somehow in her life, became an expert cock-sucker and just seeing and feeling her technique is exciting, but mostly I want her to feel and taste my cock before I fuck her because I know it turns her on. I rarely want to actually finish that way.
Bisexguy70
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After all these comments, what have you gathered so far? Id love to be the guy you try out after lessons learnd and see how much you paid attention.
trevorness
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The blowjob part. Can’t recall when I last had one
Chatmehard
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Definitely knowing they really enjoy it, someone recently told me to sit back down because they weren’t finishe’d……………just happened to be the sloppiest blow job I’ve ever had!
she agreed to me recording it, I’ll remember it for a long time
she agreed to me recording it, I’ll remember it for a long time
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It's REALLY rare for a blowjob to be anything but absolutely wonderful. (If only there were some way to get that message out to first-time givers, to relieve performance anxiety, which I understand is a thing. Older sisters and cousins, cool aunts, maybe?) That being said, for me, it's more a matter of the things that chip away at my pleasure.
My thoughts:
Sloppiness? Not for me. Wet, to be sure, but drool adds nothing to it for this guy.
Deep throat? Doesn't do a thing for me. A thing.
A dutiful or bored look (freeuse RP aside, of course). If you're not enjoying it, skip it. Let's find something we both can enjoy.
Not a fan of moaning, but if that's your reaction to having a mouth full of me, glad to listen. Theatrical moaning though is right up (down?) there with teeth.
Ah, the finish. What hasn't been said about it? Well, for this boy there are some things in his past that come in to play, so this may be narrowcast advice. If you've got to spit or let it run out with gravity by loosening your "grip," please let me come on your tits. Much preferred. Not happily (there's that concept again: a joyful fellatrix is a wonderful fellatrix!--opportunities to use that word are far and few between) taking my cum is rejection. Emotionally, physically, spiritually–I have no use for it; it is for you. Of course you don't have to swallow it, but just for a moment imagine if you were to tell him to pull out of your pussy every time, not because you were worried about getting pregnant, but "because I don't love it (cum)." Find a way to express pleasure in receiving and keeping it, please.
Toplessness (sometimes, just that: in the right circumstances, a girl naked from the waist up is the hottest thing--probably goes back to memories of early sex play) is always a plus when the setting allows. And yes, that you're a little afraid of being seen if you do is a turn-on.
It's VERY rare in my experience (perhaps it's that "you can't easily pat your head with one hand while rubbing your tummy with the other" thing at work), but few girls will reach down and play with their pussies (a hundred times more common to squeeze her own breast
Except at the very end (and girls understand the "don't you DARE change a thing right now" idea very well!
), it's fun to break up the effort (and I know it's an effort, ladies) with some dirty story or talk. It probably also increases your, um, reward, so apply judiciously or with abandon, depending on your own desires.For me, holding my balls and squeezing them as they release is VERY pleasurable. His mileage may vary. Kinda reassures me that you know you are giving my body pleasure over a wider area than just the part you've got in your mouth.
Guys are easier to please than girls (and girls look, sound, smell, feel and taste better than guys, so maybe it balances out) but there are things you can do at the margins to "pump it up." One technique I cannot endorse is withholding it "to build up the anticipation/need." Yeah, it technically works, but your relationship is likely to prosper more with liberal and frequent application of your mouth. Just sayin'.
penshockey1983
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Eye contact is hot. Varying technique too, not just one thing over and over. Teasing until I beg her to take it in her mouth. Best of all is when she does it without even asking because she knows how much I enjoy it.
Filipinawife
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I always look into the guys eyes when I give him a bj
Jeb56
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And you have lovely eyes.
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