What do you like? A or B?

[cookiecat]

I don't even see jewellery unless its something that stands out, like Thai neck bands or lip plates. Whether or not they're wearing jewellery is inconsequential, for me personally.

That is pretty true and it's nice to know guys think that!

Well, for the most part I don't necessarily prefer one over the other, rather, my answer depends entirely on her personality and sense of style. I can appreciate it when women ( or men ) know how to accentuate themselves, and jewelry is one such instance.

Rings draw attention to delicate fingers/contrast with rough hands, necklaces and chokers bring out a strong jawline/vulnerable clavicle, ear/lip/eyebrow/nose piercings tend to compliment strong features or add an edge to soft ones, etc.

Lastly, there's that specific type of piercings, which tend to be a nice surprise regardless of how " au naturel " the rest of them are

I'm always in awe of people who can wear a scarf in a really casual, I-just-threw-this-on-and-look-amazing way.

I had a nose piercing for a really long time. When I first got it, my dad asked if I was in to some new crazy stuff these days.

You could barely see it. I finally took it out when I was skiing! I reached up with my glove to scratch my nose and the material got caught on the stud. I couldn't believe it - the little diamond was sooo tiny. I couldn't get my glove off the dang thing. My nose started bleeding. I had to twist the dang thing out. Crazy.

LOL. I'm glad I could share that story.

Secret piercings are the best.

 

[Farawyn]

A. Uniforms?
B. Nope.

 

[LallyH]

I wear earrings - all the time.
it is my favorite form of jewelry.
And I have like 100 pairs. Maybe more. Dunno.
I wear them. Change them all the time. Sometimes 2-3 times a day.

I do not care if anyone else notices - because it gives me pleasure.

I am known among my friends and coworkers for having super cool earrings and earrings that always look - "just right" with whatever I am wearing.
I prefer one off crafted earrings. Usually not precious stones, and rarely super sparkly. More like idiosyncratic. Some of them really stand out. Some of them are really long or big. Some of them are modest and kind of normal until you look close.
I have a double piercing on one side. I play with this asymmetry all the time.

I also wear rings - these never come off. All silver and on both hands.
Rings on my ring fingers and rings on my right index finger.

Oh - and pendants. Lots and lots of necklaces and pendants. Which also change daily. Same criteria as the earrings. Though in number probably more like 3 dozen... or so.

Yup - i am a jewelry girl - but not a girly girl.

I love jewellery

For work, I just wear my wedding ring, but the rest of the time I add my engagement and eternity rings on my left hand, and my mother's eternity ring and my grandmother's engagement ring on my right.

I have one ear pierced once and the other in 3 places - no idea why, but it was probably my shot at being rebellious I wear studs in them usually which are hardly noticeable under my hair, but wear dangly earrings for going out socially. That can be tricky when they all get tangled together.

And I wear necklaces and bracelets every day, and an anklet only on holiday where the weather is hot.

And uniform, so long as it's 'official' like military or emergency services. I don't count McDonalds in that

Pass it on...

 

[HubbyApproves]

A. Uniforms?
B. Nope.

B. Nope

Fiction:

A. Literary
B. Genre

 

[cookiecat]

B. Nope

Fiction:

A. Literary
B. Genre

I'm fiction flexible so I guess A.

Emotions.... are you:

A. All buttoned up?
B. Wear your heart on your sleeve?

 

[Blue]

I'm fiction flexible so I guess A.

Emotions.... are you:

A. All buttoned up?
B. Wear your heart on your sleeve?

A. Buttoned up.
With belts in place of buttons.
Over a straight jacket.
Covered in hardened cement.
Cast within a bulletproof resin cuboid.
On another planet.
400 million light-years away.
With a padlock.

I'm lazy, same question.

 

[cookiecat]

A. Buttoned up.
With belts in place of buttons.
Over a straight jacket.
Covered in hardened cement.
Cast within a bulletproof resin cuboid.
On another planet.
400 million light-years away.
With a padlock.

I'm lazy, same question.

Got it. Not emotional. In that tea kettle you shot to the sun?

Well, ummm, not sure if you've read my posts but I tend to spill it all. I will say some of that's a defense mechanism for the real stuff. I post a zillion things I find somewhat amusing when really, I'm falling apart. Hmmm. I think this post pretty much sums up I'm B.

Passing it on - Emotions... are you A. Buttoned up or B. wear your heart on your sleeve?

 

[LallyH]

Got it. Not emotional. In that tea kettle you shot to the sun?

Well, ummm, not sure if you've read my posts but I tend to spill it all. I will say some of that's a defense mechanism for the real stuff. I post a zillion things I find somewhat amusing when really, I'm falling apart. Hmmm. I think this post pretty much sums up I'm B.

Passing it on - Emotions... are you A. Buttoned up or B. wear your heart on your sleeve?

I'm mostly A. I deflect with silliness most of the time, but occasionally B bursts through. So I grab hold of it before it gets too out of control and put it back where it belongs

Pass it on...

 

[Farawyn]

Got it. Not emotional. In that tea kettle you shot to the sun?

Well, ummm, not sure if you've read my posts but I tend to spill it all. I will say some of that's a defense mechanism for the real stuff. I post a zillion things I find somewhat amusing when really, I'm falling apart. Hmmm. I think this post pretty much sums up I'm B.

Passing it on - Emotions... are you A. Buttoned up or B. wear your heart on your sleeve?

B. Heart on my sleeve. MY Sleeve. Not your sleeve.
Which means I will show you what I can and if I go too far I button it waaaaaaaaaay down, and up, and zip it, too.

Pass it.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

B. Heart on my sleeve. MY Sleeve. Not your sleeve.
Which means I will show you what I can and if I go too far I button it waaaaaaaaaay down, and up, and zip it, too.

Pass it.

A.
In a few extreme scenarios, a very ugly B.

What's a nice way of saying " emotionally retarded "?


-- Pass it on--

 

[gNocis]

"Indignant"

 

[gNocis]

B.

A. Clothes
B. Jewelry

 

[cookiecat]

I think we've already established that I am a
B. Jewelry girl.

*but don't make me wear ugly clothes either*

~ pass the question ~

The ugly clothes thing reminds me of a punishment from early on in my D/s life... I wouldn't wear what the guy I was with wanted. He wasn't being unreasonable, he just liked that level of control. I bucked against it all the time. (I actually still don't really dig the "tell me what to wear" business. Trust I'll know what pleases you...)

After several days of dismissing his requests, we had a................ ummm... meeting of the minds and the next work day, I had on a pair of my doc marten boots with a blouse and a skirt. I worked in a casual retail setting, not corporate so it wasn't going to get me fired... it just felt really awkward. I was pissed for the day but oddly, really really aroused.

I'm all about the clothes. A.

Are you:

A. Slow to get angry
B. Shoot off like a pistol and get angry easily?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[HubbyApproves]

Oh, this has changed SO much with age, more self compassion and also some tough learning experiences.

I am able to say A now mostly. There are some people with whom I have long personal history who I find I feel anger comes more easily. But sometimes anger is not wholly Inappropriate. With G, for example, I have only felt anger once. I think in a marriage that's pretty pleasing. ( frustration sometimes indeed, do not hide socks in your clothes in the dirty washing, or leave the collar thingies in and exasperation, 'you fell asleep on the train and are where?!) but anger?

Perfect? No. But I think that's ok. I was never angry enough to cause harm to any but me .

Same question passed forward.

B. I'm the complete opposite, I used to be a bit of a doormat and not get fired up about much at all. As I get older, I'm much less tolerant and much more vocal. I probably need to find a middle ground (and stop ignoring my daily meditation reminders).

A. Night owl
B. Sparrow's fart

 

[cookiecat]

B. I'm the complete opposite, I used to be a bit of a doormat and not get fired up about much at all. As I get older, I'm much less tolerant and much more vocal. I probably need to find a middle ground (and stop ignoring my daily meditation reminders).

A. Night owl
B. Sparrow's fart

B. I'm the complete opposite, I used to be a bit of a doormat and not get fired up about much at all. As I get older, I'm much less tolerant and much more vocal. I probably need to find a middle ground (and stop ignoring my daily meditation reminders).

A. Night owl
B. Sparrow's fart

I had to google sparrow's fart just to be sure it was a morning thing! I learned a new thing!

Total night owl. Sometimes I'm afraid to turn off the computer and the tv and just be still in the dark.

Passing on -

A. Night owl
B. MORNING PERSON Sparrow's fart

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

I had to google sparrow's fart just to be sure it was a morning thing! I learned a new thing!

Total night owl. Sometimes I'm afraid to turn off the computer and the tv and just be still in the dark.

Passing on -

A. Night owl
B. MORNING PERSON Sparrow's fart

I was unaware of this expression as well. The more you know ( rainbow )

A. Can't sleep, clowns will eat me...

Have to pass it on, somebody must claim the title of Sparrow's fart.

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

I was unaware of this expression as well. The more you know ( rainbow )

A. Can't sleep, clowns will eat me...

Have to pass it on, somebody must claim the title of Sparrow's fart.

The more you know....that is a helluva saying. I -can- be when I need to get up for work, but no.....honestly I am a night owl. Sorry, no "true" Sparrow's fart here....yet.

And gonna pass this on......someone's gotta fit that bill.

 

[LallyH]

The more you know....that is a helluva saying. I -can- be when I need to get up for work, but no.....honestly I am a night owl. Sorry, no "true" Sparrow's fart here....yet.

And gonna pass this on......someone's gotta fit that bill.

*puts hand up* .

Maybe sparrow fart is a UK expression? My staff use it all the time!

1. Cinema
2. Theatre

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

*puts hand up* .

Maybe sparrow fart is a UK expression? My staff use it all the time!

1. Cinema
2. Theatre

Theatre


1) time travel back to relive any yesterday.
2) time travel forward to any day yet to be.

 

[cookiecat]

Theatre


1) time travel back to relive any yesterday.
2) time travel forward to any day yet to be.

2. Forward.

I like the question so passing it on.

 

[Blue]

Backward.

Which day would depend on whether or not I were just reliving, or allowed to change events, and whether and how much I should expect any such changes would "butterfly effect" through the rest of my life.


1) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

2) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).

1) - I couldn't care less about what their biological gender is, and with today's technology they probably wouldn't even resemble a male enough for me to be squicked by the end of it.

 

[cookiecat]

Backward.

Which day would depend on whether or not I were just reliving, or allowed to change events, and whether and how much I should expect any such changes would "butterfly effect" through the rest of my life.


1) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

2) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).

1.


A. Skinny jeans
B. Not skinny jeans

 

[cookiecat]

one small hidden wrench in that otherwise agreeable sentiment. It is not understood yet why the suicide rates for post-op trans is so staggeringly high. It might be safer then to get hormone treatments, not surgery, for the time being.

At which point there might be some contention depending on how emotionally connected one might be to PIV intercourse.

To be honest though I was slightly more curious how our female posters weighed in on that one.

Life has handed me the second of those options, but our love story is not so simply summed up. I would not trade my wife even for a supposed "perfect match," even if I believed such were possible.

In essence then, I choose '2', by default.


B) not skinny jeans.

*sigh* pass it on.

no explanations? PPP

Oh snap on the sigh! I wasn't ready to think too hard about the decision, to be honest. I went with my first gut reaction. Soooooooooooo I'll keep the question going and give it some thought...

Would you rather be with:

A.) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

B.) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).

 

[AlwaysSoaked]

Oh snap on the sigh! I wasn't ready to think too hard about the decision, to be honest. I went with my first gut reaction. Soooooooooooo I'll keep the question going and give it some thought...

Would you rather be with:

A.) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

B.) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).

A. I live B
Can i get in yoir skinny jeans?
Or not (Thanks for this idea ☺)