What do you like? A or B?

I think we've already established that I am a
B. Jewelry girl.

*but don't make me wear ugly clothes either*

~ pass the question ~

The ugly clothes thing reminds me of a punishment from early on in my D/s life... I wouldn't wear what the guy I was with wanted. He wasn't being unreasonable, he just liked that level of control. I bucked against it all the time. (I actually still don't really dig the "tell me what to wear" business. Trust I'll know what pleases you...)

After several days of dismissing his requests, we had a................ ummm... meeting of the minds and the next work day, I had on a pair of my doc marten boots with a blouse and a skirt. I worked in a casual retail setting, not corporate so it wasn't going to get me fired... it just felt really awkward. I was pissed for the day but oddly, really really aroused.

I'm all about the clothes. A.

Are you:

A. Slow to get angry
B. Shoot off like a pistol and get angry easily?
 
Oh, this has changed SO much with age, more self compassion and also some tough learning experiences.

I am able to say A now mostly. There are some people with whom I have long personal history who I find I feel anger comes more easily. But sometimes anger is not wholly Inappropriate. With G, for example, I have only felt anger once. I think in a marriage that's pretty pleasing. ( frustration sometimes indeed, do not hide socks in your clothes in the dirty washing, or leave the collar thingies in and exasperation, 'you fell asleep on the train and are where?!) but anger?

Perfect? No. But I think that's ok. I was never angry enough to cause harm to any but me .

Same question passed forward.

B. I'm the complete opposite, I used to be a bit of a doormat and not get fired up about much at all. As I get older, I'm much less tolerant and much more vocal. I probably need to find a middle ground (and stop ignoring my daily meditation reminders).

A. Night owl
B. Sparrow's fart
 
B. I'm the complete opposite, I used to be a bit of a doormat and not get fired up about much at all. As I get older, I'm much less tolerant and much more vocal. I probably need to find a middle ground (and stop ignoring my daily meditation reminders).

A. Night owl
B. Sparrow's fart

B. I'm the complete opposite, I used to be a bit of a doormat and not get fired up about much at all. As I get older, I'm much less tolerant and much more vocal. I probably need to find a middle ground (and stop ignoring my daily meditation reminders).

A. Night owl
B. Sparrow's fart

I had to google sparrow's fart just to be sure it was a morning thing! I learned a new thing!

Total night owl. Sometimes I'm afraid to turn off the computer and the tv and just be still in the dark. :(

Passing on -

A. Night owl
B. MORNING PERSON :) Sparrow's fart
 
I had to google sparrow's fart just to be sure it was a morning thing! I learned a new thing!

Total night owl. Sometimes I'm afraid to turn off the computer and the tv and just be still in the dark. :(

Passing on -

A. Night owl
B. MORNING PERSON :) Sparrow's fart

I was unaware of this expression as well. The more you know ( rainbow )

A. Can't sleep, clowns will eat me...

Have to pass it on, somebody must claim the title of Sparrow's fart.
 
I was unaware of this expression as well. The more you know ( rainbow )

A. Can't sleep, clowns will eat me...

Have to pass it on, somebody must claim the title of Sparrow's fart.

The more you know....that is a helluva saying. I -can- be when I need to get up for work, but no.....honestly I am a night owl. Sorry, no "true" Sparrow's fart here....yet.

And gonna pass this on......someone's gotta fit that bill.
 
The more you know....that is a helluva saying. I -can- be when I need to get up for work, but no.....honestly I am a night owl. Sorry, no "true" Sparrow's fart here....yet.

And gonna pass this on......someone's gotta fit that bill.

*puts hand up* :eek:.

Maybe sparrow fart is a UK expression? My staff use it all the time!

1. Cinema
2. Theatre
 
Backward.

Which day would depend on whether or not I were just reliving, or allowed to change events, and whether and how much I should expect any such changes would "butterfly effect" through the rest of my life.


1) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

2) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).

1) - I couldn't care less about what their biological gender is, and with today's technology they probably wouldn't even resemble a male enough for me to be squicked by the end of it.
 
Backward.

Which day would depend on whether or not I were just reliving, or allowed to change events, and whether and how much I should expect any such changes would "butterfly effect" through the rest of my life.


1) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

2) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).


1.


A. Skinny jeans
B. Not skinny jeans
 
one small hidden wrench in that otherwise agreeable sentiment. It is not understood yet why the suicide rates for post-op trans is so staggeringly high. It might be safer then to get hormone treatments, not surgery, for the time being.

At which point there might be some contention depending on how emotionally connected one might be to PIV intercourse.

To be honest though I was slightly more curious how our female posters weighed in on that one.

Life has handed me the second of those options, but our love story is not so simply summed up. I would not trade my wife even for a supposed "perfect match," even if I believed such were possible.

In essence then, I choose '2', by default.


B) not skinny jeans.

*sigh* pass it on.

no explanations? :pPPP

Oh snap on the sigh! :( I wasn't ready to think too hard about the decision, to be honest. I went with my first gut reaction. Soooooooooooo I'll keep the question going and give it some thought...

Would you rather be with:

A.) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

B.) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).
 
Oh snap on the sigh! :( I wasn't ready to think too hard about the decision, to be honest. I went with my first gut reaction. Soooooooooooo I'll keep the question going and give it some thought...

Would you rather be with:

A.) a partner who is personality compatible, matches your BDSM preferences, and/but is trans *to* your gender preference (a trans-male, if you like men, ect).

B.) a partner who is personality compatible, biologically matches your gender preference, but does not meet your BDSM preferences (vanilla, or sub to your sub, ect).
A. I live B
Can i get in yoir skinny jeans?
Or not (Thanks for this idea ☺)
 
Your body has been mangled beyond recognition (Or, alternatively, into recognition! Now you're the most recognizable person in the world :)) in an explosion. Probably performed by a certain fringe religious organization, but who cares about that?

But this is the future!

A. 100% bionic body. Harder, better, faster, stronger.
or
B. Brain in a jar with hyper-enhanced intelligence (And internet faculties).

~ ~ ~

I would go with brain in a jar. I'm not very active so I don't really need a body, and I could solve world hunger between watching bad American TV online and daydreaming.
 
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I had to google sparrow's fart just to be sure it was a morning thing! I learned a new thing!

Total night owl. Sometimes I'm afraid to turn off the computer and the tv and just be still in the dark. :(

Passing on -

A. Night owl
B. MORNING PERSON :) Sparrow's fart

Haha! Maybe it's an Aussie thing :)


But not so funny being in the dark :(
 
Your body has been mangled beyond recognition (Or, alternatively, into recognition! Now you're the most recognizable person in the world :)) in an explosion. Probably performed by a certain fringe religious organization, but who cares about that?

But this is the future!

A. 100% bionic body. Harder, better, faster, stronger.
or
B. Brain in a jar with hyper-enhanced intelligence (And internet faculties).

~ ~ ~

I would go with brain in a jar. I'm not very active so I don't really need a body, and I could solve world hunger between watching bad American TV online and daydreaming.

Yep, me too. B. I know & love a great many people who're living rich lives in bodies that don't work very well.

A. Cats
B. Dogs
 
Yep, me too. B. I know & love a great many people who're living rich lives in bodies that don't work very well.

A. Cats
B. Dogs

B. Feed a cat, and she thinks she is a god. Feed a dog, he thinks you're a god.

Besides, I'm allergic to cats.

A: Ice
B: Wax
 
Plane. I never get bored with flying.

A. Christmas
B. New year

B. New Year - too many layers of expectations and traditions on top of Christmas. New year I can do as I like and be where and with whom I like without having to explain myself to anyone.

A. Sauna?
or
B. Hot tub?
 
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