What do you want to try? Or want more of?

[SomeJohn]

I don't really have a lot of BDSM experience, but I want it our sex life to go that way because it is so much hotter than vanilla. I probably have a shorter list of things I don't want. I definitely tend towards being sub, but I don't see myself as 100% sub. I would like to learn to be a better Dom for those times I take that role on. I want to tie her up and give her forced orgasms.

I want my wife to domme me more. I know she wants to peg me which we have done once before. I just want to serve her in every way. I want her pleasure to come way ahead of me. I am a bit of a painslut, and she is definitely more sadistic, but she doesn't want to hurt me because she knows I like it and she thinks that takes some of the fun away. I want orgasm denial and she'd probably have to put me in chastity, because I certainly wouldn't trust me not to masturbate. I'd like my wife to take other lovers because I don't think I completely fulfill her needs. I'd be open to being forced by her worship her new lover's cock.

Probably my biggest fantasy that I want to make reality is I want to be able to fist her. I imagine her having such intense orgasms with my hand inside her cunt that she is unable to do anything to return the favour until she has had some time to recover and even then all I would get is a half-assed handjob at best.

 

[enjoy_reading]

Fisting

Probably my biggest fantasy that I want to make reality is I want to be able to fist her. I imagine her having such intense orgasms with my hand inside her cunt that she is unable to do anything to return the favour until she has had some time to recover and even then all I would get is a half-assed handjob at best.

I hear you about fisting. How many fingers have you gotten inside her? I have the same fantasy too. I have gotten al 4 fingers inside. But when I tuck my thumb in, the added thumb knuckle would go and she didn't want to try more.

 

[Jada59]

Years ago, my BF had me naked and tied to the closet rod. He was using a belt to whip me. Not hard. More like in a playful fashion. One blow somehow landed right between my legs. It hurt but it hurt sooo good!

But... He freaked. Immediately began apologizing and telling me that he hadn't meant to do that. He also immediately released me and began cuddling me.

After a few minutes, he asked once again if I was okay and then what I wanted to do. What I really wanted to do was spread my legs and have him use the belt there some more, but given his reaction, I just couldn't do it.

So... Something along those lines is what I want.

 

[SomeJohn]

Fisting

I hear you about fisting. How many fingers have you gotten inside her? I have the same fantasy too. I have gotten al 4 fingers inside. But when I tuck my thumb in, the added thumb knuckle would go and she didn't want to try more.

I've had 4 fingers inside her cunt, and it started to feel right to me, but we didn't get to a point she was uncomfortable or wanted to stop.

From what I've read, perineal massage is supposed to be the quickest way to stretch and loosen up a cunt hole. I'd love to tie her up, wrists to ankles and just systematically massage and stretch her until she could easily take my whole hand.

 

[enjoy_reading]

I've had 4 fingers inside her cunt, and it started to feel right to me, but we didn't get to a point she was uncomfortable or wanted to stop.

From what I've read, perineal massage is supposed to be the quickest way to stretch and loosen up a cunt hole. I'd love to tie her up, wrists to ankles and just systematically massage and stretch her until she could easily take my whole hand.

Looks like both of us are stuck at the same point with four fingers in. Good idea about tying wrists to ankles spreading her legs wide apart to try again. Massaging, stretching with fingers to get the cunt hole relax to open up more like you said.

May be one of these days I'll get my hand in there.

 

[enjoy_reading]

Pussy tabs

Years ago, my BF had me naked and tied to the closet rod. He was using a belt to whip me. Not hard. More like in a playful fashion. One blow somehow landed right between my legs. It hurt but it hurt sooo good!

But... He freaked. Immediately began apologizing and telling me that he hadn't meant to do that. He also immediately released me and began cuddling me.

After a few minutes, he asked once again if I was okay and then what I wanted to do. What I really wanted to do was spread my legs and have him use the belt there some more, but given his reaction, I just couldn't do it.

So... Something along those lines is what I want.

We try that too. It started with some light spanking and while I was massaging her pussy, I spank it too. She jumped but ask me to do it again and I did. She seem to enjoyed have it tabbed.

Next time we tried that again, I cut off a belt I had. Use that instead of my hand while she was holding her legs apart. I remember her saying "Is my pussy bad and you need to spank it?" it made me laugh. I started with light tabs and gradually increasing to medium tabs, while checking with her. She would tell me to do it harder and I did. I spanked both sides of her vulva and labia, between the lips and on her clit too. It made a funny pop sound across the her opening with her moisture. She came on the belt when I tabbed her clit over and over again. She seem to enjoyed that since it made her cum.

The next time I suggested we tried that again, she said "Don't come close to me with that belt." It turned out to be an one time thing, but I like to try that again to see her cum on the 'pussy' belt. I still have it in our toy drawer.

 

[cookiecat]

I want to try being caged and giving a woman other than my wife the key. Tried this some but never gave the key away yet

How'd it work doing it yourself?

A pic is worth a thousand words....I would love to try this.
https://imgur.com/YFTihIK

omg. All that sperm! It's so confusing! Curious if you've ever gotten close to setting it up?

This is my idea of the only good bukkake

https://imgur.com/L9uIhjU

 

[cookiecat]

I've had 4 fingers inside her cunt, and it started to feel right to me, but we didn't get to a point she was uncomfortable or wanted to stop.

From what I've read, perineal massage is supposed to be the quickest way to stretch and loosen up a cunt hole. I'd love to tie her up, wrists to ankles and just systematically massage and stretch her until she could easily take my whole hand.

Looks like both of us are stuck at the same point with four fingers in. Good idea about tying wrists to ankles spreading her legs wide apart to try again. Massaging, stretching with fingers to get the cunt hole relax to open up more like you said.

May be one of these days I'll get my hand in there.

Well, yay for the trying! I love to read stuff like this. Good on you guys.

Wrists to ankles is an amazing position. From a woman's point of view.

One thing I really dig is the "process" of reaching a goal. Sometimes the goal isn't even the thing I want to achieve; instead, I get off on working toward that goal. Like fisting. Keeping it top of mind.

Rather than feeling like it was a fail because that one time we tried and it didn't work. I want to know that next week, we're going to try again. And again and again. The thought of getting texts the next day saying wow, you were amazing, your pussy looked so good, yada yada.

John - as to the wanting to serve your wife more - it sounds like you guys are having some fun with it? How do you think you'll get it to the next level??

Curious minds and all that.

 

[SomeJohn]

John - as to the wanting to serve your wife more - it sounds like you guys are having some fun with it? How do you think you'll get it to the next level??

Curious minds and all that.

Thank you so much for asking that question.

I tickle my wife most nights. Usually her feet or back; her legs, butt, and vulva if we have more time/energy. Sometimes it leads to sex. That is probably the foundation of how I serve her.

Your question really got me thinking about how I can take the lead on taking it to the next level. For a start I am going to try to be a more proactive servant, anticipating her needs and showing my enthusiasm for serving and worshipping her. I would hope this gives her the space, confidence, and desire to take control and show me how I can better serve.

Any other probing questions or suggestions welcome.

 

[cascadiabound]

stuff i'd like to try
1) wax play
2) flogging
3) cmnf in a small party setting
4) a whole weekend as a pet girl
5) pierced nipples

I do not know if I have the nerve to every go through with 3 and 5.

 

[SissySalina]

What kinky stuff do you want to try? Do you think you will???

Or... what have you dipped your toes in to and want more of?

Spill your secrets!!

Would want to serve Her needs better, maybe learn how to give a good massage to relax Her after a hard days work.

 

[SomeJohn]

Would want to serve Her needs better, maybe learn how to give a good massage to relax Her after a hard days work.

We do massage sometimes, but I could certainly offer more often.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I love knotwork. She loves to be tied up and submit.

I want to learn more bondage techniques (I lurk on the Shibari thread).

I'd love for her to tie me up once in a while.

So, wrists to ankles, eh? Face up or face down?

 

[cookiecat]

I love knotwork. She loves to be tied up and submit.

I want to learn more bondage techniques (I lurk on the Shibari thread).

I'd love for her to tie me up once in a while.

So, wrists to ankles, eh? Face up or face down?

Face up.

There are some great you tube how to bondage videos!

Date night: tying each other up. Watch a you tube video, once you get a successful tie, you get a reward!

Would she tie you up??

 

[AlwaysFara]

stuff i'd like to try
1) wax play
2) flogging
3) cmnf in a small party setting
4) a whole weekend as a pet girl
5) pierced nipples

I do not know if I have the nerve to every go through with 3 and 5.

Eeeek! On the piercing.
But yeah, do the pet girl.

I notice you’re the only other woman in that thread with me, cas.

 

[base10]

Eeeek! On the piercing.
But yeah, do the pet girl.

I notice you’re the only other woman in that thread with me, cas.

Love the idea of a whole weekend of pet play and staying "in character" for an extended period of time

 

[cookiecat]

Thank you so much for asking that question.

I tickle my wife most nights. Usually her feet or back; her legs, butt, and vulva if we have more time/energy. Sometimes it leads to sex. That is probably the foundation of how I serve her.

Your question really got me thinking about how I can take the lead on taking it to the next level. For a start I am going to try to be a more proactive servant, anticipating her needs and showing my enthusiasm for serving and worshipping her. I would hope this gives her the space, confidence, and desire to take control and show me how I can better serve.

Any other probing questions or suggestions welcome.

Probing...

John, do you guys switch? Does she want to be dominant or dominated? It sounds like you are going down the serve her role. Will she be comfortable taking control? Figuring out what that looks like should be fun and not anxiety inducing. I swear, sometimes doing the smallest of things reaps the greatest reward. Do laundry. LOL.

For sure putting out there what you want to receive is like some karmic circle. No one is a mind reader. I used to hope people were. I remember wanting ass play. I was super shy about it. I mean... you know... butt stuff So I just asked my husband. Imagine that! He was thrilled beyond belief. Yay for both of us!

Have fun exploring!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

stuff i'd like to try
1) wax play
2) flogging
3) cmnf in a small party setting
4) a whole weekend as a pet girl
5) pierced nipples

I do not know if I have the nerve to every go through with 3 and 5.

CMnf dinner party, yes!
The men in suits, the women in... accessories. <swoon>

Eeeek! On the piercing.
But yeah, do the pet girl.

I notice you’re the only other woman in that thread with me, cas.

*perks* which thread?

A whole weekend as a petgirl sounds super intense, i don't think i could do it. Put me on the other end of the leash, though? Yeah, that sounds good.

I don't like to cry uncle when I'm subbing, I'm afraid that i wouldn't safeword out when i needed to. I have a hard enough time with it when I'm in charge.

 

[cascadiabound]

Eeeek! On the piercing.
But yeah, do the pet girl.

I notice you’re the only other woman in that thread with me, cas.

Nipple piercing ~exactly...eek. But the number of women that have them is astonishing. It's almost common according to radiology techs and providers I work with. So common there are any number of places in my relatively small city that can do a safe and hygienic job of it.

I think the thread Fara is referring to here, Honey, is the Pet Girl thread in the PG where I have long been a thread contributor. I'll post a link.

Collars, Ears and Tails...Petgirls and more:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=825551

 

[Dribble]

peeks in...and just may follow links

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I think the thread Fara is referring to here, Honey, is the Pet Girl thread in the PG where I have long been a thread contributor. I'll post a link.


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=825551

I'm familiar with it.
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=825551&highlight=Collars+tails

I thought perhaps there was a new one that i didn't know about.



**Edit: haha, cas, i didn't see you sneak in there with that link!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

More pets!

FemDommes and their pets:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1373580

another pet thread on the PG:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1480188

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I love knotwork. She loves to be tied up and submit.

I want to learn more bondage techniques (I lurk on the Shibari thread).

I'd love for her to tie me up once in a while.

So, wrists to ankles, eh? Face up or face down?

Face up.

There are some great you tube how to bondage videos!

Date night: tying each other up. Watch a you tube video, once you get a successful tie, you get a reward!

Would she tie you up??

I've spent some time with Two Knotty Boys and The Duchy learning techniques online.

I learned the basics as a Scout.

She doesn't have the confidence in her abilities, even though I have first aid scissors and a razor sharp assisted opening knife nearby the bed.i bought some Velcro straps and leather cuffs, so I am still hoping to switch at some point

In the meantime it gives me something to write about.

 

[load69]

How'd it work doing it yourself?




omg. All that sperm! It's so confusing! Curious if you've ever gotten close to setting it up?

This is my idea of the only good bukkake

https://imgur.com/L9uIhjU

Nope, I have never been close but would love to suck hot loads out of several cocks at one time!!!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I love knotwork. She loves to be tied up and submit.

I want to learn more bondage techniques (I lurk on the Shibari thread).

I'd love for her to tie me up once in a while.

So, wrists to ankles, eh? Face up or face down?

Face up.

There are some great you tube how to bondage videos!

Date night: tying each other up. Watch a you tube video, once you get a successful tie, you get a reward!

Would she tie you up??

Yep. Face up.

Thank you