What do you want to try? Or want more of?

[SomeJohn]

Probing...

John, do you guys switch? Does she want to be dominant or dominated? It sounds like you are going down the serve her role. Will she be comfortable taking control? Figuring out what that looks like should be fun and not anxiety inducing. I swear, sometimes doing the smallest of things reaps the greatest reward. Do laundry. LOL.

For sure putting out there what you want to receive is like some karmic circle. No one is a mind reader. I used to hope people were. I remember wanting ass play. I was super shy about it. I mean... you know... butt stuff So I just asked my husband. Imagine that! He was thrilled beyond belief. Yay for both of us!

Have fun exploring!

I'd say we are both a bit switch but our primary roles would be her Dom and me sub. She isn't shy at all telling me what she wants and I believe her pleasure is more important than mine and should come first. She always tells me how much more attracted to me she is when I am productive around the house.

I've been extra attentive and eager to please her over the last couple weeks and she has noticed. She keeps asking what has gotten into me. I haven't told her I'm on here, but being here is such good inspiration/motivation.

 

[bunny4med]

We've played with some shrink wrapping of the arms to your sides. I would love to experiment with other alternate binding methods.

 

[Brattygoodgirl]

Vaginal stretching/fisting, sounding

 

[Alicia56]

I would like to be dominated by a man and a woman.

 

[twister947]

I think about being fucked by another man, but it will never happen. I don't enjoy coupling with strangers, and can't see me in a gay relationship.

 

[SissySalina]

I think about being fucked by another man, but it will never happen. I don't enjoy coupling with strangers, and can't see me in a gay relationship.

May sissy inquire what you consider a "gay relationship", sissy would not consider a Bi-Sexual relationship as being gay.
sissy considers "gay" to be in love with a person of same sex not just having sex with them.

 

[twister947]

May sissy inquire what you consider a "gay relationship", sissy would not consider a Bi-Sexual relationship as being gay.
sissy considers "gay" to be in love with a person of same sex not just having sex with them.

Good question. I guess I would call it a dating relationship...something more than fuck buddies. Romantic, maybe? Monogamous? I dunno...you get the idea. I was casually bi, within the context of threesomes years ago. Just never got beyond oral.

 

[cookiecat]

Good question. I guess I would call it a dating relationship...something more than fuck buddies. Romantic, maybe? Monogamous? I dunno...you get the idea. I was casually bi, within the context of threesomes years ago. Just never got beyond oral.

Have you been fucked by a woman?

I get there's a difference. LOL. Like the cock is actually attached. Just curious if you've had a woman use a strap on?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I think about being fucked by another man, but it will never happen. I don't enjoy coupling with strangers, and can't see me in a gay relationship.

Have you been fucked by a woman?

I get there's a difference. LOL. Like the cock is actually attached. Just curious if you've had a woman use a strap on?

I'm curious too. Is it the dick or the presence of a man that excites you most?

If you don't do sex with strangers, could you have a partner use a strap-on, as instructed by a man who appeals to you?

 

[twister947]

I'm curious too. Is it the dick or the presence of a man that excites you most?

If you don't do sex with strangers, could you have a partner use a strap-on, as instructed by a man who appeals to you?

Nope. Fingers only. The strap on holds no appeal. Not sure why, other than it's a "plastic" dick.

 

[cookiecat]

Nope. Fingers only. The strap on holds no appeal. Not sure why, other than it's a "plastic" dick.

I get that. It's an intimate act. Having it attached to the person is the appeal.

I've talked about this before - my husband had ED so we didn't have penis/vag action. He so wanted to have that feeling of being IN me. He showed up one day with a strap on. I rolled my eyes SO HARD but only in my brain because he was so jazzed to try it - I wanted him to feel good about his purchase. The thought behind it was awesome.

Missionary position was not good. Behind though - not too bad. It was weird though. Awkward. We had fun with it.

Prior to Mr. cookie, a dominant guy i was with wanted to try something up his ass. I was all horrified! How submissive of him!? He just laughed and said something like "ok, I'm ordering you to do it - does that make it better?"

Now, I like a guy who enjoys a little reciprocal ass play.

 

[twister947]

Mmmm. Ass play. The first time, we were in the shower, all hot, soapy, and steamy. She pinned me against the wall, penetrated me with soapy fingers, and bit my shoulder. Hard. Jesus Christ.

Maybe I'll rethink the strapon.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Mmmm. Ass play. The first time, we were in the shower, all hot, soapy, and steamy. She pinned me against the wall, penetrated me with soapy fingers, and bit my shoulder. Hard. Jesus Christ.

Maybe I'll rethink the strapon.

Ha ha ha! WHOOO get after it, boy!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Ha ha ha! WHOOO get after it, boy!

I’m curious what Wild Honey wants to try or wants more of?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I have no experience with ass play on a man in person. I have a little online. Okay, maybe more than a little. I love it.

Whether the guy is Dom or sub or vanilla is irelevant to me. If it feels good to him, or if he's inexperienced but willing to let me try, then game on. I'm all about pleasing my partner with whatever means i have available to me, and I'm not squeamish about the butt stuff. As long as he's reasonably clean, let's do it!

FTR, I'm super curious about sounding, too.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I have no experience with ass play on a man in person. I have a little online. Okay, maybe more than a little. I love it.

Whether the guy is Dom or sub or vanilla is irelevant to me. If it feels good to him, or if he's inexperienced but willing to let me try, then game on. I'm all about pleasing my partner with whatever means i have available to me, and I'm not squeamish about the butt stuff. As long as he's reasonably clean, let's do it!

FTR, I'm super curious about sounding, too.

Goodness gracious!!!!!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I’m curious what Wild Honey wants to try or wants more of?

Then why don't you ask her?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Goodness gracious!!!!!

What?

I'm confident, curious, and i have a healthy sex drive. Why all the fuss?

 

[cookiecat]

I have no experience with ass play on a man in person. I have a little online. Okay, maybe more than a little. I love it.

Whether the guy is Dom or sub or vanilla is irelevant to me. If it feels good to him, or if he's inexperienced but willing to let me try, then game on. I'm all about pleasing my partner with whatever means i have available to me, and I'm not squeamish about the butt stuff. As long as he's reasonably clean, let's do it!

FTR, I'm super curious about sounding, too.

Sounding on you or him?

 

[cookiecat]

Mmmm. Ass play. The first time, we were in the shower, all hot, soapy, and steamy. She pinned me against the wall, penetrated me with soapy fingers, and bit my shoulder. Hard. Jesus Christ.

Maybe I'll rethink the strapon.

That sounds fun! Rethinking things is always good!!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Sounding on you or him?

Either. Both! But mostly on him.

 

[seela]

I checked the thread to see if I've posted here. And hey, presto:

Want to try:

orgasm denial for a bit longer stretch
nipple pumps


More of:

cleaning, cooking, laundry and other such service
humiliation
control, having to ask for permission

Guess what? Ask and you shall receive! Or sometimes don't ask. It's all done and done-er. And now it's all in the "moar please" category, because some things you just can never get enough of.

(I may have accidentally had beer(s) instead of lunch today. I'm not sure if this a step up or step down from my Monday Very Adult Lunch which was basically whipped cream and pieces of gingerbread with a little bit of coffee underneath that they claimed was "Christmas Latte". I'll no doubt return and delete this post once I'm back to my regular self.)

 

[twister947]

^^^Doncha dare!

 

[seela]

^^^Doncha dare!

Making my embarrassing lunch habits public since 2018 it is!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

seela!