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What Got your kink/fetish started?

wildp said:
How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it?
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My biggest kink is being spanked. It started because of an experience with an older, much more experienced man who decided to show off a toy collection (at the time I had never seen sex toys outside of porn). I was so mesmerized by the toys on display as he was spanking me that I forgot to say when it hurt.
 
Mine started when l found out my wife was cheating l confronted her she admitted it ,l started asking intimate questions how big is he.....did he make you cum......did you blow him l was getting a massive hard on and she could see how it was turning me on so she gave me more of the details l just ripped her cloths off and we had the best fuck ever, after that l told her to fuck who she wanted as long as she told me everything she dident need any persuading .....our sex life changed forever.
 
Desire to be exposed

Mine started when an older man got daring and crouched down, lifted my skirt in a mall. I was 19. His face inches from my panties was exilerating. Been chasing that feeling ever since.....
 
My high school girl friend always wore pantyhose to church. I would give her a ride home on Sunday nights and Wednesday nights and detour to the lake. It got me so hot driving with my hand on her nylon-sheathed thigh, then later taking off her dress and bra and grinding my hard cock against her leg....

Still love pantyhose, to this day.
 
I guess that until I started visiting this site I wouldn't have called some of these things fetishes, just things that turn me on.

I remember catching glimpses of my sister's panties as well as her friends and other girls at school. My first wife often used to sit so I could see up her skirt. So I've always enjoyed that intentional or unintentional view. On the odd occasion that I visit her she still enjoys flashing.

Some years ago I discovered the joys of writing erotic stories and exchanging written thoughts with women, I could be addicted to this ;)

I had a female friend a few years ago whom was scared of sex with men but fascinated at the same time, we used to masturbate together quite often. At much the same time I became friends with a much older lady who loved to watch porn, again we used to watch movies together and both masturbate. These two cemented my love for watching a lady play with herself and mutual masturbation.

I figured that all men were just "hard wired" to love tits, so I don't call that a fetish lol
 
thongs

I grew up a time when it was popular for women to have their thongs stick out above their jeans/pants. Seeing beautiful panties every day inspired me to crossdress. I always wanted to be a beautiful woman and let the world see my panties.
 
I have always had a fetish for older women. The term was not around 40+ years ago (far as I know I since I was just a teenager) but basically MILF’s especially women in their 30’s and 40’s. If they are wearing tennis outfits, I am turned on instantly. During the summers, I played tennis at the local tennis/swimming club so everyday there were good looking mothers playing tennis. The real treat came when a women's doubles team was about to practice and one of the partners did not show up so sometimes I would end up practicing with three sexy women.
 
Wife’s panties being seen

My wife is very naive and not aware that her legs are too open when sitting and her panties can be seen at times. After seeing a young guy looking up her skirt at the mall, I was hooked. I got her wearing shorter skirts with sexier or no panties when we went certain places. I have a few favorite small shops where only one or two younger guys work and have gotten some great views of her upskirt.
 
My husband snd i Were lying in bed one night, and we were talking about our past sexual escapades. I realize the more that he had told me about his past sexual experiences, what he liked and didn’t like about certain women, I was getting more and more turned on. So then the idea came up of us possibly starting to swap. And then we started going out and I would pick out women for him, and he would pick out men for me. Then before long we realize we wanted to take the plunge and get into it.
 
I've been fascinated by women in boots since grade school. To this day if I see a woman wearing boots I'll find some way to watch discretely. I do have a favorite type... knee high, form fitting with a nice heel, preferably in good leather or other smooth material. Thigh high boots put me into orbit.

I'm not sure where the leather fetish came from, but the early eighties where all the girls wore leather minis certainly helped. Latex? That's a mystery LOL
 
There were different things in porn, but it was really getting involved here that allowed me to meet people and see different sexual paths. I learned about my dominant side, and the joys of spanking, control, and role play. My S.O. was also a member and we have been able to explore things safely and passionately for 12+ years now.
 
FuriousCurious said:
I worked for an older gentleman as a personal assistant years ago. Up until that time, I'd never even dreamed of anybody watching me have sex or masturbate. I'd show up to his apartment each morning, make his coffee, then wake him up and we'd basically just sit around and talk throughout the day as I did chores. In his younger years, he'd been into swinging and was very open about it with me. I wasn't really attracted to him, but his stories would turn me on. He told me flat out his hope was that someday I'd let him watch me play with myself, but made it clear that it was completely my choice if/when that happened, and that my job was not in danger if I never wanted to. I told him from the beginning that I wasn't interested in that kind of thing. He'd never push, but mention it casually at times when he would wax nostalgic about life when he was younger.

One day, after I'd been there for a couple hours (we'd spent the entire day discussing classic literature), he told me he had an old dress he'd like to give me. I explained that I couldn't possibly, but he asked very kindly if he could see me in it at least. As I walked into the bedroom to try the dress on, I was fully aware he was following. There was no pressure at all, and I knew all I'd have to do is tell him "no" and he'd leave. However, for some reason I really wanted to change my clothes in front of him. I had no desire for him to do anything to me, but I realized in that moment the thought of him seeing me change was turning me on a lot. So, I undressed down to my bra and panties, then he handed me the dress. He asked if I'd take off my bra, and I did. The look on his face was delicious. I loved the way it made me feel so powerful. He said, "Would you also take off your panties?" I wasn't sure at first, but I wanted to see what it would feel like to stand naked in front of somebody like that, and I did it. Completely naked, I stood there while he just looked. Without being asked, I did a small turn to let him see me from every angle. I could see that he was getting hard through his pants, so I reached up and rolled my nipples between my fingers a bit and trailed a finger down my tummy and into my slit. I slowly put the dress on and modeled it a bit for him. It was an old fashioned floral print dress that fell to my knees. Very pretty, but not something I'd normally wear. He asked me to please take it, and even if I never wore it out, put it on sometimes and touch myself in it. I agreed, and put my own clothes back on. I was so shocked at how comfortable the entire experience was and how much I'd liked him looking at me. He asked if I'd mind continuing the day with no bra on. I agreed and took it off.

An hour or so later, his son who is a couple years older than me dropped by. I was seated on the sofa in jeans and a low cut shirt with no bra. I have really big nipples that are always hard, so it was pretty obvious to his son that I didn't have one on. I noticed he kept eyeing my chest. Remembering how great it felt to have his dad look at me naked, I made it a point to pull my shirt way down and lean over, giving him a very clear view of my tits. He wasn't even shy about looking, and even stroked himself through his pants a few times. I felt as if I'd discovered some kind of crazy secret. I liked people looking at me.

On the ride home that day, I took my shirt off and pulled my tits out of the top of my bra. I felt so alive and free and turned on knowing people were seeing them. I swear to you, my jeans were soaked straight through. I finally got a hand down my pants and came gloriously almost as soon as I touched my clit.

For the rest of the time I had that job, I'd work around his house in various states of undress. It was never anything we talked about, except for a few times when he'd make a special request such as "Please come in tomorrow in a skirt with no panties" or "I'd like to watch you do the dishes in a white shirt with no bra". I was always happy to oblige. I never did fulfill his request of masturbating for him, but now I wish I would have. The closest we ever came to anything like that was once I caught him jerking off to me vacuuming and instead of saying anything, I just pulled my skirt higher and wiggled my ass a bit for him. I did ask him once if he still wanted to watch me cum, and he said he wanted to wait until I was really ready. He moved away and I went to work at a clothing store, which was not nearly as much fun. However, it solidly cemented my kink of having people look at me.
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Hi ,Does the thought of chatting to a CD do anything for you as I would love to exchange pms
 
wildp said:
How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping
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I had something similar. I was 18, my senior year of high school. I was stripped nude during Gym class that was being held on the soccer field. A bully ran up from behind me and he pulled down my sweatpants and underwear.

Only one girl saw. She was standing 15 feet in front of me. She turned her head and looked right at my penis. Oddly, her facial expression was blank. I think I’m so small when soft she might have not known what she was seeing.

I then hurried to pull up my underwear and sweatpants.

I think there was something exciting about the whole experience of being forcibly stripped nude in public. It was kind of an emotional rush. Made me feel so alive.
 
I really don't have anything too crazy, I guess. My primary fetish is reading brother/sister incest stories, reading the true accounts of those who have been lucky enough to get together with a sibling, and videos where the couple at least seem marginally plausible. It started when my sister and I were younger and I would stand outside her window at night and jack off to her as she got undressed for bed.

Cocks. Not always the men they're attached to, but just looking at them, especially videos of them with fountains of cum exploding from them. Handjob videos, blowjob videos, still images, and so forth make me insanely aroused. I really want to be the one to make that happen for a guy so I can feel his cock pulse as he shoots out blast after blast and letting the hot cum cover my hand. I'm not sure when this fixation got started.

It's a crass term, but watching videos of bbw lesbians. This is a rather new attraction for me but I can edge to videos for hours sometimes.
 
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i have a cuckold fetish. 5 years ago, i ddnt even wtach porn. then, i started to watch porn after i discovered that my wife had been sleeping with 2 guys from our local catholic church, including a priest.

i began to focus on cuckold porn as i fantasized about my cheating wife and her BFs.

now i am hooked
 
wildp said:
How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping
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an experience.
 
For my lactation fetish this was I don't know how many years ago, when I was in a magazine shop browsing through a copy of Juggs--now defunct--when I saw a spread with a woman whose big tits were spraying milk. I was surprised, and I kept going back to it. That's what started me. :)
 
wildp said:
How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping
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My ex wife wanted me to be more dominate in the bed room and so we got in to researching Dom/ sub dynamics and also other ways for me to do stuff to her and it spiraled from there now I’m into CnC most recently due to reading haunting Adeline and other books like that
 
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