What Got your kink/fetish started?

One of my kinks is fisting.
I’m sure it stems from my first time with my first wife. She didn’t even know my complete hand was inside her until I raised her head to show her. A large part of the kink was her not knowing.
Although I have repeated the act numerous times with an assortment of women, that first time is still a primary go to memory.
 
How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping
Depends on the specific kink/fetish...

My aunt always wearing high heels to family events is what kicked off my high heel fetish if you can call it that. It's not the shoe itself that gets me hard, it's the woman and shoe together that just gets my motor going.

Bondage kink...my wife is the one who got me into that.

An ex gf was the one who got me into giving cum facials.

And a former FWB was the one who got me to absolutely love a good wet sloppy blowjob.
 
There are multiple sources of my sph, cfnm, and related fantasies. But the one instance, which I've written about here elsewhere, that stands out above the rest was with a girlfriend years ago. She was extremely dominant, way more experienced than I, and really liked taking charge. She got me naked on the back porch one night, she stayed fully clothed. I was loving it, hard as a rock. She grabbed my cock, wrapping one hand around it, making it entirely disappear. She laughed and said wow, look at that I can make your cock disappear with my fist little boy. I was hooked. I've been trying to recreate that experience nearly every day since then.
 
My fetish actually started fairly recently... on Christmas, of all days.

My bf and I were having an intimate moment. At one point, he was pleasuring me between my legs with his tongue when, without warning, he started licking my anus! We had NEVER discussed doing anything like that nor did he warn me beforehand. I was so stunned that I froze. But the longer it went on, the more I got into it... and the more I got into it, the more HE got into it!

By the end, my bf was treating my ass as if it was my p***y. It was divine!

I can't believe I'm actually admitting this, but I thoroughly enjoy being licked back there. My bf has done it to be several time since, and each time feels better than the last!
 
I think mine got started because I was so insecure about GFs cheating on me, that it developed into a kink 🤷🏼‍♂️ That's my only explanation. 😅
 
How did your kink or fetish get started? Was it an expierance or did you see it watching porn or rrad about it? Mine started from actually happening to me and it turned me on. I was at friends pool with several friends. A couple older girls was there. I was joking around with them and then all 3 came after me. I jumped in the pool and swam to the deep end and grabbed the diving board. As i turned around i saw them underwater and felt my trunks come down. They pulled my trunks down and came up from water laughing saying they had seen my cock. That is what got me liking CFNM and did a little stripping
Mine started at home when we were kids. My mom wouldn’t let us in the house unless we were clean. We stripped and hosed each other off. Yes, this included our sister. This continued as long as it was warm weather until we grew up and left. I actually became an exhibitionist when a girl in one of my classes drove by with her mom. She told me about it the next day and we became inseparable until we graduated. She was a bigger exhibitionist than I was. Im a senior citizen now and still will show whenever I get the chance.
 
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