What is Off Limits?

[Christy2Cum]

I appreciate your second bullet ,does it mean a NO to rough sex too?

There are times that I enjoy rough sex, but just don't expect to do it as soon as my underwear is off!
You need to start the car and let the engine warm up before you can drive it, my body is the same warm me up before you drive me!

 

[Goldenfinger]

Im not a fan of impact play. In no context will hit you. I feel bad if I leave fingerprint bruises on my wife’s arm. My wife doesn’t want to be tickled and doesn’t like feet. Which is just fine cause I don’t have a foot fetish. Pretty much every partner has been on the same page with me.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Thank you for that, I wish everyone understood that!

You have every right to tell them, "I'm not ready for that yet." If they ignore you, then they are rapists.

 

[Christy2Cum]

You have every right to tell them, "I'm not ready for that yet." If they ignore you, then they are rapists.

How are you reading my mind lol?
I've been in some situations where I have just stopped the activities because they wouldn't listen when I told them "if you want to do that you need to do this", if they didn't listen, I stopped it and pretty much got dressed and left, not doing that for anyone.

 

[Tayloroc]

Off limits is no whether verbally or otherwise expressed. No exceptions

 

[Tayloroc]

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

How are you reading my mind lol?
I've been in some situations where I have just stopped the activities because they wouldn't listen when I told them "if you want to do that you need to do this", if they didn't listen, I stopped it and pretty much got dressed and left, not doing that for anyone.

All I can say is good for you.
I am old enough so that I don't really understand how men are getting their information about sex these days. When I was coming of age, it was not very easy to get information about women's sexual arousal. A lot of information suggested that sex was a chore for women. (sexual arousal in men was aways pretty easy to spot).
But now, it is so easy to find a lot more information. I know that porn gets blamed a lot, and maybe I don't watch the right porn. But much of what I see shows the guys going down on the woman before entering.
Of course, it still doesn't tell men to LISTEN to what the woman wants the man to do while he's down there. But it certainly suggests the need to do some preparation.

 

[Christy2Cum]

All I can say is good for you.
I am old enough so that I don't really understand how men are getting their information about sex these days. When I was coming of age, it was not very easy to get information about women's sexual arousal. A lot of information suggested that sex was a chore for women. (sexual arousal in men was aways pretty easy to spot).
But now, it is so easy to find a lot more information. I know that porn gets blamed a lot, and maybe I don't watch the right porn. But much of what I see shows the guys going down on the woman before entering.
Of course, it still doesn't tell men to LISTEN to what the woman wants the man to do while he's down there. But it certainly suggests the need to do some preparation.

You bring up a good point that they should teach in sex ed, especially to young guys - we know you are watching porn, nothing wrong with that, but do not expect a woman to act like the ones in those movies!

There is a reason why we are called "partners", there are two of us and that needs to be remembered, we are not animals where you can just have your way with us, that's not going to happen, at least not with me.

 

[eric_erosfan]

As much as I enjoy eating pussy, I was never into it during periods. I have had plenty of period intercourse and the bloody, frothy aftermath but never oral during that time.

 

[Christy2Cum]

As much as I enjoy eating pussy, I was never into it during periods. I have had plenty of period intercourse and the bloody, frothy aftermath but never oral during that time.

During my time of the month, that part of my body is totally off limits, well...period, meaning no exceptions.
I don't feel sexy, nor do I feel like having sex, it may be hard to believe from some of my posts but I am very private about that area of my body.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

You bring up a good point that they should teach in sex ed, especially to young guys - we know you are watching porn, nothing wrong with that, but do not expect a woman to act like the ones in those movies!

There is a reason why we are called "partners", there are two of us and that needs to be remembered, we are not animals where you can just have your way with us, that's not going to happen, at least not with me.

For most animals, sex only happens if the female consents. That is why you have such elaborate courtship rituals and masculine displays.
Okay, now I have to go look at your pics.

 

[eric_erosfan]

During my time of the month, that part of my body is totally off limits, well...period, meaning no exceptions.
I don't feel sexy, nor do I feel like having sex, it may be hard to believe from some of my posts but I am very private about that area of my body.

I can understand this totally. But most of the women I have been with over the years seem to be extra horny at this time of the month and wanted orgasms from sex. So it was usually right after a shower, and then back in the shower for both of us right after.

 

[nutoseen]

Good morning my horny friends!
I have just a few moments before going into a meeting for work but I would like to know from others what they consider off limits during sex or what they aren't wanting to do.
For me I don't have a lot but these may seem weird to others but they are mine:

• I love when a guy cums on me, just don't cum in my eye (that hurts way to much) or in my hair (I hate trying to get it out after it dries)
• Don't try to put your cock anywhere that isn't ready, if I am not wet don't force your cock in my pussy, if it isn't lubed don't try to get in my ass

I would love to hear about others' and maybe I will decide that is one of mine too!

no fingers in my butt (or any other part or item). her tongue may tease it though.

 

[Peaker44Redeux]

no fingers in my butt (or any other part or item). her tongue may tease it though.

Wife used to lick my ass often, even put a little pressure on it while she sucked me. Not going to lie, I miss that severely!!!

 

[Thedukeofomnium]

Tickling! Absolutely NO tickling. It just makes me mad and ruins the mood.

When I was a kid my big brother tickled me.. it was a long time ago but I still remember thinking that had I the power, I would have killed him

 

[Lorelei907]

When I was a kid my big brother tickled me.. it was a long time ago but I still remember thinking that had I the power, I would have killed him

Same here and I hated him for it. He was relentless one time and I ended up in my room crying. He later apologized but it took me a long time to forgive him.

 

[Roughscrewu]

Women in white cotton Panties

 

[Thedukeofomnium]

Same here and I hated him for it. He was relentless one time and I ended up in my room crying. He later apologized but it took me a long time to forgive him.

yep though after i was 8 or so it stopped... I like your quote about feminine beauty btw.

 

[Lorelei907]

yep though after i was 8 or so it stopped... I like your quote about feminine beauty btw.

Sorry, what quote?

 

[Thedukeofomnium]

Sorry, what quote?

Sorry, what quote?

This one: “A woman’s body makes her sexy, her smile makes her pretty, but it’s a good heart and soul that makes her absolutely beautiful.” -SultrySandy

 

[Lorelei907]

This one: “A woman’s body makes her sexy, her smile makes her pretty, but it’s a good heart and soul that makes her absolutely beautiful.” -SultrySandy

Ah! Thank you.

 

[Replicant2018]

You bring up a good point that they should teach in sex ed, especially to young guys - we know you are watching porn, nothing wrong with that, but do not expect a woman to act like the ones in those movies!

There is a reason why we are called "partners", there are two of us and that needs to be remembered, we are not animals where you can just have your way with us, that's not going to happen, at least not with me.

Well said!

 

[TandT69]

Slapping, spanking, any types of ropes and or bondage, S&M, BDSM, restraints of any kind EVER ,sub/dom bs, wanna fuck my ass? I fuck yours first. No hair pulling( If I want my hair pulled I will pull my own). No pain of any sort. If you dont know how to fuck without those I mentioned, there is no chance with me!

 

[Not Normal]

As much as I enjoy eating pussy, I was never into it during periods. I have had plenty of period intercourse and the bloody, frothy aftermath but never oral during that time.

same

 

[Not Normal]

During my time of the month, that part of my body is totally off limits, well...period, meaning no exceptions.
I don't feel sexy, nor do I feel like having sex, it may be hard to believe from some of my posts but I am very private about that area of my body.

My partner is the same. My ex, on the other hand, found sex relieved her cramps and pain. I was happy to be a dutiful husband.