What is Off Limits?

During my time of the month, that part of my body is totally off limits, well...period, meaning no exceptions.
I don't feel sexy, nor do I feel like having sex, it may be hard to believe from some of my posts but I am very private about that area of my body.
So with you. Horny as fuck right before but when it starts it’s totally off limits. Not into body fluids at all.
 
Daaaamn, I just thought I knew something about sex. A man forcing anything on a woman is not sex. It is not making love. What yahoo wants to dry-dock a beautiful pussy waiting to be sucked and licked? How would you like it if I rammed my hard cock in your ass, man? I wouldn't because I'm addicted to women, butt, you get my drift. I'm certain what I'm reading is true (from the ladies) but some of what I'm reading is so far out of my realm of possibilities it's hard to believe. I'm thankful I was taught by my parents to be respectful of everyone and women most of all. If there is no feeling of even a slight caring for a prospective partner and her desires, then I'll just head home and jerk off when I get there. If I kiss you and you like it, we'll go further. If you don't like to be kissed then I have enough self control to politely excuse myself because kissing is the hottest form of foreplay there is to me.

To me, each step of sexual exploration, and what makes it exciting, is learning my partner's ideas about sex and what feels nice to her. Spitting on folks may turn some on, but the women I grew up around would probably punch you in the balls over that one and a few more I've read here. No judgment on anyone, just a statement of fact. I've had some one-nighters but never felt all worked up over them. They were a good release, but I always felt like we'd missed a bit of connection at the soul level. I love to fuck as much as anyone, but I prefer an approach of awoman sending me subtle messages about her desires. I'm aware that I'm old school, probably older than 98% of the people on this site.

I cannot think of many times in my sexual life where I was first to pose the question of sex to a woman. Both of my wives, at different times, asked me if I was going to fuck them or just make them lose their minds with foreplay and sexual innuendo. That's exactly what I want. I want you so fucking hot for me that you can't wait to feel my lips on yours (both) or my big, rough hands on your body. My first wife asked me that on the fourth of fifth date. My current wife asked me that on the third date and a whole bunch of women between them. I am a hopeless romantic and I want you to know you've been well fucked by a man with manners and upbringing that allows you to let me know what you want. I've been refused before about things like oral sex. It's no secret that I love to lick a pussy, but if that doesn't interest you, I'll respect your wishes. We probably won't mesh long term because it's something I love.

I've been promiscuous in my life and I'm no prude. If anything, I'm more of a pervert, within the boundaries set by my partners and me. I'm good with oral, anal, threesomes, if those involved understand what can happen with that, I've been peed on a few times and fucked in some wild positions in places not normally (ha!) associated with sexual activity. There's not a part of a woman's body that I haven't shot my load on when asked, and I've had sex with adults I shouldn't have. But it is what it is. I believe what I'm reading here, I never realized what some of the possibilities are that fall outside my definition of sex, and that's fine for those that do. Clearly, respect for each other is a dying form and I'm still learning new things every day. There's not much that a man and a woman can do together that I would not do if asked by my partner. I don't want to beat anyone up or have anything to do with blood or poop. Beyond that, I'll listen to anything, but that's just me. Happy humping!
 
I love my ass smacked, but don't raise a hand to my face. PTSD and I will not be responsible for the depth of my reaction or your broken nose.
I cannot tolerate a ball gag or having my arms pinned to my body. See above.
I can take hands or a belt around my neck. Since I can't use a safe word in that instance, I tap 3 times. Basically, I forfeit the wrestling match.
I will not consider TG, crossdressing or strap-on. If I liked those things I would still be married.
I will not permit penetration without a condom.

It's seems like a long list, but they are mostly related. And I have plenty of fun within my boundaries
 
I can understand this totally. But most of the women I have been with over the years seem to be extra horny at this time of the month and wanted orgasms from sex. So it was usually right after a shower, and then back in the shower for both of us right after.
One of our most memorial times was one year on my wife's birthday and she was on her period. She was kind of drunk and decided she wanted me to eat her. The next morning we looked like we had been in a murder but she was wild during the act.
 
Not a lot is off limits here. One or two:

I cannot be tied up at all, claustrophobic... but I can tie, whip, choke and dominate you!
Everyone must be clean, no BO smell.
Nothing excremental.

All the other fun stuff is ok! Ha
 
I hate being tickled and I know nearly everyone else doesn't care for it, either. The only dating advice my son ever took to heart from me was "Don't tickle the girls. They hate it."

There was one exception to this. A woman I dated in college would orgasm from being tickled. She would beg for it.
 
My hard 'noes' all come down to blood, shit, and bruises, but there are some qualifications/exceptions.

OTOH, being too vanilla is a problem too.
 
Don't play with my nipples (especially you dudes, always the damn dudes) unless I ask you to. It doesn't always feel good for me.
Yes!!! And here I thought I was the only person on earth who doesn’t enjoy nipple play. It makes me feel physically ill.
 
Not much is off limits for my gf and me, just no telling anybody my cuck fantasies, and no flirting with my close friends. 🤷🏼‍♂️
 
We have very few limits, my wife and I are very very like minded and have managed to surround ourselves with like minded playmates. We do however draw the line at anything shit or puke related, spitting and blood. We love anal and rough sex but make sure that hole is lubed or it’s no entry.
 
Good morning my horny friends!
I have just a few moments before going into a meeting for work but I would like to know from others what they consider off limits during sex or what they aren't wanting to do.
For me I don't have a lot but these may seem weird to others but they are mine:

  • I love when a guy cums on me, just don't cum in my eye (that hurts way to much) or in my hair (I hate trying to get it out after it dries)
  • Don't try to put your cock anywhere that isn't ready, if I am not wet don't force your cock in my pussy, if it isn't lubed don't try to get in my ass
I would love to hear about others' and maybe I will decide that is one of mine too!
Inserting objects into my cock hole is
 
No hitting, slapping, or hard biting. Absolutely no anal. My wife was forced to take it in the ass in college, and it will never happen again.
 
No poo or pee, no hitting or slapping, dont fuck her/him dry. No choking either. If you are gonna do anal, plug for a couple of hours and then lube it up.
 
I love my ass smacked, but don't raise a hand to my face. PTSD and I will not be responsible for the depth of my reaction or your broken nose.
I cannot tolerate a ball gag or having my arms pinned to my body. See above.
I can take hands or a belt around my neck. Since I can't use a safe word in that instance, I tap 3 times. Basically, I forfeit the wrestling match.
I will not consider TG, crossdressing or strap-on. If I liked those things I would still be married.
I will not permit penetration without a condom.

It's seems like a long list, but they are mostly related. And I have plenty of fun within my boundaries
What about hands pinned over your head?
 
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