What is your wife’s favorite fantasy?

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Aahahaha just because I challenged your perception of your actions I'm a humourless bozo? Sulk harder, mate - maybe come back when you've had a nap and aren't feeling quite so stroppy?
Your apology is accepted.
I don't know what part of the world you're in matey but where I am it's 9.00am and I've just woken from a good nights sleep.
 
Wait, shouldn't you be doing something more productive if its 9am? Like, I don't know, maybe working? 😂😂Instead of dossing on an erotica forum
Oh god! Newbies! Give me strength. I'm retired matey, enjoying the good life and rewards of a lifetime of toil and productive enterprise.
 
and here I thought I was the only one with this same situation. I have given up on the subject with her as it never bears fruit
Same here, fellas. When I ask her she says she doesn't think about things like that. She doesn't masturbate because she doesn't feel the need to. It really fucking sucks having such a deadbeat, sexually, for a wife. She's great in so many other aspects of our marriage.
 
My wife doesn't have any. She enjoys sex, we fuck a few times a month and it's vanilla and it works.

But there's no burning passion for any fantasies. She's never asked to try different things, she's kind of engaged when I've experimented but she has never, in 20+ years of being together, offered up a fantasy. She'll watch porn to get turned on but it's just hot models having sex. There's no kink, there's no fantasy, just some sex.

I'm cool with it but it seems unusual. That's her, though, and I accept her for who she is.
 
have you shared this with her, not in an accusatory manner but having a nice heart to heart talk in a nice neutral place, ie enjoy a day out somewhere nice she likes and soothing and then approach it there. Women respect men who have the courage to open up and share, not accusing them of why they are not sharing fantasies but rather from the angle of communicating with an open non-judgmental heart and saying "I would really love to have honest and open communication in all areas of our life, including the bedroom. I'd love to share my fantasies with you and the things that matter to you the most and which you may keep private, to create a safe space where we can share all that...whatever it is"... something along those lines... and in time, she may if you don't pressure but just give her the space.
Thank you for your thoughtful suggestions. I have tried to share with her my fantasies, being open and honest and she freaks out before I can even begin to open up. So I pull back. I am the most open and embracing person, I honestly don’t know how I could make her feel safer. She could have anything she wants if she just asked, or shared. But sadly she emotionally is not able to be honest in this way.
 
She has many fantasies. One in which she is naked in front of a bunch of men masturbating for her. One is a happy ending massage by another woman. She also has one where she watches me suck another guys cock. We both know these are just fantasies and will never become reality but that is what makes it easier ti share.
Never say never.
 
have you shared this with her, not in an accusatory manner but having a nice heart to heart talk in a nice neutral place, ie enjoy a day out somewhere nice she likes and soothing and then approach it there. Women respect men who have the courage to open up and share, not accusing them of why they are not sharing fantasies but rather from the angle of communicating with an open non-judgmental heart and saying "I would really love to have honest and open communication in all areas of our life, including the bedroom. I'd love to share my fantasies with you and the things that matter to you the most and which you may keep private, to create a safe space where we can share all that...whatever it is"... something along those lines... and in time, she may if you don't pressure but just give her the space.
Love your open minded Sophie..
 
That is so true. I had a fantasy about shopping for panties for me and one morning she took me to Kohl’s with her. We were in the panty section and when this nice older salesperson asked if we needed help my wife told her i needed some panties with an extra wide gusset so i wouldn’t fall out. The clerk didn’t miss a beat and showed us some nice Vanity Fair panties. it was the most embarrassing and the most exciting moment. We never did it again
Sounds like you have an adventurous wife. We've lived out some fantasies I never thought would actually happen to.
 
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