What is your wife’s favorite fantasy?

[Follesosso]

Pendant une semaine ou deux, faut croire qu’elle est insatiable.

She IS, elle l'est en effet.b

 

[Prasa]

Not quite sure. But she loves white guys with boyish looks.

She loves BBC too and explored one in a while we toured jamaica on a official trip. Its an on n off fantasy of her.

 

[Vitriolhack]

My ex-wife and I married too young.

Most of her fantasies involved creative uses for our checking account and fucking fat country boys with skoal rings and chlamydia while I was overseas (contractor, not military).

Anyway, she used to tell me that sex hurt. Sometimes she'd turn away from me even touching her. I'm a caring and receptive guy. I asked if there was anything I could change or do. She would just say, "I don't know" and clam up. I knew there was something going on, but I'm not a mind-reader, and that seems to be what she expected. I told her she needed to speak to a doctor about it.

We went through a long period without sex before she ended up with something she couldn't hide (see above). Thankfully, our unwelcome abstinence kept me from getting it.

We split amicably (mostly) and maintained contact. Every so often she'd get emotional and call to reminisce. That's when she finally opened up about the sex hurting thing.

She told me she had a... am I allowed to drop the term? She wanted me to push her for sex, even force the issue. Violently. Based on her past experiences (read: trauma), she figured that's what I would do because I'm a guy. I knew about what happened to her, and I would never have dreamed of doing that without a long talk about boundaries.

It sticks out to me all these years later. I'd have done whatever she wanted. But, like I said, I'm not just going to throw her down and non-con her ass without some kind of boundary/consent conversation.

The inability to communicate was our hurdle, and we stumbled.

That is a little sad for both of you, it seems like you care for her, even now.

Maybe it’s not too late for you two?

Vaginism Or vaginismus is a well known topic by health professionals. You are correct, she should talk to a doctor, I would suggest a sex therapist since it’s a physical response to the mind.

Hope you both are happy today.

Thanks for sharing.

 

[cowboyup6977]

I’ve shared her with a black man
She wants to share me with a black woman
Which is much harder to find

 

[Vitriolhack]

I’ve shared her with a black man
She wants to share me with a black woman
Which is much harder to find

It’s great that you can both talk openly about it.

 

[cowboyup6977]

It’s great that you can both talk openly about it.

We talk about anything and both like to share

 

[Tir_an_Beithioch]

That is a little sad for both of you, it seems like you care for her, even now.

Maybe it’s not too late for you two?

Vaginism Or vaginismus is a well known topic by health professionals. You are correct, she should talk to a doctor, I would suggest a sex therapist since it’s a physical response to the mind.

Hope you both are happy today.

Thanks for sharing.

Based on what she told me later, it wasn't a real thing. More of a roleplay in which she wanted me to force her, even though it "hurt". Or maybe specifically because it hurt. I don't know. She was disappointed that I didn’t just take it.

She had a lot of mental issues, but she's remarried now and I assume she's happy. I know I am.

 

[VikingPhoenix]

I'm not married, so I can't answer this question firsthand. However, as the single gal in a group of married friends, I'm the one they each confide in separately. Rita, who is a Type A bitch wants to be dominated. Knowing her husband, that will never happen. Mags, who likes anal, wants to peg her husband but can't find a way to bring it up. But overall, more than anything else, all my gal pals have one common fantasy -- they want to fuck, correction, they want to get fucked by one of their husband's friends. Not a cuckold thing, just one on one.

Every time I hear this fantasy, they usually have a fantasy story to go with it. Katrina has this thing for Stephanie's husband. In her fantasy, she's in the mall and sees him (Craig) they chat and decide to get lunch. At lunch, they flirt, and he gives her $100 to go to Victoria's Secret, buy and wear sexy lingerie and then walk to the Sheraton Hotel next door, where they fuck the afternoon away. She's home in time for dinner. I told her to write that into a story for Literotica.

Stephanie is no better. Her fantasy is about Rita's husband Terry. Rita has run off in this fantasy, and Stephanie's husband has died. She and Terry go for a ride up the coast and have a few drinks by the seaside. They drink too much, and better safe than sorry, get a room to sleep it off. When in the room, they sober up by fucking.

Vivki's fantasy has to do with Terry, too. In the real world, she and Terry carpool three days a week. In her fantasy, Terry tells her offhandedly that Rita doesn't think blowjobs are cheating. She then proceeds to give Terry a blowjob all the way home. They increased their carpool from 3 days a week to 5. NOTE: This one might actually be happening. I'll report back when I know more.

So there it is guys; your wife is probably fantasizing about your friend. The common denominator (why is Terry so popular?) is looks and humor. Terry is late 40's, has his hair, runs, and above it all, he's very funny. I would be lying if I said I hadn't also fantasized about him myself. But this thread is about married girls, so I'll save my fantasies for my stories.

Top notch answer gorgeous! I think you're spot on. Every woman, just like every man has fantasies outside of their marriage. Whether or not they act upon them comes down to the individual/s. I can honestly say that since being married, 14 years now, the sex better and more open. Both of us have had a good share of fun before we met/got hitched. I'm grateful for that because I can tap into those experiences and share or give them to her. Lol..just this morning I told her how I'd fantasized about her getting fucked by two hot islander security guards at the airport that screened us on a recent holiday. They were both fit and had a good sense of humor. Being a man, I could feel their attraction to her wickedly hot petite bod. When I told her about this fantasy that they took her into their screening room and made me wait outside, I could feel her arousal. I like to have fun with situations like this. She took the dogs out for a quick walk and I'm willing to bet that she comes back through the front door with fire between her thighs and lust in her eyes. Hehe..I'll play coy and then feed her a little more of what they did to her behind that closed door..if she asks

 

[Easyvirtue]

Me masturbating so I won’t make her have sex! LOL!

 

[Vitriolhack]

Based on what she told me later, it wasn't a real thing. More of a roleplay in which she wanted me to force her, even though it "hurt". Or maybe specifically because it hurt. I don't know. She was disappointed that I didn’t just take it.

She had a lot of mental issues, but she's remarried now and I assume she's happy. I know I am.

Interesting, well, as long as you both are happy, good for the both of you.

 

[Vitriolhack]

We talk about anything and both like to share

That is so hot!

 

[Erosfan]

My wife says that she doesn’t fantasize. I don’t believe her because she’s the kinky one and the one that comes up with ideas.

Same here. My wife was incredible in all things sex. She said she didn't have any fantasies. She was spontaneous and never failed to surprise me. Her hand jobs were to die for. She would surprise me and go for it when I least expected or even thought about it. I loved her hand jobs when I was driving and she most often made sure we were seen. We played, me naked, on our back porch and in our garage (with the door open). We were seen for sure in our garage and I'm fairly certain we were seen on our back porch. She let me play with her on some of these occasions and I had so much fun.

 

[leatherneck64]

She will not tell me. Maybe it's a good thing.

mine wont either

 

[cowboyup6977]

That is so hot!

It’s called mutual trust and respect

 

[Hornyhusband2017]

Unexpected bondage style gangbang is my wife's ultimate fantasy. Wants a mix of bbc and bwc. Wants to be used and abused and sent home a cum covered and cum leaking mess for me to greet at the door.

 

[Follesosso]

Gang bang massif et attachée est aussi le fantasme principal de ma femme.

 

[Excitabletom]

Me doing the cooking and cleaning without being asked!

 

[LIDiver]

According to her, I am her fantasy and that is it. As flattering as that may be if it is true, I would like her to tell me her REAL fantasies.

 

[WonderPonder]

The only fantasy she ever told me was she'd like to have sex with another man who has a bigger cock. I was the only man she has had intercourse with until new years. He has a bigger, thicker cock which she loves.
For the longest time she told me she didn't have any fantasies.

 

[mustang_driver]

Some years back we had an email exchange about this and her top fantasy was to meet up with a stranger for a night of hot sex. In her own words, "No judgements, no inhibitions, just pure steamy sex with a really hot guy."

 

[Vitriolhack]

Being a rock and roll star groupie is hers!

 

[emme8]

As a wife I'll tell you mine.

Mine is currently 2 men playing rough with me. I wish hubby could dominate me, make me a horny mess, and bring me to my Dom as a treat for him.
I wonder about DP. Both men enjoying fucking my body hard and leaving me as the cum filled slut I am.

In real life I would have to settle for being spit roasted. I doubt either would want to get that close to the other. And even if they did, I doubt I could take both cocks at the same time, both are well endowed my legs don't spread that far apart.

 

[claimsguy]

My wife really likes having a fantasy of fucking men in front of me. We often fantasize about her getting double teamed while I watch. It really turns both of us and she cums hard.

 

[JusticeGrey]

Being a rock and roll star groupie is hers!

Any particular band?

 

[LIDiver]

Any particular band?

Hootie and the Blowfish.