What makes sissies tick?

[rockynook]

Great subject.I was first feminized decades ago by my older sister and started at age age 12. It seemed so natural and I loved it!
I loved the feeling of the attire,the total feminity the make-up ,and the fact that mens clothing is boring compared to ladies attire.
What I really enjoy is lingerie, stocking, heels make-up and sexy wig. It takes me about an hour to prep.
My wife and I are deep into a Femdom marriage and we absolutley enjoy me being a submissive sissy slave.
I enjoy the emascualtion,humilation and subjugation. I also love being penetrated and sucking suck.
What I really enjoy is performing with an audience. I am proud to serve my wife and have NEVER performed with a man without her approval. In fact she decides when I perform.
As far as "what makes a sissy tick"? I believe it is in our DNA and the fact that being a sissy is the epitome of kink.
I retired at age 59, and I am now fully fem 24/7 and love it. The more frilly,sheer,sexy the attire,the better.
One further point. In the real world I am 100% alpha male. At home I am sissy slave. I mention this because many sissies are in the same situation.

 

[MarieChalice]

First, to put my thoughts in context. This body was born male, mostly lives male and I share it reluctantly ( on both parts). I identify as trans mtf, aand also I have discovered a large amount of sissy in my persona, or co- existing with it maybe.
I see my trans persona as gendered. I want to be a woman.
As a sissy or maybe in my sissiness, that is not what I seek.
I believe sissiness is actually a rejection of masculine gender by someone brought up as a man. There may be many reasons for this but at root the sissy is seeking "the land of lost content", the "polymorphous perversity" of the young child we once were. The feminine clothing and submissive behaviour is partly rejection of our now toxic masculinity and partly an embrace of our primitive undifferentiated eroticism. A sissy will also look for dominant Daddy or Mummy figures.
https://web.sas.upenn.edu/psycheoncampus/2019/09/29/the-abcs-of-polymorphous-perversity/

 

[stargame]

Great subject.I was first feminized decades ago by my older sister and started at age age 12. It seemed so natural and I loved it!
I loved the feeling of the attire,the total feminity the make-up ,and the fact that mens clothing is boring compared to ladies attire.
What I really enjoy is lingerie, stocking, heels make-up and sexy wig. It takes me about an hour to prep.
My wife and I are deep into a Femdom marriage and we absolutley enjoy me being a submissive sissy slave.
I enjoy the emascualtion,humilation and subjugation. I also love being penetrated and sucking suck.
What I really enjoy is performing with an audience. I am proud to serve my wife and have NEVER performed with a man without her approval. In fact she decides when I perform.
As far as "what makes a sissy tick"? I believe it is in our DNA and the fact that being a sissy is the epitome of kink.
I retired at age 59, and I am now fully fem 24/7 and love it. The more frilly,sheer,sexy the attire,the better.
One further point. In the real world I am 100% alpha male. At home I am sissy slave. I mention this because many sissies are in the same situation.

Yes, I completely understand this.

 

[Lucia_slt]

Hello sissies,

I've been reading responses from different people, finding some similar some different points with what I feel.
Some of you are saying how your wives participate, help or support you in your sissyfication.

I wonder if for any/some of you presence / participating of your wife/gf/so is the main element you need.
I've been wannabe sissy and wannabe bi for a long time (5-7 years). Nonetheless I never wanted to do anything about it on my own without my girl being part of it.
Fantasying about it on my own without sharing to her or even prior to coming out to her - yes, plenty.
Actually doing anything without her seeings/knowing/telling - no way.
This is not because I need he support (though I do), it's just not appealing any other way.


Do any of you relate to this?

 

[richgo50]

Hello sissies,

I've been reading responses from different people, finding some similar some different points with what I feel.
Some of you are saying how your wives participate, help or support you in your sissyfication.

I wonder if for any/some of you presence / participating of your wife/gf/so is the main element you need.
I've been wannabe sissy and wannabe bi for a long time (5-7 years). Nonetheless I never wanted to do anything about it on my own without my girl being part of it.
Fantasying about it on my own without sharing to her or even prior to coming out to her - yes, plenty.
Actually doing anything without her seeings/knowing/telling - no way.
This is not because I need he support (though I do), it's just not appealing any other way.


Do any of you relate to this?

Well said, i feel the same way you do. Would love for her to take charge and tell us what to do.

 

[Cumpup39]

My husband confessed to me a few months ago that he wanted to wear my lingerie. Since then, he's talked about wearing more of my underwear and clothes. He shaved his body and is talking about waxing his privates. A week ago he started asking about using a dildo on him during sex.

So, sissies and the wives/girlfriends who love them, what is going on with him? What does this mean? How far will it go? He says he's not gay but is he?

I understand that everyone is different so my questions are a bit over the top, but I truly want to understand how others have gone through handling a hubby who is 'suddenly sissy'.

Thank you!!

For me it is the forbidden fruit. Doing something that is against the rules. Adopting an alter ego and letting go! Many men are burdened by responsibility and expectations. We are supposed to be tough, in charge and responsible.

Being a sissy means breaking rules, giving up power and authority, letting others make decisions, and submitting to another.

Being a male and assuming a feminine, submissive role is very liberating. It doesn’t mean we don’t want to be with our wives or married, it means we need a mental and sexual break from societies rules.

I am over about 200 people at work and find letting go, dressing as a slut and being used by men is the ultimate vacation.

My wife is my life… being a submissive sissy and serving men is the mental saftey valve that keeps me going!

 

[cdstefi]

My husband confessed to me a few months ago that he wanted to wear my lingerie. Since then, he's talked about wearing more of my underwear and clothes. He shaved his body and is talking about waxing his privates. A week ago he started asking about using a dildo on him during sex.

So, sissies and the wives/girlfriends who love them, what is going on with him? What does this mean? How far will it go? He says he's not gay but is he?

I understand that everyone is different so my questions are a bit over the top, but I truly want to understand how others have gone through handling a hubby who is 'suddenly sissy'.

Thank you!!

I haven't read all the replies but, speaking as a crossdresser who loves lingerie but doesn't regard myself as at all sissy, it doesn't have to be the stereotype. If anything, wearing just turbocharges my basic masculinity. I feel sexy in pretty underwear, I'm a man with cock and balls and while I enjoy a good pegging too, it's just another lovely item on the sex menu.

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

Thank you, uh, Sticky Girl. I hear what you're saying. Most important is that we trust each other and it was important for me to dispel his fears that I was going to leave him because he wants to wear my panties. He's got many years of fears layered in him so he may never feel safe and he's still telling me new details as we go along so I have my own fears for where he'll end up.

Agree we need to be supportive and try to understand

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

Well, I spoke too soon. Been awhile since he was "man" for me and actually declined the last time I asked for it. more than any panties or sissy play, this has me... worried? Concerned?

Understandable to be worried