What pissed you off today?

[kiwi_submissive]

Someone asking to "borrow" money. The same person who has never made any effort in the past to pay back money they have "borrowed" and always has excuses on why they can't pay.

To really piss me off they did not even have the courtesy to ask me to my face, they had to send a text with some stupid excuse on why they need $200 NOW and is to stupid to realise that we live in a small town so it's not difficult to find out they could afford to go to the pub last night till 3am.

Sorry it's not the season for my magical money tree to have any money on it.

 

[minx1]

Discovering that the man I had submitted to and had fallen quite hard for had been doing exactly the same thing that my ex did; trawling for women on the internet.
He had arranged to meet one too for a little 'fun'. I've just finished talking to her

I didnt need this after the last time. Ffs

 

[Babyslave]

He isn't worth your thoughts. Feeling that you "can't move forward without him," though, is giving him the "win."

He may be proud of himself, but no one else is, and if he isn't reading your words - and feeling at least a little shame or loss - then my first sentence above is even more true.

You didn't end up with nothing. You ended up with yourself, free to grow, to go on, to find someone worthy of you. Do so. Be all that you can and should be, and you'll find that he soon will recede to just a slightly unpleasant memory of no real consequence.

You're right, of course. Thank you for the reminder. Rationally, logically, I know this. I do. I need to remember it more easily.

I also don't always remember that drinking wine alone isn't a wise choice. That allows me to see him here, in every room, with me.... (allow me a moment to chastise myself) I didn't intend the evening to end the way it did, full of melancholy, and regrets. No, it was a gorgeous summer evening, I'd had a splendid productive day, and the strawberries were crying out for something more classy than a vodka/tonic. So, I foolishly sat on my porch, with the pretty bowl of strawberries and a lovely bottle of wine. Lesson learned.

In the light of day, and an only slightly muzzy head, I remind myself that I came back here for ME. Yes, you heard me. I'm being selfish. I'm here for me. me, ME, ME!

(and all my wonderful friends, new and old, of course!)

 

[Babyslave]

Discovering that the man I had submitted to and had fallen quite hard for had been doing exactly the same thing that my ex did; trawling for women on the internet.
He had arranged to meet one too for a little 'fun'. I've just finished talking to her

I didnt need this after the last time. Ffs

Sending hugs and positive thoughts your way.

You DON'T need this.

Though I expect this won't help? I can relate to your situation, in a way.
I'm so sorry. Hang in there.

 

[Babyslave]

Someone asking to "borrow" money. The same person who has never made any effort in the past to pay back money they have "borrowed" and always has excuses on why they can't pay.

To really piss me off they did not even have the courtesy to ask me to my face, they had to send a text with some stupid excuse on why they need $200 NOW and is to stupid to realise that we live in a small town so it's not difficult to find out they could afford to go to the pub last night till 3am.

Sorry it's not the season for my magical money tree to have any money on it.

They asked you for money in a TEXT? Are you kidding me?
Grrrrrrr.

(I've been watering my money tree with liquid gold, that seems to help!)

 

[CurvAppeal]

False friends are like moths, when your light is shining they are drawn to you however when your light flickers and fades as it does in times of trouble they are nowhere to be found.

One thing I have found when things go really wrong is that I close off and lock everyone out. They really have no idea how to break in to help me and eventually back away to give me space. It's not that they don't care, its that they don't know what to say or how to help.

I'm the opposite. I let my friends in. I'm the type that when I'm sad I want to be held and talked to and listened to, or else I'll go insane, like I have been for the past month.

 

[Bandit58]

Discovering that the man I had submitted to and had fallen quite hard for had been doing exactly the same thing that my ex did; trawling for women on the internet.
He had arranged to meet one too for a little 'fun'. I've just finished talking to her

I didnt need this after the last time. Ffs

I read your post out to Sir. He shook His head and said something to the effect that sometimes He feels like the only one who doesn't feel the need to cheat. Yes He has had 'fun' with others but it was with the full knowledge and consent (and often participation!) of the person He was in a relationship with.

I'm so sorry you have been lied to again minxie You have my email and my PM box is always open for you

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Discovering that the man I had submitted to and had fallen quite hard for had been doing exactly the same thing that my ex did; trawling for women on the internet.
He had arranged to meet one too for a little 'fun'. I've just finished talking to her

I didnt need this after the last time. Ffs

*hugs*

 

[CurvAppeal]

Discovering that the man I had submitted to and had fallen quite hard for had been doing exactly the same thing that my ex did; trawling for women on the internet.
He had arranged to meet one too for a little 'fun'. I've just finished talking to her

I didnt need this after the last time. Ffs

Oh Minx, I'm oh so very truly sorry. I've been through that. =( I wish I could say more instead of sounding pathetically sympathetic when my heart is nearly bursting of empathy for you.

 

[rasher]

the doctor at my chemo deal today.

 

[notalwaysweak]

Getting messaged online by a friend who will not stop nagging me to participate in a writing contest that I am profoundly disinterested in. More so because I had an away message up stating I did not want to be messaged except under certain circumstances that she didn't respect.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Getting messaged online by a friend who will not stop nagging me to participate in a writing contest that I am profoundly disinterested in. More so because I had an away message up stating I did not want to be messaged except under certain circumstances that she didn't respect.

Sounds like you need a new friend, or a new definition of the word.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Not sure pissed off is the correct terminology for me, more stressed....my hearing aids need adjusting!! Some things I still don't hear, others I hear too much, and though I am grateful to actually be hearing again, there are some things that seem overwhelming. LOL, used to think sitting in the doctors waiting room was quiet time....went today and found now it is an overload of noise from all directions. I am finding it is good to take them out from time to time just for some peace. It will get better, I know, just have to work through the adustments and get used to the whole process.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Discovering that the man I had submitted to and had fallen quite hard for had been doing exactly the same thing that my ex did; trawling for women on the internet.
He had arranged to meet one too for a little 'fun'. I've just finished talking to her

I didnt need this after the last time. Ffs

Sorry you are going through this again. There are good men out there, just seems they are more difficult to find than the others. Hopefully he will find himself quite alone and with no-one to play with. You deserve much better.

Catalina

 

[Kurokami]

That crunch I just heard? Yeah, that was me breaking the middle finger on my right hand. No pain, all the nerves are severed in that hand, but it's still a goddamn inconvenience. Especially since I'm getting married in a week and a bit... That'll teach me to gesticulate so dramatically to near to a wall... Damn it.

Okay, I'm off to go splint this thing...

 

[Keroin]

Those fuckwads in Vancouver.

Another riot? Over a hockey game?

How fucking embarrassing.

 

[midwestyankee]

That Anthony Weiner's stupidity caught up with him. He was a seriously entertaining voice for progressives.

 

[Lilac_Sky]

Self-absorbed people who can't see that they tread on other people

 

[seela]

The effing cat destroying my Chinese chives! All of three pots of them!!

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Since we don't have a "This is Freakin' NUTS!" thread, I guess my post has to go here.

Aussie girls, aged seven and eight, tie in controversial kickboxing bout on the Gold Coast

Eight-year-old Jasmine Parr survived her first public kickboxing bout on the Gold Coast, but isn't so sure she wants to do it again any time soon.

"Maybe when I'm 10," she said after the bout, her $100 prizemoney in her hand.

It was a fight surrounded by controversy, but as Jasmine, the pint-sized daughter of eight-time world champion kickboxer John Wayne Parr, prepared for her first step into the ring there was nothing but support.

Both girls were kitted out with headgear, shin pads and 16-ounce (450g) gloves, but before the fight, spokeswoman for Australian brain injury organisation Synapse, Anna Petrou, said brain injury could be acquired from minimal force and headgear would not offer complete protection.

"It doesn't take a lot of force for the brain to be impacted," she said.

"For the girls ... it might not be the initial impact but (they) could lose their balance and fall ... which could impact them."

As she waited to be called Jasmine couldn't wipe the smile off her face, but admitted she had been scared of her opponent, seven-year-old Georgina "Punchout" Barton from Brisbane.

"She (Georgina) looked really scary in her photo, but when I met her in real life she was really nice," she said.

"I'm not scared of getting hurt, because I get hurt a lot."

Heading out into the ring to cheers and claps from the audience Jasmine was all smiles, but her confidence didn't last long with the tears starting to flow a few minutes into the first round, but after a pep talk from her father she finished the fight.

The girls competed in Muay Thai - a combat sport - on a 15-fight card in Queensland's Gold Coast, with their bout declared a tie.​

Above is the entire article, including photo, but it's linked in the headline above anyway.

 

[HottieMama]

Waking up to a fucking nasty facebook mail from my girlfriend's "husband." Really asshole??? Back the fuck off and let us deal with things. Your caveman two cents ain't worth shit around here.

 

[sereneone4u]

Issues piling up...and I do not mean magazines.

 

[Babyslave]

My delivery of a package from Amazon being stolen from right in front of my door. First time that's every happened. Local police say it's a Federal matter, the USPS says there isn't much they can do. Can't wait until their eviction is final. Just gotta hang on til then.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

My delivery of a package from Amazon being stolen from right in front of my door. First time that's every happened. Local police say it's a Federal matter, the USPS says there isn't much they can do. Can't wait until their eviction is final. Just gotta hang on til then.

I find it exceptionally bizarre that they just leave parcels on doorsteps.

Here, if it doesn't fit into your letterbox, it goes back to the post office and you get a card saying you have to go get it.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I try not to let it upset me, but my love and his family/friend's occasional bouts of blatant willful racism really irritates me -.- They mostly mean it in good humor, but some of them sometimes seem to full heartedly believe in what they're saying...and that bothers me. But I"m not QUITE drunk enough to make an issue out of it