What pissed you off today?

[Babyslave]

I find it exceptionally bizarre that they just leave parcels on doorsteps.

Here, if it doesn't fit into your letterbox, it goes back to the post office and you get a card saying you have to go get it.

I live in a REALLY small town, where most everyone knows everyone else. My home is in a very large, old farmhouse that has been converted to delightfully good sized apartments, full of the charm and character of yesterday. Like gingerbread trim, stained glass windows, but with the niceties of today, such as roomy master bedrooms....

The postal worker has a key to the foyer where the 4 letterboxes are housed, and packages, if small, are left there, or if large, are placed in front of the respective apartment door. There are 4 apartments, one is currently vacant, another is home to an elderly woman, the 3rd is mine, and the fourth is home to a young couple with a small child. They have, shall we say 'issues' that are in part the reason why they're being evicted (aside from the fact that they have a problem with the idea of - gasp! - paying rent) I've lived in this house for many many years and have never, 'til now had a problem with parcels being delivered. A sign of the times, I suppose. A lesson learned.

 

[DehviantGirl]

I try hard never to get pissed off before noon on weekends Most of the time that works just fine.

 

[Bluedragonfly16]

kids, crazy air conditioner & being reminded of 'you know.'

 

[CaresseDArcy]

feeling we are growing farther apart.

wondering why it doesn't seem to be bothering him.

thinking i must care more about it than he does.

wanting to really talk to him about all this like i could before but right now really hating that i want that.

knowing that i have to but also knowing now i literally can't for another week and being secretly relieved because i am apparantly a coward.

being afraid i will just be confirming i am right.

needing to let out these hurt and pissed of feelings somewhere so badly that i am making this post.

spending some more tears on this.

 

[PurrfectMoon]

hating the jerk who keeps parking his huge ass truck right next to my little car, practically pinning it down. Cars dont mate!!! Stop trying to hump mine!!

It makes it hard for me to get into it. The other day I had to get in through the passenger side and slip over to the driver's seat!

 

[seela]

Cat hair. I was gone for 5 days, which means there was a 5 day break in the couch vacuuming, and now it looks like the whole damn couch is made of cat hair. Argh!

We really need to get a new couch in some more cat hair resistant material. Or at least in a color in which every single tiny fibre of cat coolness doesn't show so clearly.

 

[marieR19]

Stupid mean people on a certain forum getting all up in my face when I was trying to be helpful and explain the rules/codes-of-conduct to a newbie. Will NOT be going back there for a few days.

 

[wicked woman]

feeling we are growing farther apart.

wondering why it doesn't seem to be bothering him.

thinking i must care more about it than he does.

wanting to really talk to him about all this like i could before but right now really hating that i want that.

knowing that i have to but also knowing now i literally can't for another week and being secretly relieved because i am apparantly a coward.

being afraid i will just be confirming i am right.

needing to let out these hurt and pissed of feelings somewhere so badly that i am making this post.

spending some more tears on this.

BTDT not that long ago.

If I may...

Listen to your feelings and address them with him. But don't do it expecting that discussing it will necessarily make things between you the way you want them to be. I found it more a case of being honest with myself, and forcing myself to realize the reality of what our relationship had become, and needing to have my understanding of our reality confirmed by him. Hurt like hell, but I truly believe that living in reality is better than living in a fantasy.

I wish you well.

 

[CurvAppeal]

Finding out what my ex fiance did to me and where he is at right now.

 

[CaresseDArcy]

BTDT not that long ago.

If I may...

Listen to your feelings and address them with him. But don't do it expecting that discussing it will necessarily make things between you the way you want them to be. I found it more a case of being honest with myself, and forcing myself to realize the reality of what our relationship had become, and needing to have my understanding of our reality confirmed by him. Hurt like hell, but I truly believe that living in reality is better than living in a fantasy.

I wish you well.

Thank you for saying things I haven't been able to say to myself

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

feeling we are growing farther apart.

wondering why it doesn't seem to be bothering him.

thinking i must care more about it than he does.

wanting to really talk to him about all this like i could before but right now really hating that i want that.

knowing that i have to but also knowing now i literally can't for another week and being secretly relieved because i am apparantly a coward.

being afraid i will just be confirming i am right.

needing to let out these hurt and pissed of feelings somewhere so badly that i am making this post.

spending some more tears on this.

I am so sorry you are hurting. You don't sound cowardly to me at all. It really sounds like you already know your truth and will face whatever it is when you are ready. Please don't forget to treat yourself with kindness and compassion as you walk through this heart string tugging challenge, being hard on yourself is just mean and really serves no purpose. Facing the truth, and clearly defining it is usually the hardest part and makes deciding WHAT to actually do about it pretty easy(at least most of the time. ).

*sits down next to you so you have a soft shoulder to lean on if you need one.*

((hugs))

 

[gypsy*seer]

People with zero integrity and a whopping sense of entitlement.

 

[HottieMama]

"You need to prove yourself to me as a submissive before I take you back." Bitch PLEASE! REALLY???? How about you need to prove yourself as a Domme before I take you back? Remember....I trained YOU in this life. I taught your dumb ass. I prove myself to NO one. If you want to be with me, take me as I am. I refuse to put on some fucking act for you, your Dommely Highness...

 

[deucie]

All my inlaws!

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

"You need to prove yourself to me as a submissive before I take you back." Bitch PLEASE! REALLY???? How about you need to prove yourself as a Domme before I take you back? Remember....I trained YOU in this life. I taught your dumb ass. I prove myself to NO one. If you want to be with me, take me as I am. I refuse to put on some fucking act for you, your Dommely Highness...

Yeah, I can understand that pissing you off. It's such a bloody webchat cliche, that the submissive must be the one proving their worth.

If anything, it should be the other way around. You wanna take charge of someone? You better step up and show that you have the fortitude to do so!

Gah!

 

[CaresseDArcy]

I am so sorry you are hurting. You don't sound cowardly to me at all. It really sounds like you already know your truth and will face whatever it is when you are ready. Please don't forget to treat yourself with kindness and compassion as you walk through this heart string tugging challenge, being hard on yourself is just mean and really serves no purpose. Facing the truth, and clearly defining it is usually the hardest part and makes deciding WHAT to actually do about it pretty easy(at least most of the time. ).

*sits down next to you so you have a soft shoulder to lean on if you need one.*

((hugs))

*leans her head on your offered shoulder*

thanks Cali, you always manage to offer just the right words at just the right time

 

[Katiesub]

Playing poker with mostly guys. Flop an Ace-high straight on the first hand, and have a guy with a freaking pair of tens (board is Ace-King-Ten) raise me to all in. He gets runner-runner jacks to go with the jack on the board to hit a full house.

 

[Babyslave]

Having time off. I always get in trouble when I have 'spare' time on my hands. My mind wanders, quests for answers and I should know better than to look for said answers. Will I never learn?

I think I'm going to cancel all vacation time for myself. That'll teach me.

 

[Babyslave]

Being reminded that I'll never have what I want. Never be what I want to be.
Being reminded that the clock is ticking and I don't know for certain if I'll be here this time next year. Grrrrr.

Sorry, feeling sorry for myself. It'll pass. That is what work is for! To keep me from thinking about myself.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

My bluetooth headset won't turn off.

 

[BiBunny]

My cell phone crapped out, and then I got a fucking speeding ticket going to Wal-Mart to buy a charger for a different phone I have. FML.

 

[HottieMama]

Apparently phones don't work both motherfuckin' ways.

 

[BiBunny]

Apparently phones don't work both motherfuckin' ways.

They never do. Nor does email, IMs, or text messages.

One-way service is cheaper, apparently.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Being reminded that I'll never have what I want. Never be what I want to be.
Being reminded that the clock is ticking and I don't know for certain if I'll be here this time next year. Grrrrr.

Sorry, feeling sorry for myself. It'll pass. That is what work is for! To keep me from thinking about myself.

 

[the captians wench]

Being reminded that I'll never have what I want. Never be what I want to be.
Being reminded that the clock is ticking and I don't know for certain if I'll be here this time next year. Grrrrr.

Sorry, feeling sorry for myself. It'll pass. That is what work is for! To keep me from thinking about myself.

*huggles*