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Apparently I'm not allowed to mention my ex-gf's name on a mutual friend's blog. Mutual friend said she was going to be totally neutral about the breakup. What bullshit - she deleted my comment and sent me a message saying not to mention her name. I'm the bad girl if I get dumped and I'm the bad girl if I do the dumping and I'm sick of not being able to get some goddamn sympathy from my alleged friends.

Given that I *just* went through this situation, I will tell you what I was forced to do. Get some new friends. No matter if it is real-time or online, get some people around you that are willing to listen to YOU!

My PM box is open if you need to "vent.":rose:
 
Apparently I'm not allowed to mention my ex-gf's name on a mutual friend's blog. Mutual friend said she was going to be totally neutral about the breakup. What bullshit - she deleted my comment and sent me a message saying not to mention her name. I'm the bad girl if I get dumped and I'm the bad girl if I do the dumping and I'm sick of not being able to get some goddamn sympathy from my alleged friends.

I agree with HottieMama, new friends help. My divorce started out with friends that were "neutral" in an attempt to keep things easy on all...but eventually playing nice gets too uncomfy or tedious and they will all choose "sides". My divorce had some heartbreaking casualties in this way. My friend that turned out to be such a TRUE friend said to me...if they are not ALL FOR you friends, they are awful friends.

Much comfort to you... that part royally sucks.

Hugs!
 
Hi, I suffer from PCOS (poly-cystic ovarian syndrome).

The reason they are suggesting pills or an IUD is that it is a hormone deficiency that causes the cysts, or the cysts cause the deficiency they really don't know. It can take a few tries to find the pill that works for you. I've done pure progesterone pills and a couple of bc pills. After a while, I decided the symptoms were better than the side effects of the pills. Also PCOS still isn't very well known, so a lot of doctors don't know how to treat it, or even diagnosed it. It would be worth it to get some other opinions.

One of the reasons they might be hesitant to do a hysterectomy at this point is that it does wacky things to your hormones. It will fuck you up. It will almost certainly cause early menopause.

One thing you can try while you're waiting for other opinions is vitamin B. I actually take B and D and I have had much MUCH less painful cramps. Also eating foods high in vit B will help as well.

Anyway, I know people who just jumped into the surgery and it took a few years for them to feel any better, and in the mean time the mood swings were crazy.

Look for a doc that specializes in PCOS/PCOD. The best ones usually aren't OB/GYNs actually.

Sorry, just a subject that troubles me. :eek:

They are endocrinologists. I have PCOS and I just had a hysterectomy this Apr. I kept one of my ovaries, so no hormonal issues (I lost my other one when I was about 14/15, due to a blood cyst the size of a golf ball).

:rose::rose::rose:
 
I agree with HottieMama, new friends help. My divorce started out with friends that were "neutral" in an attempt to keep things easy on all...but eventually playing nice gets too uncomfy or tedious and they will all choose "sides". My divorce had some heartbreaking casualties in this way. My friend that turned out to be such a TRUE friend said to me...if they are not ALL FOR you friends, they are awful friends.

Much comfort to you... that part royally sucks.

Hugs!

Very true, Cali:rose:
 
My own utter an complete stupidity and makeing someone I care about angry and unhappy.
 
This is not so much a "pissed off" as an "annoyed," but...

...God, the "non-consent" stories on this site are fucking lame.
 
I KNOW the "good old days" weren't really that good but...

damn, I hate these new days a lot. :mad: I hate having ambitions that are passè and there's no market for them, I hate it that I don't want a job pushing money from one end of a table to the other. I cannot play the corporate game.

I hate it that my body would never let me be part of the leather tradition that I most wanted-- I hate it that I am not only a minority in the larger society but also-- a minority within the minority.

It pisses me off that my family's needs comes first before my personal preference. Don't get me wrong, I couldn't live with mself if it were otherwise but-- it still pisses me off.
 
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It pisses me off that my family's needs comes first before my personal preference. Don't get me wrong, I couldn't live with mself if it were otherwise but-- it still pisses me off.

I SO relate to this...:rose:

As for what pissed me off:

My ex called today to share some good news in her personal life. I am happy for her, but hearing her voice was just a little "too" much. (And I am waiting not-so-patiently for the good karma fairy to come visit me....)
 
Turns out an adorable little boy I have known and loved dearly since he was born he has grown up into a snobby, shallow, angry, and narrow minded racist. His parents are so proud.
 
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I never quite ever... woke up. :rolleyes:

Ever had one of those days? Where your brain is shrouded by a thick blanket of fog? No cold or allergies. Ample sleep. Just a restrictor plate on my functioning lobe, and my IQ plummeting about 30 points overnight. I really can't afford to lose IQ points and still do complex things like turn up the air conditiiner in my car two notches, figure out how the half and half opens, or answer questions on a "phone."
 
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I never quite ever... woke up. :rolleyes:

Ever had one of those days? Where your brain is shrouded by a thick blanket of fog? No cold or allergies. Ample sleep. Just a restrictor plate on my functioning lobe, and my IQ plummeting about 30 points overnight. I really can't afford to lose IQ points and still do complex things like turn up the air conditiiner in my car two notches, figure out how the half and half opens, or answer questions on a "phone."

Been that way for weeks now...:(
 
I've been checked for endometriosis and apparently I don't have that. Which I'm thankful for.

What I have are ovarian cysts but they don't seem to bother me as much as the constant sensation of being punched in the stomach repeatedly over and over for almost 48 hours. I've had ultrasounds and they say they cannot find the problem and then recommended either an IUD or another damn pill. Neither one is an option I want to entertain as the last pill sent me into the Doc's with stroke level high blood pressure. Why the fuck would I need an IUD? I'm not with a guy who is fertile. I don't understand. I've talked with my doctor about a hysterectomy and frankly it's like I'm not even talking at all. She just says to me "You're to young."

Yeah I'm as confused as you as to why they won't give me a hysterectomy. I'm starting to consider seeing a different doctor even though I've been seeing her for the last 20 years.


Going through pretty much the same thing with complex ovarian cysts. They want to just put me on the pill which turns me into the psycho bitch from hell and I can't even live with myself.

Last time they operated on me but they don't want to do that again so every few months, one bursts, i get to go to A&E to make sure i am not bleeding internally and spend a couple of days crying in agony until I pass out from the pain because they refuse to perscribe any really decent painkillers.

Apparently I might want kids which is why they won't remove everything which is hysterically funny because it's caused so much damage it wouldn't happen naturally anyhow and I am not prepared to put my body through the whole IVF thing again after trying it once previously.

Anyhow, what pissed me off.....where to start with today

Myself, i got really upset with something, turned it into a huge issue, then got annoyed with myself for getting upset about it, then got even more annoyed because I was annoyed in the first place. About that point I gave up and cried.

The lady next to me on the train listening to music on her ipod really loudly. I had a visual of ripping her arm off and beating her over the head with it.
 
....The lady next to me on the train listening to music on her ipod really loudly. I had a visual of ripping her arm off and beating her over the head with it.
It's quieter to just use the headphone cords to strangle her, and you're less likely to get blood splatter all over your nice clothing. :rolleyes:
 
Student nurses.

I mean really. Must they practice on ME? Grrr and ouch!

It wouldn't be half as bad if they didn't look so scared and unsure.... if you're gonna do it, just do it, don't be shy, don't be timid, it won't make it hurt any less.
 
I've been checked for endometriosis and apparently I don't have that. Which I'm thankful for.

What I have are ovarian cysts but they don't seem to bother me as much as the constant sensation of being punched in the stomach repeatedly over and over for almost 48 hours. I've had ultrasounds and they say they cannot find the problem and then recommended either an IUD or another damn pill. Neither one is an option I want to entertain as the last pill sent me into the Doc's with stroke level high blood pressure. Why the fuck would I need an IUD? I'm not with a guy who is fertile. I don't understand. I've talked with my doctor about a hysterectomy and frankly it's like I'm not even talking at all. She just says to me "You're to young."

Yeah I'm as confused as you as to why they won't give me a hysterectomy. I'm starting to consider seeing a different doctor even though I've been seeing her for the last 20 years.


Going through pretty much the same thing with complex ovarian cysts. They want to just put me on the pill which turns me into the psycho bitch from hell and I can't even live with myself.

Last time they operated on me but they don't want to do that again so every few months, one bursts, i get to go to A&E to make sure i am not bleeding internally and spend a couple of days crying in agony until I pass out from the pain because they refuse to perscribe any really decent painkillers.

Apparently I might want kids which is why they won't remove everything which is hysterically funny because it's caused so much damage it wouldn't happen naturally anyhow and I am not prepared to put my body through the whole IVF thing again after trying it once previously.

*snip*.

I am sorry that you are both struggling with this. There are some new studies that show that Saw Palmetto & Nettle Root can be very helpful in shrinking ovarian cysts and easing symptoms of PCOS as it supports your body in regulating hormones. If you check with your doc for interactions with any other meds or such that you might be on, it is something you could try... Or if you have access to a Nutritional/Holistic MD inquire if it is a good fit for your specific case. It has been used for men with enlarged prostates for a long time with much success.

I also have a book that I can recommend that describes a PCOS therapy diet that I have seen be dramatically helpful for weight loss and improved fertility. The author also has a newsletter that publishes support and therapies for women struggling with PCOS. If you are interested, PM me and I can send you the links. :)

Best wishes to you both for finding your way to the healing and vibrancy you seek. :rose:
 
Myself, i got really upset with something, turned it into a huge issue, then got annoyed with myself for getting upset about it, then got even more annoyed because I was annoyed in the first place. About that point I gave up and cried.

The lady next to me on the train listening to music on her ipod really loudly. I had a visual of ripping her arm off and beating her over the head with it.

She-Hulk, kiwi.


It's quieter to just use the headphone cords to strangle her, and you're less likely to get blood splatter all over your nice clothing. :rolleyes:

:D


Very sensible. I want you planning shit for me, be it killings or invasions. I remember your detailed advice to wenchie about interviewing bulk candidates at McDonald's. Don't hide that under a bushel basket, sir.
 
Very sensible. I want you planning shit for me, be it killings or invasions. I remember your detailed advice to wenchie about interviewing bulk candidates at McDonald's. Don't hide that under a bushel basket, sir.
Thanks. Our services are quite reasonable. Unfortunately, for some projects, we regret that we must require remuneration in advance. We've had a few sad experiences with people who could not follow directions, be it killings or invasions, and then felt they should not have to remit our fees. We've since found that those who submit payment in advance are more likely to follow instructions, and thus are more successful.
 
Are you suggesting that we're all Windows? :mad:

Well, I guess I realize now that Windows are really just meant for masochists, because that is where you find the most panes... I don't think I quite resonate with the sadistic machination of claiming a perfect apple and then only taking ONE flesh tearing bite then stepping away to look upon it with pride, letting it just sit there as denied nourishment - oxidizing and weeping in its own juices in agony. Then of course compounding its torture by being publicly exploited by exposing its flawed asymmetrical vulnerability as a commercialized symbol for products that are "easy to use". Wait, maybe this needs more thought....hmmm.
 
Toothache. Pain. Not good. Not happy. Ice-cold bourbon helps, but only for a couple of minutes, and doing that too often would not be good considering the opioids and other analgesics I've been taking to try to kill the ache. Fuckity.

Another reason to despise my male first-gen ancestor, and all his family, from whom I inherited lousy teeth.
 
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