What pushes your bi buttons?

panties

For me it is wearing panties. Every time I slide into a silky thong, I am immediately ready for cock. I love that feeling when a man realizes I am wearing panties...it becomes clear that I will be totally submissive.
 
a woman encouraging me

to suck cock and swallow his cum. Maybe some light teasing (not mean) cocksucker, I want to watch you swallow his cum, suck his cock!"
 
to say out loud

to another person that I want to suck a cock. I told my wife that once. It went over OK at the time. She will be my ex soon. I don't think it was because she thinks I am gay, there are other reasons.
 
in a bar, eye contact and placing a knowing hand on my inner thigh. in the bedroom, sucking my nipples. :cool:
 
90% of the places I got. I’m crossing paths with the regular guys. Most recently where I met my my buddy, was an establishment of dudes and some Skinny jeans guys. They could have had size. But the bearded burly guys were more handsome.
 
Perhaps all this "dressing" up is about underlying self-shame about the male human body. I doubt that any of us like the affects of aging or ware or tear on our bodies. However, as imperfect as men can get, nothing beats being naked with another human being as is.

I remember a nice older man years ago that I was seeing. He wasn't proud of going bald, so he always wore a toupee. Once he got to know me, he felt comfortable taking his toupee. (It was a pain for him to mess with especially when he wanted to be out in nature at his lake property.) I won't lie and say he looked "better" bald, but it was honest. I was moved in that he felt he could forego it with me.

As to more extreme things such as wearing women's garments or painting one's face, etc. I'm glad my partner has absolutely ZERO interest in being something that he isn't. Plus have you ever noticed that many of those into such fetishes miss some of the most positive traits of natural women -- such as love for children.

Don't get me wrong... I LOVE sex, but I'd rather have an imperfect naked man in my bed who also has a heart for others (such as children). Men simply can be wonderful just as they are without spending so much time pretending to be something that they are not. The time would be better spent exercising, and making one's body get back into shape, than worrying about wrapping one's body in stuff and fluff.
 
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