What pushes your bi buttons?

[sweettalk4u]

for sure. no pantys or heels needed just a nice hard cock. Of course on both sides is a plus.

Definitely you want to see and feel the passion

 

[sweettalk4u]

Perhaps all this "dressing" up is about underlying self-shame about the male human body. I doubt that any of us like the affects of aging or ware or tear on our bodies. However, as imperfect as men can get, nothing beats being naked with another human being as is.

I remember a nice older man years ago that I was seeing. He wasn't proud of going bald, so he always wore a toupee. Once he got to know me, he felt comfortable taking his toupee. (It was a pain for him to mess with especially when he wanted to be out in nature at his lake property.) I won't lie and say he looked "better" bald, but it was honest. I was moved in that he felt he could forego it with me.

As to more extreme things such as wearing women's garments or painting one's face, etc. I'm glad my partner has absolutely ZERO interest in being something that he isn't. Plus have you ever noticed that many of those into such fetishes miss some of the most positive traits of natural women -- such as love for children.

Don't get me wrong... I LOVE sex, but I'd rather have an imperfect naked man in my bed who also has a heart for others (such as children). Men simply can be wonderful just as they are without spending so much time pretending to be something that they are not. The time would be better spent exercising, and making one's body get back into shape, than worrying about wrapping one's body in stuff and fluff.

Amen!

 

[sgwatts3]

yep pull those blue jeans down next the whity tightys and go to sucking turn him around and lick till ya go to scewwing him

 

[klippert]

Perhaps all this "dressing" up is about underlying self-shame about the male human body. I doubt that any of us like the affects of aging or ware or tear on our bodies. However, as imperfect as men can get, nothing beats being naked with another human being as is.

I remember a nice older man years ago that I was seeing. He wasn't proud of going bald, so he always wore a toupee. Once he got to know me, he felt comfortable taking his toupee. (It was a pain for him to mess with especially when he wanted to be out in nature at his lake property.) I won't lie and say he looked "better" bald, but it was honest. I was moved in that he felt he could forego it with me.

As to more extreme things such as wearing women's garments or painting one's face, etc. I'm glad my partner has absolutely ZERO interest in being something that he isn't. Plus have you ever noticed that many of those into such fetishes miss some of the most positive traits of natural women -- such as love for children.

Don't get me wrong... I LOVE sex, but I'd rather have an imperfect naked man in my bed who also has a heart for others (such as children). Men simply can be wonderful just as they are without spending so much time pretending to be something that they are not. The time would be better spent exercising, and making one's body get back into shape, than worrying about wrapping one's body in stuff and fluff.

Gay male vanity is the worst. Trust me I know. If I had time I’d regale you with my /m past. My hair began thinning when I was in H.S. I began shaving most of my head. Today; I’ve a full, trimmed salt and pepper beard. I’m 52, a beefy, burley guy. 6’ 215. Recently I strolled into an establishment filled with skinny jeans, and hipsters. It’s like I was the Old Gun slinger walking into the saloon. Everyone looks a gets quite. Then realizing it’s not one of there clone, they carried on.
People are to wrapped up in acronyms and identifying. My buddy and I are; two goofy married Bi guy, who don’t watch The View, or try to fit into the pie chartOur wife’s are truly are best features. They’ve just lost there sex grove. He and I, just happened to meet thru a mutual friend.
We have quit a few non sex related common interests; outdoors; hunting $ Fishing, cars & our Trucks; though we Jab at each other’s make and model choices.
Trust me when our wives finally meet and we all hang out as cpls. They’ll never guess he and I are satisfying each other’s “urges”. If I introduce my wife too a effeminate guy, skinny jeans; her 15 yrs of high end retail (Neimans). She’d see right through him.
She even said these designer skinny Jeans guys would worry about getting their nails dirty

 

[Crios]

Gay male vanity is the worst. Trust me I know. If I had time I’d regale you with my /m past. My hair began thinning when I was in H.S. I began shaving most of my head. Today; I’ve a full, trimmed salt and pepper beard. I’m 52, a beefy, burley guy. 6’ 215. Recently I strolled into an establishment filled with skinny jeans, and hipsters. It’s like I was the Old Gun slinger walking into the saloon. Everyone looks a gets quite. Then realizing it’s not one of there clone, they carried on.
People are to wrapped up in acronyms and identifying. My buddy and I are; two goofy married Bi guy, who don’t watch The View, or try to fit into the pie chartOur wife’s are truly are best features. They’ve just lost there sex grove. He and I, just happened to meet thru a mutual friend.
We have quit a few non sex related common interests; outdoors; hunting $ Fishing, cars & our Trucks; though we Jab at each other’s make and model choices.
Trust me when our wives finally meet and we all hang out as cpls. They’ll never guess he and I are satisfying each other’s “urges”. If I introduce my wife too a effeminate guy, skinny jeans; her 15 yrs of high end retail (Neimans). She’d see right through him.
She even said these designer skinny Jeans guys would worry about getting their nails dirty

Well, I certainly didn't expect that reaction to my post! Obviously, I struck a nerve.

https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/gay-art-3-14989013

 

[fyrefyre200]

pushing the buttons ...

The sight of a guy in the locker room proudly showing off a nice package ..

 

[sweettalk4u]

Well, I certainly didn't expect that reaction to my post! Obviously, I struck a nerve.

https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/gay-art-3-14989013

And pushed a few buttons! Well done!

 

[BBCfan]

to suck cock and swallow his cum. Maybe some light teasing (not mean) cocksucker, I want to watch you swallow his cum, suck his cock!"

yeah, that's hot. Experienced it a few time with a GF and my wife has done it in role play with my BBC dildo.

It's super hot, especially the hot talk from her....without that, the cock sucking is not nearly as fun I've found.

 

[Buscando]

Perhaps all this "dressing" up is about underlying self-shame about the male human body. I doubt that any of us like the affects of aging or ware or tear on our bodies. However, as imperfect as men can get, nothing beats being naked with another human being as is.

I remember a nice older man years ago that I was seeing. He wasn't proud of going bald, so he always wore a toupee. Once he got to know me, he felt comfortable taking his toupee. (It was a pain for him to mess with especially when he wanted to be out in nature at his lake property.) I won't lie and say he looked "better" bald, but it was honest. I was moved in that he felt he could forego it with me.

As to more extreme things such as wearing women's garments or painting one's face, etc. I'm glad my partner has absolutely ZERO interest in being something that he isn't. Plus have you ever noticed that many of those into such fetishes miss some of the most positive traits of natural women -- such as love for children.

Don't get me wrong... I LOVE sex, but I'd rather have an imperfect naked man in my bed who also has a heart for others (such as children). Men simply can be wonderful just as they are without spending so much time pretending to be something that they are not. The time would be better spent exercising, and making one's body get back into shape, than worrying about wrapping one's body in stuff and fluff.

Very well said, and thank you for the cogent contribution.
Though I do believe the whole fetish with men who want to wear women's clothing goes far deeper than an attempt at disguise and/or concealment. But that's another subject altogether.
To me it's all a bundle of affectations, whatever the motivation, and I find any sort of affectation to be a bucket of icewater. Just give me a natural man - or woman - with all their imperfections. I'll show you mine if you show me yours, and we'll both be so very much more relaxed and comfortable together. And that, for me anyhow, is a necessity for really great sex.

 

[Deleted member 1215945]

The other day I Skyped with a new friend. I was a little anxious. We were stroking and chatting and getting hot when he started talking about us fucking each other. I grabbed a standard vibrator, lubed it up and started working it in and out. I said you mean like this? It seemed to instantly turn me into his slave. I felt so open and willing. I wanted him! It took our play to another much more intimate level.
Do you have something that drops your defenses, that pushes your bi buttons when you are with a guy?

I feel most bisexually vulnerable when I’m with a friend, or meeting a new guy or in a mixed group of people. Often I notice someone glancing at my crotch, or staring at me. If the situation allows, If that person glances at my cock, I do the same to him. If we can see each other he casually rubs or adjusts his cock, I do too. Then even more daring is if someone brushes past me and slides his hand quickly across my ass as I’m standing next to my wife, that’s what makes my cock start to swell. Sexy eyes and mouth are perfect to signal intentions of cock sucking ready to happen.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I feel most bisexually vulnerable when I’m with a friend, or meeting a new guy or in a mixed group of people. Often I notice someone glancing at my crotch, or staring at me. If the situation allows, If that person glances at my cock, I do the same to him. If we can see each other he casually rubs or adjusts his cock, I do too. Then even more daring is if someone brushes past me and slides his hand quickly across my ass as I’m standing next to my wife, that’s what makes my cock start to swell. Sexy eyes and mouth are perfect to signal intentions of cock sucking ready to happen.

Whew! You sure know how to communicate without ever saying a word!

 

[blazingsaddles69]

X15 eye contact is good and a fit sexy body as well