What's your take on the various types of incest?

[John_Vandermeer]

I am an equal opportunity mother/daughter/sister fucker.

In fiction only, of course

I have always written it in D/s situations. Mostly femdom, but i am trying my hand in the maledom dynamic too (the horror!)

 

[ElectricBlue]

For the same reason some people go diving in the ocean while others are content to merely walk in the surf: a matter of personal preference or interest.
Plus, the sharks find it harder to leave disparaging comments on the beach.

That's tap dancing around an answer, but I suspect the second comment is the accurate one.

There's taboo dark, and there's taboo lite, that's for sure.

 

[John_Vandermeer]

To be honest this kind of question always puzzles me. There are plenty of kinks that do not interest me. But i do not think of them as a “bridge too far”. For me erotica is an outlet for darker, taboo, kinks. Taboo in the broader sense. Incest, noncon, and nonmonogamy—particularly of the unethical kind— are the top three for me. And it is rare the story i write that does not touch on at least one. Often two or all.

 

[Rob_Royale]

Yes, I have limits. I won't do incest within the nuclear family. I did dabble once (father/daughter) but it was a tough write for me and I don't plan on repeating it.

I didn't have a great childhood. There was a lot of physical abuse at the hands of my mother who had 'anger management' issues, and was no waif. I took the brunt of her ire, while my sister was doted upon. And my father blissfully ignorant. She made me her own personal housekeeper/groundskeeper/handyman, keeping me busy all weekend while my sister had a blast and enjoyed her childhood. Needless to say, I moved out as soon as I was able, happy to tell her to enjoy doing her own work for a change. I'm 56 now and I have forgiven, but I haven't forgotten. She spent a long time in therapy after I left, because she sort of came apart when she didn't have someone to hit. So the idea of seeing my mother or sister as sexual beings or attractive is revolting and would not be able to distance myself enough to create fictional mom/son/sister.

Enough about that. But, family outside the home, aunts, grandmothers, cousins, that I can get behind, because they were outside my little hell, occasionally even an escape from it. I even had such relations that I did find sexually attractive.

Aunt Tina, Recovering Slut Vol. 01

 

[RetroFan]

Mother and daughter is one combination I've done, but you don't see it often. This was part of a foursome though with the stepsons/stepbrothers, but it did include some girl-on-girl action. The IT fans didn't like the story - a slacker surfer-dude type comedy set in the late 1980s - all that much.

Sometimes what readers react to in these IT stories are a bit strange. Like in one with a half-brother and half-sister, again a combination rarely seen. They were okay with a 40-year-old brother and 18-year-old sister engaging in oral sex (69) in the main act, but a few days later when the sister has her period and they again perform oral sex on each other (this time not 69 and the sister is fully clothed when she goes down) they weren't okay with it, even though it was not described explicitly and barely lasted two paragraphs the fans weren't impressed.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Curiosity question - I suspect most I&T writers are men, but for the women who write in the category, what relationship do they generally write? Does anyone have a feel for that?

 

[Erozetta]

Curiosity question - I suspect most I&T writers are men, but for the women who write in the category, what relationship do they generally write? Does anyone have a feel for that?

I wrote/write mostly brother/sister (step-siblings with a question of whether they may have actually shared a father or not as their parents were swingers and commonly paired up with each other in one, in another there was brother/sister incest, bisexual male [brother and his friend with the sister involved], and an all out orgy [all of brother's friends] within a dream setting.)

But I also had a father/daughter story which was instigated by the daughter's friend. Also wrote a father/daughter story on commission for someone at the start of the year.

I have a mother/daughter story in my files as well but I never put it up here.

 

[Rustyoznail]

I have no issues with any combination, but I try and make it semi-believable.

My first story was between an uncle /niece /Aunt (who was fisted by the niece...)

I did a 750 word dad/daughter story, although the sexual relationship was only implied.

M/F twins... Then those twins and their mum during COVID lock down.

Brother /sister in one story and dad/daughter/step mum in another. Magic was involved in those.

A few other brother / sister stories.

Not sure I'd do a dad/son combination, only because I don't know what their motivation would be.

 

[mrs_mackenzie]

I had a follower request a story where a daughter helps her father find his inner woman and the relationship turns to incest.
I've written brother/sister, have some father/son and mother/son in one of my 750 word stories, but can't seem to come to grips with father/daughter. It just seems a bridge too far. I know it's just me, but maybe not. I was wondering how others felt.

Is there a taboo too far in that world?
What's your limit, if you have one?

Personally, I don't think I have a limit, nor especially do I think there's anything 'too far'. Generally I am not inclined to read stories with grandparents in the pairing, and sometimes I think step-siblings/distant relations can feel a bit pointless (why not just make them unrelated?) Never say never, though.

Really the only pairing that is a hard no from me is M/S where the mother infantilises the son, 'call me mommy', imitative breastfeeding etc. Not for me at all. Adult behaviour in the bedroom, please.

 

[MrHereWriting]

So the idea of seeing my mother or sister as sexual beings or attractive is revolting and would not be able to distance myself enough to create fictional mom/son/sister.

This brings up an interesting point: When you are reading or writing incest, do you picture your own family?

I don't. I picture the characters I've created that having nothing to do with my own family members and I have a good looking family.

Do most people imagine their own family, or a fantasy family that has no bases in reality? Sometimes I don't even picture myself (and while I'm an athletic, good looking guy--so I've been told) I substitute me for my alter ego, which is the ultimate me, dialed up to hundred and replaced with everything I consider perfect.

 

[lovecraft68]

This brings up an interesting point: When you are reading or writing incest, do you picture your own family?

I don't. I picture the characters I've created that having nothing to do with my own family members and I have a good looking family.

Do most people imagine their own family, or a fantasy family that has no bases in reality? Sometimes I don't even picture myself (and while I'm an athletic, good looking guy--so I've been told) I substitute me for my alter ego, which is the ultimate me, dialed up to hundred and replaced with everything I consider perfect.

For me? the answer is no.

I think why I can write taboo without being squicked is I am an only child-by blood-so no siblings, and I had an awful relationship with my birth mother-and worse with my real father-when I was young, and ended up in foster homes.

I believe the fact I did not have a true bond with my parents, or a real sibling in formative years leads to not having that connection that stops many people from reading or writing this. I don't get bogged down with "this could be my mother, or how can anyone..." because it means nothing to me.

I mentioned above no "blood sibling" and that also factors into my writing of taboo, but from the kink end. I was placed ina foster home with a girl two years older than me who also came from a badly broken home. Two years living together and we referred to each other as brother and sister, we needed that closeness, and then...she seduced me and for the next year we were a pseudo incestuous relationship. We were never caught, ended it on our own when we began to see how messed up we were, and to this day we are very much in each others lives and are aunt and uncle to each other's kids. But at the same time, that time span is why a lot of my stories aren't just about lust, but that forbidden love for someone society says you shouldn't love because for a time I experienced that conflict.

But that experience gave me the 'kink' so to speak and its why the fantasy of it turns me on, but at the same time, I am well aware of how in reality, as hot as it can seem, it is not healthy, so I think I'm grounded in what is real and what shouldn't be, and it makes it easy to write and keep in the fantasy "box"

I mentioned in another post, the father/daughter pairing gave me a hard time for a bit because unlike with my parents, I have a good relationship with my girls, and didn't feel right about it at first, but then I saw it as no different than writing about my mother, and man, there was nothing in me that wanted any part of her, so there is a clear break.

Back in the incest how to I wrote I mentioned something along the lines of "I did fantasize about putting my hands on my mother, but was told matricide is a crime" it was only half a joke back when I was a kid.

 

[KeithD]

This brings up an interesting point: When you are reading or writing incest, do you picture your own family?

Not usually and not my immediate family. I have fixated on a cousin or two--and written about that.

 

[SimonDoom]

This brings up an interesting point: When you are reading or writing incest, do you picture your own family?

No. Never. Not even remotely.

My incest stories do not arise from any real-life experiences or desires. They occupy a pure literary fantasy space. That's part of the appeal of it, for me. It seems so nutty. It's an opportunity to indulge in the taboo.

 

[bejjinks]

I have no issues with any combination, but I try and make it semi-believable.

My first story was between an uncle /niece /Aunt (who was fisted by the niece...)

I did a 750 word dad/daughter story, although the sexual relationship was only implied.

M/F twins... Then those twins and their mum during COVID lock down.

Brother /sister in one story and dad/daughter/step mum in another. Magic was involved in those.

A few other brother / sister stories.

Not sure I'd do a dad/son combination, only because I don't know what their motivation would be.

You have a funny idea about what "semi-believable" means. I think you meant to say, "I try and make it something I personally would find hot and sexy." In other words, you try and make it male female because you don't "believe" male male would have a motivation.

 

[bejjinks]

This brings up an interesting point: When you are reading or writing incest, do you picture your own family?

I don't. I picture the characters I've created that having nothing to do with my own family members and I have a good looking family.

Do most people imagine their own family, or a fantasy family that has no bases in reality? Sometimes I don't even picture myself (and while I'm an athletic, good looking guy--so I've been told) I substitute me for my alter ego, which is the ultimate me, dialed up to hundred and replaced with everything I consider perfect.

Fantasy family all the way. There is absolutely no way I could have fantasies about my family.

Sometimes though, I do wonder if my actual family had been different, would I then have developed fantasies about them? That's a good question. I do wish my dad would have been more relaxed around me and less religiously uptight. I wish he would have hugged me more and that we could have changed clothes in the locker room when we went swimming but that is as far as my desires went. But my dad always wore long sleeve shirts and long pants and refused to change clothes anywhere near me and he wouldn't touch me with a ten foot pole. I suspect he had sexual feelings for me and this terrified him so much that he avoided me as much as he could.

But even if he had been less religiously uptight, I still don't think I would have ever wanted to be sexual with him.

 

[Areala-chan]

Curiosity question - I suspect most I&T writers are men, but for the women who write in the category, what relationship do they generally write? Does anyone have a feel for that?

I've only done two stories for the category, and both of them are sister/sister. I'm probably an outlier though, since that pairing doesn't seem as common as a lot of the other potential pairings/groups.

 

[Erozetta]

This brings up an interesting point: When you are reading or writing incest, do you picture your own family?

Oh, hell no.

If I wrote something while picturing my actual family it would end up in horror. Not erotic horror, just straight up horror.

 

[AchtungNight]

I too am into adult behavior in the bedroom over the opposite. And my cousins and sister used to tease me during our youth, so I have no problem fantasizing it going a bit further. Not that I think it ever would in reality, mind you. They all have families with worthy spouses these days and aren’t sex freaks like yours truly far as I know. Oh well.

 

[Abbafan]

Most of the stories I've read here have been in that category. In the real world, I think it's probably a bad idea. Too much potential for abuse and family relationships can be complicated enough as it is. One of the dangers of workplace sex/romance is that if things go bad, you can't get away from the person unless you or the other person leaves their job. A family relationship... yeah. That might not be healthy.

As far as fiction goes, pregnancy stories put me off. I'd say it's going too far, but then some people would say that about the category as a whole. I guess I can't judge too harshly. The long running stories that get very romantic don't do much for me, either. I wouldn't say that's a bridge too far, though. I just like it more when they are driven by lust, primarily. LOL.

Stories where everyone is sex crazed and hooking up at the drop of a hat aren't that exciting either. There's no tension, no build up.

 

[XerXesXu]

I'm with the chimpanzees on incest. No sex with any female I've grown up with including my form mates, though some were very close friends. Chimp females leave the troop and join another at puberty. My little sisters were kind enough to introduce me to the pubertal females of another troop at teenage socials - that what got my sizzle.

 

[Abbafan]

Oh, hell no.

If I wrote something while picturing my actual family it would end up in horror. Not erotic horror, just straight up horror.

I think that's fairly common. My family aren't hideous or anything generally speaking (as far as looks go, I'd be the Clint Howard of the family), but I usually think about someone like Charlize Theron or Jennifer Connelly if there's a Mom involved or maybe Emma Roberts as a wild, rule breaking older sister visiting over the Christmas holiday.

 

[Abbafan]

No. Never. Not even remotely.

My incest stories do not arise from any real-life experiences or desires. They occupy a pure literary fantasy space. That's part of the appeal of it, for me. It seems so nutty. It's an opportunity to indulge in the taboo.

I'm thinking that, if someone really is doing that kind of thing regularly, they wouldn't find stories about it especially thrilling. Not anymore than what you might call conventional dirty stories.

 

[Abbafan]

I've written brother/sister, have some father/son and mother/son in one of my 750 word stories, but can't seem to come to grips with father/daughter. It just seems a bridge too far. I know it's just me, but maybe not. I was wondering how others felt.

I tend to be put off a little by that combination. Maybe it's because fathers tend to be the authority figures in most families (though not always the case). In the few father/daughter stories I liked, the daughter is the aggressive one.

 

[AchtungNight]

That it has to be consenting adults should go without saying in all incest situations. All sex too, according to site policy.

 

[JJScurious]

Growing up, I hung out with my siblings and cousins frequently, and of course I developed crushes on the female ones. As kids do, we kidded around with each other, tried to catch glimpses, and expressed affection. Though we would never go far in public, it was inappropriate, I can think about going farther. That level of friendly attraction I can accept.

Parent-child is not something I'm into. The power dynamic is part of it. It's also that the way I grew up, my parents were never my allies. They were the ones I had to get permission or forgiveness from, the ones who inflicted discipline when I was bad, and I was glad when I escaped their attention. They paid for my life and raised me, but I still spent my entire youth longing for the day I could get away from them. Even though I still care about them and am grateful for the good things they gave me, which did exist, I do not want them in my life today. I want to be free of their critiques, their condemnation, and most of all the misunderstandings between us. We have different values, different interests. Look at the gulf between liberals and conservatives in America if you need specifics. Long story short, I don't feel comfortable in their world. And the unapologetic narcissism and emotional abuse they inflicted, also physical in my father's case, that just made things worse.

Because of this personal experience, I am not into parent-child incest. Same for aunt/uncle with niece/nephew. I think people of separate family generations should support and encourage each other's emotional and sexual development, allow them fun with their own generation with consent, but squick when I see them having sex together. I have to reduce it to just another man and woman, or reimagine it as role-playing, and yes, people who hunger for such relationships confuse and worry me. I can get into older attractive women, yes, but I do not want ones who have expectations of me or the world I don't wish to ever fulfill.

As a daughter, I can relate to this so much! The confusion of having those thoughts even though I could never act on them much because of the same issues you had. Over religious and judgmental with a lack of empathy leaves me never wanting any future interaction. Yet the thoughts.....