Whats Your word?

This was a very interesting thread to read. It is fascinating to see what everyone feels is their word -- and to hear a bit about the history/reasoning behind that feeling.

I have known the answer to this question for years now... Although, I never thought about it in this exact way.

My word is: Pari
The Pari are "female supernatural denizens of the high mountains". They may appear as a woman or as a Snow Leopard. They protect the area. They can be wild and violent or benevolent. They protect. They are unfettered. Those who show respect may earn their aid and those who are disrespectful are dealt with properly. It suits me in so many ways. Beyond human, wild, powerful, and utterly female.
 
one word..

ATTITUDE

Can mean many things to many people.. but how you live life is how you see it and the attitude you bring it.. ;)
 
Fragile and/or flighty.

I'm easily broken, though physically I'm tough, and I act as such quite often.
 
Mine's "fighter."

Not in the bar fight sense of the word. But I believe that damn near everything is within our grasp. Often, the difference between someone who gets what he/she wants and someone who doesn't is that one of them was willing to fight hard when it didn't come easy.

I never give up. Never.
 
Antevasin fits me pretty well too though; much more than I like to admit. *shudder*

Lol, tell me about it :rolleyes:

Having said that, on a good note there is also an implied ''courage'' to the word. Having courage or at least the inquisitiveness to leave the comfort of their own home to go and find lifes meaning in an uncertain and unknown world. I can relate to that.

..whatever, whatever all of that is (which is always evolving), I realized I didn't have to belong, I could create my own world however I want it to be. It has to happen organically, the realizing what you want. You can't force it. One thing just comes to you. And then another. And some of it is trial and error.


You know ITW,you make sense ;)

I think things are starting to come if I look a little more closely. Perhaps I need to just go with it a little more
 
I've always related to outsiders, people who don't quite fit neatly in one particular box. I'm a little of this and a little of that and not quite any one thing. It was a struggle for me, but I feel it much less than I once did. One thing that helped was becoming conscious of my own wants, for sure. Once I could say, hey, I want to live in a city, and not drive a car so much, and cook for my man and have him enjoy it and hang with Jews sometimes, and have this much sex and do my own thing for 2.4 hours a week and...whatever, whatever all of that is (which is always evolving), I realized I didn't have to belong, I could create my own world however I want it to be. It has to happen organically, the realizing what you want. You can't force it. One thing just comes to you. And then another. And some of it is trial and error.

Belonging to a place is overrated. Yes, it is nice to have a place to go back and rest your wings, even romantic I'd say. But the reality is, there is never a going back: places change, people change.

Same for belonging as in fitting in in a little box. Once I stopped wanting to or trying to, I got really good at it: when it is just a box and does not carry any defining value on your persona, you just see it for what it is. And you can put yourself there, if it helps wade life and the world. You know it is just a box and you can get out anytime you want: it does not define you, you define it.

Sorry for the tangent ... :rose:
 
Its in german.
Fest.

No matter how much stuff I have to put up with in life. I'm still here, it dosn't faze me. If you want, look up the word.
 
bumping this cos there are lots of ''new'' faces and I'm interested.

Also been thinking about the whole me, the universe and meaning of life bit again lol :eek:
 
bumping this cos there are lots of ''new'' faces and I'm interested.

Also been thinking about the whole me, the universe and meaning of life bit again lol :eek:

Michigan's kinda nice this time of year.

Just sayin'.

:D
 
Michigan's kinda nice this time of year.

Just sayin'.

:D

lmao.

Thankyou for that Raw.

I never thought michigan might help me find the meaning of life!

Hey its been a while...how you doin Mr?
 
lmao.

Thankyou for that Raw.

I never thought michigan might help me find the meaning of life!

Hey its been a while...how you doin Mr?

I'd have invited you over in your other thread (where it would have been slightly less inappropriate), but since you posted in this one...

I'm doing pretty well. It's way past my bedtime though.

I think about you now and then and wonder and hope you're doing well.
 
I think about you now and then in wonder and hope you're doing well.


fixed your post for you *giggles*

You know me Raw.....I'm consistent......consistently up and down! :D:eek:

My mate made me laugh with that one not long ago... she had been going through a really rough patch and she said "Oh things are a lot more consistent......yeah things are shite every day now" *laugh*

I'm doing ok...trying to work out if I work or study at the moment. Pros and cons to both.

how about you? and did you leave ''your word''?
 
I guess my word lately would have to be "fatherhood"... it's kind of what I've sunk my teeth into as of late.
 
I guess my word lately would have to be "fatherhood"... it's kind of what I've sunk my teeth into as of late.

Funny you should say that, today of all days. Its a word I read elsewhere and has stuck with me for one reason or another.

How are you finding it?
 
Funny you should say that, today of all days. Its a word I read elsewhere and has stuck with me for one reason or another.

How are you finding it?

I feel I'm good at it... heh... I'll reply more elaborately tomorrow.

It's 1:30 AM here right now. It's good to see you.

G'night, gorgeous sunshine.
 
I feel I'm good at it... heh... I'll reply more elaborately tomorrow.

It's 1:30 AM here right now. It's good to see you.

G'night, gorgeous sunshine.

Cool!

Goodnight Mr, sleep well :)
 
Thank you for bumping this thread!

My word right now seems to be: juggling

vanilla life VS kinky life
work life VS family life
what I want VS what needs to be done
 
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Thank you for bumping this thread!

My words right now seems to be: juggling

vanilla life VS kinky life
work life VS family life
what I want VS what needs to be done

*nods* yeah I get that :rose:

I think mine might be floundering at the moment lol...so I am looking for a more positive spin on it! :D
 
*nods* yeah I get that :rose:

I think mine might be floundering at the moment lol...so I am looking for a more positive spin on it! :D

How about... "conscientious-about-gathering-facts-before-making-a-decision"?



:D
 
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