Where are you guys like me?

[CuriousGuyVa]

I am in the same boat as everyone else. Love the idea of playing with a cock but no interest in guys other than that.

Clearly there's a boat load here

 

[yukonnights]

I think the reason some people emphasize 'being straight but liking cock' is to avoid the implication of being 'attracted to men', but the former doesn't necessarily mean the latter (though, if you think about it, you probably do have specific types of guys in mind that you would and would not want to suck ; also, 'bicurious' pretty much means 'not entirely straight' ). You can be bisexual and enjoy sex with other guys while still being heteroromantic - interested only in relationships with, or being attracted only to, members of the opposite gender. One neither implies nor invalidates the other.

I think this is it in a nutshell. Bi-sexual is about sex not love. I like sex with women (hetero-sexual)...I like sex with other men (homo-sexual)...I like sex with both (bi-sexual). We all know "hetero" derives from the greek and simply means different, while "homo" simple means same. The euphemism "straight but like cock" seems both redundant and inaccurate since the label "straight" is always applied to strictly hetero-sexuals ( euphemism |ˈyo͞ofəˌmizəm| noun; a mild or indirect word or expression substituted for one considered to be too harsh or blunt when referring to something unpleasant or embarrassing: “downsizing” as a euphemism for cuts.)

But, this discussion has been going on here for years and years So, just saying, and agree that everyone is entitled to their own definitions.

 

[Jsec8]

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[larrycando]

If you dismissed Craigslist after an initial look, then you are not at all serious about finding another guy like yourself.

Period.

Guys who want to have sex with other guys but remain in the closet live in every city on this planet. How do they meet?

1. They go where there is a high concentration of men who are in the closet go. Adult theaters and bath houses are likely places.

2. They go on Craigslist or Silver Daddy.

Or they come on here and complain that they can't find anyone like themselves and it is not a lack of effort.

Give me a break.

Start by putting your location in your profile.

Most guys on here wouldn't suck a clean dick if it was presented to them in their own safe closet. They think they would. It is a nice fantasy, isn't it?

The truth of it is this: Those that want to suck a cock have done it. Those that want to play with the fantasy, do just that, they play with the fantasy.

This is a website where people play with fantasies and jack off. Ok. Be honest with your intentions. It's ok to play with the fantasy. Just be sure that you are honest with yourself.

I have met some decent people on Craigslist in the last 15 years. I am tired of hearing about all of the "creeps" on CL. Just be honest with the other person. Chances are, they will be honest with you.

 

[yukonnights]

If you dismissed Craigslist after an initial look, then you are not at all serious about finding another guy like yourself.

Period.

Guys who want to have sex with other guys but remain in the closet live in every city on this planet. How do they meet?

1. They go where there is a high concentration of men who are in the closet go. Adult theaters and bath houses are likely places.

2. They go on Craigslist or Silver Daddy.

Or they come on here and complain that they can't find anyone like themselves and it is not a lack of effort.

Give me a break.

Start by putting your location in your profile.

Most guys on here wouldn't suck a clean dick if it was presented to them in their own safe closet. They think they would. It is a nice fantasy, isn't it?

The truth of it is this: Those that want to suck a cock have done it. Those that want to play with the fantasy, do just that, they play with the fantasy.

This is a website where people play with fantasies and jack off. Ok. Be honest with your intentions. It's ok to play with the fantasy. Just be sure that you are honest with yourself.

I have met some decent people on Craigslist in the last 15 years. I am tired of hearing about all of the "creeps" on CL. Just be honest with the other person. Chances are, they will be honest with you.

I will agree with Larry in regard to craigslist. There are all types from first timers to scam artists. One just needs to be thoughtful in their ad and be sure to make it as clear as possible what you are not looking for and less specific about what you are seeking. I too have met some very decent normal guys doing this. I think the key to being safe is not to rush into anything until you get to know the guy enough to trust him...takes time to do this, and the building of more than an anonymous back-alley blowjob though.

I would temper Larry's feelings about who is serious with saying; Everyone has to start someplace. That is usually in our minds which leads to some action to further that desire. Posting our thoughts can be that next step since it exposes us in a safe way and helps us to realize we're not alone, etc. And everyone has their own circumstances and constraints which makes all this either easier or harder. But I can sure agree on the overall message about needing to be honest with ourselves...it just makes life so much smoother.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

The original post describes me, I love women especially big boobs and an ice round ass. I love eating pussy and fucking women but have always been curious about sucking cock. I don't have any experience other then sight seeing in the locker room. Fantasize about it and have become more comfortable with it since I've been on lit. Seems there is a silent army of married middle aged guys curious as well. I'd like to have a secret bi guy friend with benefits. Or be with a women that's bi as well and have fun with another bi couple. The possibilities are unlimited. Always open to chat with like minded guys so drop me a pm if interested.

I'll ditto this

 

[theGreatGonzo]

The truth of it is this: Those that want to suck a cock have done it. Those that want to play with the fantasy, do just that, they play with the fantasy.

Everyone's got to start somewhere.
I spent years fantasising and then chatting online and then eventually camming. I spent a long time playing with the fantasy, until I finally met with a guy about a year ago.

 

[rockoid2]

Takes time...

"If i wasn't married with kids I'd be dating top pre-op trans women and taking them balls deep on a nightly basis. I'd wear panties under my clothes every day and sleep in lingerie every night."

I have met a couple CDs and a TG on CL. Had a blast with all three. If I wasn't married I would find one to be a relationship... would play with cock every night! Looking for a FWB now. It will take time to find someone on CL and the other websites. Maybe we ought to start something here...

 

[larrycando]

Lit

Lit. is full of guys who have the fantasy of trying somethings with another guy. I like that. We all have to start somewhere is a good statement. And reading about MM sex and "putting ourselves in that situation" while typing one handed is a good thing. I get sexually aroused when I read well written porn.

The healthy exchange of ideas and methods is good. There is a wealth of information here on how to meet men for this kind of play. It could be better categorized by having a "bisexual" story section. I am not sure why the ownership of this forum does not provide that for us. There are a large percentage of people who would visit a bisexual section.

For me, it is about two sane, mostly heterosexual men who have an appetite for MM sex but not a steady diet of it.

Some will say, Larry, you are just a gay man living in the closet. No, I am not. I prefer the company of a woman socially, spiritually and sexually. I am not turned on by visually watching two men have any type of sex. If I am going to be stimulated by porn, it is going to be heterosexual porn, with my focus on the hot women's bodies and of course a nice hard cock.

The founder of this website omitted a "bisexual" section when first setting up the categories for whatever reason and now, they won't add a bisexual section for reasons undefined by them even though it has been requested by many long term members.

They are not "open minded." There is no other reason.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Lit. is full of guys who have the fantasy of trying somethings with another guy. I like that. We all have to start somewhere is a good statement. And reading about MM sex and "putting ourselves in that situation" while typing one handed is a good thing. I get sexually aroused when I read well written porn.

The healthy exchange of ideas and methods is good. There is a wealth of information here on how to meet men for this kind of play. It could be better categorized by having a "bisexual" story section. I am not sure why the ownership of this forum does not provide that for us. There are a large percentage of people who would visit a bisexual section.

For me, it is about two sane, mostly heterosexual men who have an appetite for MM sex but not a steady diet of it. ...

It might be a good idea for some of these people to consider the opposite view. Not, how excited is it for me to think about sucking a cock which I am too timid to try. But instead, why would someone want you sucking their cock when you are so damn timid? That sounds like one terrible cock siucker.

Fuck, I want the best cock suckers on the planet, not ones that aren't even but wish they were. Would you date a girl that had never sucked a cock? How far would that relatiohship get?

Two guys doing it is no different.

 

[larrycando]

It might be a good idea for some of these people to consider the opposite view. Not, how excited is it for me to think about sucking a cock which I am too timid to try. But instead, why would someone want you sucking their cock when you are so damn timid? That sounds like one terrible cock siucker.

Fuck, I want the best cock suckers on the planet, not ones that aren't even but wish they were. Would you date a girl that had never sucked a cock? How far would that relatiohship get?

Two guys doing it is no different.

Because there is no such thing as a bad blow job? Some are better than others, yes. But any time you have another person worshiping your cock and you find that a bad experience, you need to examine your "gratitude list."

 

[Blueser916]

So, I'm straight, let's start there. By that I mean I live a straight life. I'm attracted to women with big breasts and big beautiful round asses and I enjoy sex with women. I don't look at men and ever think about whether they are good looking or not, I just don't. Instead, I think about what his cock might look like, what it might taste like, and what it might feel like up my ass.

Ever since high school I've had these curiosities. I would occasionally act on them with my friends doing some experimental things that consisted of showing off our hard cocks to each other, humping a friends ass crack, and even touching their cocks and helping them jerk off. I always felt guilty afterwards and for years after high school I suppressed the urges.

Now I'm older and in my 30s. About five years ago the urges came back with a fury. All I could think about was sucking a cock or having a guy suck me. I wanted a cock in my hand to jerk until my fingers were sticky with cum. I even started playing with my ass and my fingers made their first trip inside along with my wife's dildo and a variety of different vegetables. I can't even eat a banana without sneaking in a room by myself first and pretending it's a cock.

I tried meeting guys on Craigslist and that was a joke. No sane or normal guys were anywhere to be seen there and I felt dirty just chatting with some of the guys who would reply to my ads. The same guy who would tell me he was inexperienced like me had a ad of his own saying he was taking as many raw loads as he could get... no thanks.

So here I am. Horny as fuck to try some dick and I can't seem to figure out where guys like me are. I know they exist, but where are they? Where is the guy like me who is normal, sane, clean, and straight, but craving a cock in his mouth? I just want to feel the soft skin on a hard dick slide into my mouth. I want to hear a man moan as my lips and tongue explore his cock as I attempt to take all of him down my throat. I want to feel his hands grabbing the back of my head as he nears orgasm. I want to feel his cum shoot into my mouth and I want to taste his load.

Where are the guys like me?

OP, my situation was similar to your about 5 years ago. I'm no expert, nor vastly experienced, but here are my thoughts and responses. Hope something is helpful. I think there are a lot of guys like you. Finding a decent hookup on CL is possible, but it takes a lot of time and effort to screen out the dregs. "Gay" bars can be a good place to find men who want to have sex with men (whatever label you might attach). Gay/bi friends can be a good source (not to have sex with the friend, that can go tragically bad, but to introduce you to someone). Good luck!

 

[dacoach44]

Lucky me

OP, my situation was similar to your about 5 years ago. I'm no expert, nor vastly experienced, but here are my thoughts and responses. Hope something is helpful. I think there are a lot of guys like you. Finding a decent hookup on CL is possible, but it takes a lot of time and effort to screen out the dregs. "Gay" bars can be a good place to find men who want to have sex with men (whatever label you might attach). Gay/bi friends can be a good source (not to have sex with the friend, that can go tragically bad, but to introduce you to someone). Good luck!

I have a gay date Monday. I will drain that cock for sure. So fun. I will be dressed as a sissy, so fun and silly!