Where do married men who are bi meet each other ?

[Excitabletom]

I think the biggest problem is where do you go? Sniffies and other sites show a lot of bi people like myself, but no one can host. As a married bi male (near Grand Rapids, MI) I would love a FWB man, but I can't host. My wife wanted (and got) a security camera for our driveway, thus I can't host. Where do we go to meet like minded men? The ABS? Parks where one can get arrested? Please share location ideas.

 

[Milo9012]

I think the biggest problem is where do you go? Sniffies and other sites show a lot of bi people like myself, but no one can host. As a married bi male (near Grand Rapids, MI) I would love a FWB man, but I can't host. My wife wanted (and got) a security camera for our driveway, thus I can't host. Where do we go to meet like minded men? The ABS? Parks where one can get arrested? Please share location ideas.

Couldn't the backseat of an suv or truck work as a 'host' location?

I'll bet many Lit members were conceived in such locations.

 

[Thespian1]

I am still looking for that 'rare' opportunity. Maybe in the near future...

 

[Bayzapper10]

Here. I have met several on Lit., nothing IRL … yet. We joke about meeting up someday and someday it might happen.

I have met guys on Fetlife, Feeld and AFF, but only the Feeld guy worked out to be something great. AFF is a dumpster fire!

 

[TrailerHitch]

I offer to pay half the cost of a motel room. The idea of a car or park is a definite no deal for me.

 

[BiMrPotatoHead]

I have split the cost of a motel before. Plus I have a travel trailer in storage that I have used before

 

[phil1955]

I am one of those guys. but you would never knkow it..my bad i guess

The key is to be aware of the vibes and maybe steering the conversation to a sexual tone.

 

[CuriousCelt]

Squirt.org is a great site to watch on. I've been on there for years, and it's quite helpful.

 

[Milo9012]

Being older, I look for divorced or widowed men who are not dating. They probably are not getting anything except their own hand. You just need to be observant for guys giving a subtle glance and be open to chatting and getting to know them a bit. The last guy I met on the golf course or in the clubhouse. The vibes were there and it did not take too long before we were discussion how frustrated he was. Since he has his own place, we had a good place to meet up.

Great tips and advice, @phil1955.
Seems there are a lot of golfing Lit members having luck with other golfers while on the links.

 

[jonjonz68]

Great tips and advice, @phil1955.
Seems there are a lot of golfing Lit members having luck with other golfers while on the links.

That's interesting. Several of my BJ buds were also avid golfers. I don't golf, but I do play tennis. You'd think that'd be another way to meet potential buds, but so far nothing has happened. Maybe golf affords more opportunities for casual chat, chat that could lead to something less casual.

 

[J1biboi]

I am one of those guys. but you would never knkow it..my bad i guess

Same here!

 

[J1biboi]

Great tips and advice, @phil1955.
Seems there are a lot of golfing Lit members having luck with other golfers while on the links.

I need to find a new golf course.

 

[Milo9012]

That's interesting. Several of my BJ buds were also avid golfers. I don't golf, but I do play tennis. You'd think that'd be another way to meet potential buds, but so far nothing has happened. Maybe golf affords more opportunities for casual chat, chat that could lead to something less casual.

I think that's the difference, the opportunity to chat while walking between holes and the solitude the outdoors provides.

Can't get that kind of intimacy while playing tennis.

 

[NCMaleMan74]

Lowe's if you're a Bottom. Home Depot if you're a Top.
Harbor Freight if ya need the money!

 

[Gunter99]

Squirt.org is a great site to watch on. I've been on there for years, and it's quite helpful.

Good for jerk-off on cam as well!

 

[phil1955]

Great tips and advice, @phil1955.
Seems there are a lot of golfing Lit members having luck with other golfers while on the links.

We do not always talk about sports and it is amazing how many guys are not getting anything at home. It does not take too much before they realize that a guys mouth on their cock really beats jacking off.

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

Are you in Upstate SC?

I'm not far from Carowinds

 

[Dreadman1]

I offer to pay half the cost of a motel room. The idea of a car or park is a definite no deal for me.

Ya, but does a hotel even take cash anymore? I mean, I don't need them running my card. Ha!

 

[Mike302]

I have met two married men, here in Lit, who just needed to be occasionally sucked. Both live and work nearby.

Lucky!

 

[Mike302]

Them or me?

Both! But I'm envious of you!

 

[pntyhseluvr]

If someone lived in the RDU area, I get there fairly often. Could come to my hotel

 

[kccasey]

I found a good guy and lover on silverdaddies.com

 

[BiCuriousWriter]

There must be websites for every country / region. I am talking to a guy and the conversation is going into a direction where we might meet in a local pool's relaxation room. Daytime is very quiet there. It's the same pool where I had my first bisexual meeting, as detailed in my first story. But that was in the regular sauna during quiet hours, while the relaxation section is something you need to pay extra for. He said he has been there several times and always met someone to play with, sometimes arranged, but sometimes by accident, as in: someone was already there and was interested. As if all guys going there want to play.

 

[KingDavid234]

If someone lived in the RDU area, I get there fairly often. Could come to my hotel

RDU area? Where on earth would that be???

 

[Baztrachian]

"Where do married men who are bi meet each other?"​

Divorce court.