Which do you think arouses more?

[ataxia.girl]

Threatening to pee the bed is more exciting than the actual act but defiantly following through is quite satisfying as well.

 

[rida]

Can't say...depends on the mood I am in.

Do I want to satisfy my power lust by making her squirm?
Do I want to satisfy my sadist lust by getting my pound of flesh?

I believe both are deep seated needs in my psyche. For me, I have observed that it tends to go in cycles.

The question is like asking do you like apple pie or blueberry pie more? I mean fuck its PIE!

Sometimes its just better off not quantifying anything beyond the level of Pi.......e.

*squirm* and *wave* ~~~ to RJMasters

I hate both the anticipation of punishment and the punishment itself.
I love both the anticipation of pleasure and the pleasure itself

however ... there is only so much anticipation I can take before I shut down when it come to pleasure or I lose it when it comes to punishments

I'm still learning to keep in my place.

 

[RJMasters]

*squirm* and *wave* ~~~ to RJMasters

Hello Rida.

Nice to see you.

 

[Adakgirl]

So long as they're credible threats, I like the concept of threatening everything under the sun. It's what makes rape play more than just rough sex, and I adore rape play.

Are you talking about role playing-rape play or actual rape play here?

Isn't this the same kind of anticipation threat that so many mothers used to use on their naughty children when they would tell them "Just wait tell your father gets home, you are really going to get your butts beat this time!". The pain of the anticipation while waiting was always worse than the punishment the father gave them when he finally did get home? I wouldn't know personally but have heard others who did have fathers talk about this and the affect it had on them.

The largest sexual organ is the brain and has the capacity to bring forth emotions and reactions that far exceed what bodily reactions alone can do. In fact we have no bodily reactions without the brain being involved too. If I had to choose, I would pick anticipation and threat over act. Like others I that only last so long without some kind of act. A Dominant who never backs up his words will be perceived as weak by me and his threats will no longer have any affect.

Unless of course he is one who takes evil delight in keeping a submissive off balance by sometimes threatening then acting or sometimes threatening then changing his mind at the last minute. That is an exquisitely sweeeeeete type of mental torture to me. To never really be sure of knowing what he is going to decide to do.

I enjoy the mere threat of it, when I am told what is going to happen because I did or didn't do this or that or if I dare do this or that.

 

[SimonBrooke]

Are you talking about role playing-rape play or actual rape play here?

Adak, what's the distinction you're making here? I understand what 'role playing rape play' is, but I don't see how 'actual rape play' is different (unless you mean rape play that really is non consensual, in which case how is that 'play')?

 

[Sayyid]

Are you talking about role playing-rape play or actual rape play here?

Is there a difference? Maybe there are varying levels of realism involved, but it's always a role play, never a real rape.

 

[Sayyid]

Double post.

 

[Adakgirl]

I meant physical, real life f2f rape play or on-line, on phone role-play.