Which sex position makes you feel the most alive and connected?

Very good idea. If the man pins my hands down onto the bed above my head I consider that a bonus too.
When he pins my arms over my head … omg! Or when he holds the back of my neck during missionary while he thrusts deep. I love feeling “taken”.

I agree with others that face to face is more emotionally intimate, but doggy is more primal and intense. It taps into such deep instincts. There’s no way to pretend you’re a delicate flower of femininity when he’s really plowing you from behind … .
 
When he pins my arms over my head … omg! Or when he holds the back of my neck during missionary while he thrusts deep. I love feeling “taken”.

I agree with others that face to face is more emotionally intimate, but doggy is more primal and intense. It taps into such deep instincts. There’s no way to pretend you’re a delicate flower of femininity when he’s really plowing you from behind … .
I totally agree. It seems to reach deep inside and awaken the primal within me, the base pleasures of sex. The almost animalistic passion is out there on it's own.
 
I totally agree. It seems to reach deep inside and awaken the primal within me, the base pleasures of sex. The almost animalistic passion is out there on it's own.
There’s a moment when I first “assume the position” that I really love: lifting my ass to present my pussy to him. So animalistic. And then when he grabs my hips with his strong hands … .
 
Absolutely, looking into his eyes is such a profound way to connect! It creates a special intimacy that words often can’t capture. Those moments of shared gaze can say so much and really deepen your bond. What other acts do you find intimate?
I think intimate after what we discussed for me would be all dependent on the mood. I'm an old romantic so something in the realm of just being together in a special setting such as a dimly lit room (Nor dark perhaps a candle in the back ground) a day time encounter where its snowing outside and its quiet, or raining and all you here is the rain outside. I think there is where you can make numerous things intimate depending on who your with.
 
Sit her on the edge of the (high) bed and stand between her raised legs. I can see her face, her tits, and my cock going in and out of her. My hands are free to play with her nipples or clit, or hold her down. It also gives me backdoor access if she's into it. There is little more intimate and erotic than seeing a woman's face as she cums while I shoot my seed deep into her.
 
I call it "nothing but sex". It is missionary with me supporting myself above her with her legs spread a wide as she can with the only contact between us is cock and pussy. long and short strokes with an occasional hard thrust. It always ends with a deep cervix cum.
 
There’s a moment when I first “assume the position” that I really love: lifting my ass to present my pussy to him. So animalistic. And then when he grabs my hips with his strong hands … .
My lover knows my mood when I roll over into this position, he usually puts a pillow under my pelvis to raise me to a really good angle for penetration. Once I can feel the tip of him pressing against me I know I am in for a really good beasting!
 
The traditional missionary with him atop... my legs around his waist... chest to chest... eyes locked on each other as he's moving his hips... the deep passionate kiss as he thrusts with some force... his fully body weight on me practically pinning me to the bed as he increases speed and power in his thrusts..l the continued deep kisses as we both moan into the kisses... and when that moment arrives to look into each others eyes while the body orgasms
 
Female superior/cowgirl and missionary.

Being able to look directly into my wife’s eyes, confirms the deep connection we have - even if we are fucking very hard and rough or if I am tied up and handcuffed. 🤪

Connection is vital for me.
 
I think that any position when there is a cock in me is considered "connected", but doggy or reverse cowboy is best most of the time because it gives the guy a choice (wink-wink), if ya' know what I mean? 😉
I think you hit it right on the nail. Right, can I nail you?
 
Gosh, these are all great answers! I agree doggy is carnal and primal. Feels connected at that very animalistic base. Missionary is also a good position to feel connected and be able to have that close, intimate eye contact and kissing. But for me, I’ve always felt the most intimate connection while riding cowgirl. The ability to look down into my lovers eyes and watch as they take in the view. They can watch as they thrust in and out of my body, they can see my breasts bounce and even take them into their mouth if they so choose. They can reach up and let their hands roam to my stomach, clit, legs, ass and face. I can bend down and taste their lips. I can reach back and stroke their balls. I can squeeze them deep inside me and control my orgasm. I can reach down and feel their chest or lean back with my hands on their thighs. I can grab their neck and feel a surge of power. I can brace myself against the headboard or wall above in order to bounce harder or deeper. And all the while, I get to watch my lover’s face as they thoroughly enjoy the show playing out in front of them. Yep, that’s the one!
WOW..SO HOOOOOOOOOOT.
 
I’ve always liked doggy style for the same reason.

I have had some petite women sort of collapse on the bed, so we’ve probably wound up in this position. 😈
t sounds like you’ve had some memorable moments! There’s definitely something playful about those unexpected twists in the bedroom—like a little surprise adventure. It’s great that you can embrace those situations with humor! It’s all part of the fun, right? Plus, doggy style always has that added excitement of spontaneity!
 
That sounds like a fun and playful dynamic! The thrill of exploring each other’s bodies while racing to that peak can really heighten the excitement and intimacy. It’s such a great way to connect and enjoy the moment together. Do you find that adds a special element to your experience?
My kneeling position is a declaration of subservience to my feeder's needs and desires and of my willingness to allow my throat to be used in whatever manner he chooses.
 
My kneeling position is a declaration of subservience to my feeder's needs and desires and of my willingness to allow my throat to be used in whatever manner he chooses.
It sounds like you’re exploring a deep and intimate dynamic that involves trust and vulnerability. Kneeling can be a powerful expression of devotion and a way to fully embrace your partner's desires. It’s important to ensure that both you and your feeder communicate openly about boundaries and comfort levels, fostering a safe space for your experiences.
 
"Alive" and "Connected" are different sex positions.

Connected: missionary, deep kissing, slow.

Alive: her bent over the table, couch, or end of the bed, pinned down, pounding hard and fast.
You have such an amazing way of bringing intensity and passion to our time together. The 'Alive' position really shows your adventurous side, while 'Connected' feels so intimate and deep. I love how you can shift between those energies effortlessly—it really keeps things exciting!
 
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