Which sex position makes you feel the most alive and connected?

[Terrylipstick]

it depends on the partner. With one guy, I’m most ‘alive’ when I’m on top, straddling him, riding him and looking down at him. His cock is buried in my ass and mine is just flopping around. I’m fucking his cock with my ass and the headboard is hitting the wall. He’s groaning and I’m so into it and I fuck him until i cum all over him…

With another guy, I’m on my back, he’s longstroking me, just looking down and smiling, I arch my back and raise my ass off of the bed, wrap my legs around him and pull him in, fucking him as hard as I can, then I put my ankles on his shoulders, and grind as hard as I can and listen to the two of us making all of those fuck noises. When he cums, I am so fucking hot for him. I was never a missionary guy until I met him. He’s incredible….

It’s all about the synergy between two people.

 

[flameinsidesoul]

The position that shocked me: the Amazon. In this role-reversed variation of missionary, the penetrating partner lies on their back, knees bent to their chest, while the receiving partner straddles and controls the rhythm. What stunned me wasn’t the physicality—it was the psychological shift. As a man who typically leans dominant, surrendering control here triggered a fleeting but electrifying submissive spark. The act of being physically “beneath” while my partner dictated the pace—her eyes locked on mine, hips rolling with deliberate command—forced me to confront a raw, unscripted vulnerability. It wasn’t about pain or degradation; it was about trust

Somthing like this
https://www.redgifs.com/watch/tubbyillzebra

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

The position that shocked me: the Amazon. In this role-reversed variation of missionary, the penetrating partner lies on their back, knees bent to their chest, while the receiving partner straddles and controls the rhythm. What stunned me wasn’t the physicality—it was the psychological shift. As a man who typically leans dominant, surrendering control here triggered a fleeting but electrifying submissive spark. The act of being physically “beneath” while my partner dictated the pace—her eyes locked on mine, hips rolling with deliberate command—forced me to confront a raw, unscripted vulnerability. It wasn’t about pain or degradation; it was about trust

Somthing like this
https://www.redgifs.com/watch/tubbyillzebra

I just watched the video and was really turned on by it. The scene was mind-bending with positions of the woman and the man reversed. I'd really love having a female fuck me.

 

[Jseven82B]

I love when a woman straddles my lap. Something incredible about when she has the confidence to climb up...that's when I feel most alive and connected

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Missionary, especially if she’s the penetrator looking into each other‘s eyes

 

[collegegirlsub]

I think the position I feel most connected is when I'm getting anal in the spoon position. It's a special hole to give and there is a level of comfort and trust that goes along with being held like that.

 

[Booboobear84]

The position that shocked me: the Amazon. In this role-reversed variation of missionary, the penetrating partner lies on their back, knees bent to their chest, while the receiving partner straddles and controls the rhythm. What stunned me wasn’t the physicality—it was the psychological shift. As a man who typically leans dominant, surrendering control here triggered a fleeting but electrifying submissive spark. The act of being physically “beneath” while my partner dictated the pace—her eyes locked on mine, hips rolling with deliberate command—forced me to confront a raw, unscripted vulnerability. It wasn’t about pain or degradation; it was about trust

Somthing like this
https://www.redgifs.com/watch/tubbyillzebra

Never heard of this. Cool. Of course the fact the she has fabulous abs doesn't hurt.

 

[P0peye]

As a confirmed and compulsive Cocksucker, my favorite position is to be down on my knees with my feeder standing before me, as he holds onto my head and aggressively fucks my throat.

 

[Escierto]

I think the position I feel most connected is when I'm getting anal in the spoon position. It's a special hole to give and there is a level of comfort and trust that goes along with being held like that.

It's fascinating to hear from a woman about my favorite position with my trans girlfriend. She loves to fuck me while spooning with me. So nice!!!

 

[Ciceri]

Being on my back, legs up

I vividly remember wanting to be face down but my older partner had me on my back as he penetrated me. He looked right in my eyes and talked me through it - explained how I belonged to him and how our arrangement was right. I loved that

 

[southdakota2005]

I prefer the man on top of me, especially if he's younger and very muscular. Just something about feeling all that raw power on top of me and feeling his thrusting between my legs. I can also usually feel the man ejaculating inside of me in this postion.

 

[amigayorbi]

1.Woman on top
2. but I do like to make her lie on her bed with her legs on my shoulders

 

[PersonalFavors]

The position that shocked me: the Amazon. In this role-reversed variation of missionary, the penetrating partner lies on their back, knees bent to their chest, while the receiving partner straddles and controls the rhythm. What stunned me wasn’t the physicality—it was the psychological shift. As a man who typically leans dominant, surrendering control here triggered a fleeting but electrifying submissive spark. The act of being physically “beneath” while my partner dictated the pace—her eyes locked on mine, hips rolling with deliberate command—forced me to confront a raw, unscripted vulnerability. It wasn’t about pain or degradation; it was about trust

Somthing like this
https://www.redgifs.com/watch/tubbyillzebra

Looks good but my dick doesn’t bend that far back.

 

[magicalmoments]

I'm a fairly basic guy. Any position that has my cock in her is the most alive and connected for me. I'm grateful for any I can get.

 

[SarahTaboo]

I always love being on top. Riding that dick nice and slow. Then feeling him fill me with every last drop of cum

 

[desire30]

my favorate position is doggy as long as there is a mirror allowing me to look at his face as he drills me

 

[kara_cd_sissy]

I love the intimacy of face-to-face positions where we can really look into each other's eyes and share that deep connection,and how about yours?

Oh yes knees to chest legs up I love to look in her eyes as she takes me.

 

[SusanHoward]

if you really have me in the mood, I’m generally best on top, looking into your eyes….

 

[Pabiporffor]

I know it's not popular, and many find it awkward, but taking it standing up pressed against a wall really makes me feel alive.

 

[cadman7777]

It's not about the position for me but the passion and attitude from the two of us.......positions, foreplay, kissing etc........is secondary to passion and attitude

 

[gin53man]

Traditionally, I love fucking my husband while I am on top. I LOVE slowly lowering myself down on his dick inch by inch. I often cum before I land on the base. I love my tits full in his face. I'm lactating so my breasts are full in his mouth this way. But honestly because my body is so alive and we haven't been able to fuck for a while now, all I want is to be on all fours ass up in the air with my swollen wet kitty cat displayed for him. Like this primal, this is yours, you need to fuck it. The heat coming off of my puss is so hot right now, I joked to him that it can roast a marshmallow. I don't often want to get fucked that way, but I just want a pure ravage pounding from behind right now. I can't wait for my husband to be ready to fuck.

I love your respect for tradition! And I have to say that your husband is one lucky guy.

 

[Booboobear84]

I know, but we just found out I am pregnant after years of trying and our last round of IVF. We lost our son in 2021, and have had a ton of reproductive trauma. My husband is just not feeling super sexual and does not want to have vaginal intercourse until he's ready. I get it. For now I get to fuck myself a lot.

Hugs

 

[MystressSyren]

Fun prompt question! The position that makes me feel most alive is different from the one that makes me feel connected:

. Doggy—hard, fast, and ongoing—makes me feel alive, primal, and hungry for more

. Missionary—either with me on top or my partner—feels most connected when our faces are close and we're looking into each other's eyes for responses