Who are you thinking about when you fuck your partner?

When I’m fucking I’m thinking about fucking my partner. When I’m getting off before during or after (as in actively seeking orgasm) I’m thinking about all my delicious fantasies.
 
When fucking, I am trying to read my partner’s desires. I want to give her what she wants and sometimes, what she wants even if she didn’t know it.
 
This has been mine for at least my last 10-15 shags……,
So I’m re living the time my ex wanked me off at work, I was leaning over my office desk and she was sat on the chair directly behind me, putting her arm and hand through my legs she took control of my dick and wanked me off like it was myself doing it
 
i had a gf who just switched off when we fucked for about a year before we broke up. So i know she was thinking of someone else. I just got into the habit of thinking of high school crushes, work colleagues i wanted to fuck etc. Now im with a hot woman and we have a great sex life. We fuck every day. But i still find myself drifting off to her friends, my female colleagues / crushes. Dont get me wrong i love this woman. Does anyone else experience this? Has i been a problem in their relationship or is it just a kinky behavior?

i think about her mom occasionally.

she reports she thinks about 2 or more guys taking turns on her and her blowing them ... and sometimes she says i am watching this happen and sometimes she says i am not at home or she is on a work trip.
 
I have heard of guys having to think/fantasize about someone else other than who they are fucking

I have never had that problem I'm always with the one i'm with but thats just me.
 
When I was getting sex from the wife I thought about some of the ladies I knew. Wive's of other guys, gf's of guys and ladies I might see on the street. Now I come here for my pleasureable thoughts and my hand works my cock.
 
One particular girlfriend from the past. My wife is a similar height, weight and build to the girlfriend. So it’s easy to reminisce
 
Nearly always just her but i occasionally think about when her ex knocked her up, that at one time she was cumming on his cock as he filled her. Usually sends me over the edge to plant my own load
 
Not usually thinking of anyone else, but we do role play occasionally. Sometimes she'll ask me to wear a condom and pretend she's being a naughty girl, or encourage me to knock her up to give her a black baby or that she's someone else and she's watching us fucking.
 
i had a gf who just switched off when we fucked for about a year before we broke up. So i know she was thinking of someone else. I just got into the habit of thinking of high school crushes, work colleagues i wanted to fuck etc. Now im with a hot woman and we have a great sex life. We fuck every day. But i still find myself drifting off to her friends, my female colleagues / crushes. Dont get me wrong i love this woman. Does anyone else experience this? Has i been a problem in their relationship or is it just a kinky behavior?
Long term marriage, any "new relationship" stuff was worked out long ago. Most of the time I'm either focused on her pleasure, or on myself, or both! I really love to eat her pussy so when I'm eating her pussy, I'm EATING HER PUSSY. Also I really like fucking her, like it just feels good to have my hard cock pumping her hot pussy. So I'm not distracted, I'm into it. It helps that she's into it too. If she were bored or not reacting I don't know what I would do. It would be a bummer. Same thing if I were distracted or daydreaming. I'd be bummed out and would think something was wrong if it persisted. There have been occasional cases where I probably fantasized about another partner while I was with my wife, but once in awhile that's not going to be a big problem.
 
I always think of one of my friends or her male friends or a neighbour as fucking her. I even tell her about this and the name of the person whom I m fantasising as fucking her. She gets thrilled by this and enjoys he sex more and cums profoundly.
 
i had a gf who just switched off when we fucked for about a year before we broke up. So i know she was thinking of someone else. I just got into the habit of thinking of high school crushes, work colleagues i wanted to fuck etc. Now im with a hot woman and we have a great sex life. We fuck every day. But i still find myself drifting off to her friends, my female colleagues / crushes. Dont get me wrong i love this woman. Does anyone else experience this? Has i been a problem in their relationship or is it just a kinky behavior?
I don't think of other women..I think of particular men with her
 
Love this question - as I think about various things BUT until I read this question I didn't realize that I did! But this made me think long and hard (pun intended) about what DO I think about. So, here it goes:
  • Old girlfriends watching me pleasure my wife with my tongue and wishing it was them
  • Sucking her pussy and wondering what SHE is thinking (shes not expressive)
  • Women I know that need a good pussy licking - and if watching me lick pussy would turn them on
  • What is going through my wife's mind when she gently places her hand on the back of my head when I'm sucking her strapless dildo "cock" (I think I have a clue)
  • What is goign through her mind when I'm pounding her hard and she is about to cum
  • What caused her to squirt? (does she even know?)
  • Does she fantasize about bigger cocks than mine? or a threesome?
  • What is it about titty fucking that REALLY turns her on?
  • When I cleanup the creampie - will she cum kiss me (I've never tried).

Just to name a few
 
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