Who are you thinking about when you fuck your partner?

[Twanquavius]

Depends on if we are role playing. But typically my partner!

 

[Eyelevel]

Whoever I met that day that I would like to fuck.

 

[Jcam1980s]

Her, and the need to make her cum, and cum inside her. Hot

And on the odd occasion i imagine her boss, screwing her for her raise. But that makes me cum very quickly!

 

[Jcam1980s]

I have also thought of my neighbour. She's about 30, tight body, small tits, total opposite of my wife and not someone I'd usually look twice at. But the thought of cumming in her and sending her home full of my cum enters my mind sometimes while with my wife

 

[doubletee]

I'm always thinking of her and trying to bring as much pleasure to her as I possibly can.
I only think of others about 50% of the time I masturbate. The other 50% are things I'd like to do with her, but she has no interest.

 

[Susscrofa]

i had a gf who just switched off when we fucked for about a year before we broke up. So i know she was thinking of someone else. I just got into the habit of thinking of high school crushes, work colleagues i wanted to fuck etc. Now im with a hot woman and we have a great sex life. We fuck every day. But i still find myself drifting off to her friends, my female colleagues / crushes. Dont get me wrong i love this woman. Does anyone else experience this? Has i been a problem in their relationship or is it just a kinky behavior?

I admit that I've had quite a few partners with whom I'd close my eyes and pretend I was doing someone else - either a previous partner who I found more attractive or more fun, or a fantasy partner.

When that happens, it's time to move on to a different partner or have no partner at all, because at that point, I'm not so much having sex with the woman as using her body as a masturbation tool, which isn't fair to her or satisfying or me.

 

[Conquen69]

That's absolutely wonderful that she's entertaining you by asking Michael to fuck her. I'm sure it was a huge turning......... my wife would be this way occasionally but only after a bottle of wine or some strength serum which is what we call tequilla haaaaa!!!

How would you feel if she mentions two different guy's names one night hmmmm??

She has

 

[wifewatcher1997]

Mostly her
but sometimes her lover and her
or any lady that happens to pop into my mind that I would enjoy having fun with

 

[nutoseen]

i had a gf who just switched off when we fucked for about a year before we broke up. So i know she was thinking of someone else. I just got into the habit of thinking of high school crushes, work colleagues i wanted to fuck etc. Now im with a hot woman and we have a great sex life. We fuck every day. But i still find myself drifting off to her friends, my female colleagues / crushes. Dont get me wrong i love this woman. Does anyone else experience this? Has i been a problem in their relationship or is it just a kinky behavior?

i think about her sister playing with my tiny dick as my woman takes her mans big cock and we watch

 

[muffinhog]

Lately I've been thinking about Mia, the new assistant in the accounts department. She's half my age, buxom and flirty in an innocent way. I wonder if she knows how badly I want to fuck her.

 

[J_Bone]

Always focused on and thinking about her and her pleasure, focusing on her cues, how she responds to various stimuli, and using my own verbal cues that let her know she's all I'm thinking of and focused on.

However, there have been a small number of lovers where perhaps there wasn't a strong attraction either physically or mentally where I have thought of others in order to cum.

 

[Edey]

I'm curious why so many people answered that they think about another person.
I have a different angle with this question. I think about stimuli, about exciting scenarios (with the person I fuck) and some kinky stuff.

 

[Islander55]

My primary thoughts are about enjoying the sensations that go with fucking. Felling his body and feeling him inside of me. And of course there is always thoughts of that rising tide of pleasure that hopefully will become an orgasm. I do think about my partner but am more apt to do that before and after. During the moment, my thoughts are not too coherent. I guess over the years, I have learned to let myself go and just enjoy the moment and the sensations.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

My husband and I played around a bit. After an evening of intense oral sex from his best friend, I pictured the best friend during sex quite often.

During the last fee months of my marriage, I had a cub I was seeing once or twice a week. And I saw him every time my husband got intimate.

 

[eric_erosfan]

If I am being honest sometimes I think about things I have experienced lately that made me horny with other women. Like a great downblouse or cameltoe from a woman I work with or the girls at my gym.

 

[midwestmomlvr]

i had a gf who just switched off when we fucked for about a year before we broke up. So i know she was thinking of someone else. I just got into the habit of thinking of high school crushes, work colleagues i wanted to fuck etc. Now im with a hot woman and we have a great sex life. We fuck every day. But i still find myself drifting off to her friends, my female colleagues / crushes. Dont get me wrong i love this woman. Does anyone else experience this? Has i been a problem in their relationship or is it just a kinky behavior?

Who do I think about while having sex with my partner/wife?
1. My mother.
2. Fantasizing that my wife is having sex with another man.

 

[drjjmd]

I’m pretty captivated by my partner, I must admit. We talk about all kinds of people and situations, but as things heat up it’s all just the two of us, together.

 

[EStaccato]

Girls. Its been well over a year since we tried ANYTHING, but even early on when I was taking it from behind, as long as he was busy getting off, I could be free to think about eating a fat, juicy pussy. The idea of her squirting into my mouth usually put me over. If I was lucky, he hadn’t finish and I could think about more girls.

But I’m not gay.

(And if you believe that, I’ve got bottles of miracle cock grower in my garage I’m selling real cheap).

Lately when I’m getting off, I think of my girlfriend and a trans girl. So many boobs and a cock just to have something to slurp with my girl.

 

[van_delay]

Her Mom.

 

[MommyIsabella]

Lately it has been my son.

 

[AchtungNight]

I'm usually thinking about my partner when asked. Privately I'm thinking about the woman who inspired the most prominent understudy character from my fictional universe.

 

[vanquished005]

one time, when my wife and i were trying to make a baby, we had a particularly nasty altercation. nevertheless, when the time came that day, it was time to go to work, whether or not we were in the mood... which we were not.

it was the first time that I fantasized that I was somebody else.

alhtough my story is true, i cannot take credit for the line. i borrowed the line from an episode of the TV sitcom "Coac:h" starring Craig T. Nelson.

 

[ccpe]

The only time my mind ever wandered with any partner was with a few when I was in my 20's who just didn't quite have the oral technique down to get me off. In those cases my mind might wander onto other things to get me there (I didn't want them to feel bad!), but only at the end - first I enjoyed the giver first, because it was still damn pleasurable. Also, now that I think about it, it was less thinking about a specific different person and more just different scenarios.

I've been lucky in life and haven't had that issue in a long time, so no thinking about anyone aside from the one I'm with.

 

[ExpRider]

I sometimes, okay nearly always, think about it must have looked when she was getting fucked by one of the three other guys she’d had sex with in the past. One in particular, since I’m also familiar with his big cock…lol.

Yessssssssss

 

[Conquen69]

I have often thought about one of my wife's coworkers. He is 10 years younger than her and she often fantasized about him. I would imagine them fucking. The thought of her spreading her legs for him and him sliding his bare cock into her dripping pussy always sends me over the edge.