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Who gives better head? Men or women

As you kind of imply OP. Whoever wants to be there.

I've 'trained' a few women in giving BJs over the years or helped ones get their confidence. Almost all of them had bad experiences, often first experiences, with men who a) didn't know what they wanted but more often b) were 'pushy'.

A friendly attitude, some pointers, and freedom to play really helped them get their confidence. And confidence and desire is what makes them good. Far more so than technical skill.
 
Fred2575 said:
In my experience, men give better head. For all the reasons listed above.

They know what feels good

They want to do it.

Women from my experience treat it like a chore. You have to ask them to do it, then deal with them fumbling through it. Most of the time i get bored waiting.

A good cocksucker takes their time, enjoys giving the pleasure, men are conditioned to be the more giving lover. Women are conditioned to be pleased.
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Many women would say the same about men, that guys will mostly be satisfied with just using the woman's body for their pleasure after just enough foreplay that she's wet. When I was mostly sleeping with women, quite a few times I was told something like "I never thought it could be that good". So many women get poor or average-at-best sex from their men.

I'd say if you're with a woman that feels like a blowjob is a chore, you're with the wrong woman. When I first got with my husband blowjobs weren't my favourite thing and he much preferred fucking anyway so it wasn't something we did a lot of. But over time the need to make him cum with my mouth just got stronger and stronger. Now he gets one most days. Maybe it was sleeping with women that conditioned me to being like this? It wasn't the easiest transition to be with a guy again, in the beginning he mostly just wanted to satisfy me and while that was good, it wasn't everything I needed.
 
cadman7777 said:
Well I have never had a guy but I can't imagine anyone better than a woman sucking me off
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A woman "feels" different. Softer, more delicate, Her mouth and face isn't nearly as rough. It was difficult to process for me the first time receiving from a guy and I much prefer a woman. BUT. As far as technique, enthusiasm and suction, both guys I got head from were outstanding vs the average gal.
 
Burstplayer said:
A woman "feels" different. Softer, more delicate, Her mouth and face isn't nearly as rough. It was difficult to process for me the first time receiving from a guy and I much prefer a woman. BUT. As far as technique, enthusiasm and suction, both guys I got head from were outstanding vs the average gal.
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I know what you mean. The first time my boyfriend (husband now) went down on me it was eye opening. Even just the size of his head was far bigger than a typical woman. His tongue was obviously bigger and he would lick a lot harder with it. It was very intense and different from what I’d gotten used to. His stubble was like sandpaper on my inner thighs, which is such a shame cause he looks hot as fuck with really short stubble.
 
I... don't know.

I have no basis for comparison, but, every woman I've seen try to give oral sex has been heroic. They've absolutely TRIED to give pleasure, and I'm a difficult orgasm. Sometimes I just stop them and thank them and let them know it's not their fault. It's my stubborn body.

So, women are heroic. Praise be to women. Giving head to a cock can't be easy on your jaw, your neck muscles, getting in position to give it. You poor dears. You get a medal for your hard work.

Sometimes I even need to ask you to go on a break. You work so hard and sometimes it's not.... going to happen. I don't cum very well from passive sexual activities. I get hornier giving head to women than getting it from them. A few hours of that and I am ready to cum.

Just one of the quirks of being me. And women think I'm humble bragging, until we go on a date and I can't cum that way.

It's not a brag, it sucks, no pun intended. I'm a difficult orgasm. It's not a good thing!

The only positive, for the women, is that I can go all night because I'm always horny, and one of us is going to have lots of orgasms, including if she is a difficult orgasm, because I know what it is like to neeeeeeed sexual release. So I'm still horny after a few hours of sex. So I'm willing to continue giving orgasms and doing sexual acts.

And at this point I am programmed to respond to women cumming as if I was doing it myself. That's our goal now. I help you cum. I get cuddles and snuggles. If our sex is hot and prolonged enough, I MAY cum.

It might happen. I might have to finish myself off, too.

If it does happen, I am satisfied like I've won the lottery. Thank you so much, lady of my life, for being patient with me as everything you've learned making other men cum has utterly failed on me.

I'm so sorry. I ran into a particularly stubborn orgasm once, and I know how it felt. It's a loss of pride, and confusion, and not being sure what to do next.

I don't know, other than, let's focus on you.

So I do. So I get a loooooot of licking pussy practice. And I can get that difficult orgasm going if you have one.

And if you have easy orgasms holy hell, we will literally lose count. Who is keeping count anyway? There's going to be more. No sense keeping track. Just mark it down as number of hours having had a really good time.

It's fun because someone in our couple is having lots of orgasms and I feel accomplished. Hahahahaha

I look at the chastity slave videos on porn online and I'm laughing at myself. Sure, those men really love giving head, don't they. It's because they can't cum and this is how they make love now.

Hah! Same here! Except you don't need to buy the chastity equipment. Oh, it's so frustrating.

But you learn to deal with it and you lick that pussy like it owes you money, and every time she cums, you get 20 dollars. Rent each month is 1,000 dollars. Get to work.

Yes, ma'am. I shall.
 
My answer can’t come close to the previous one, but having had both more than a few times for me women by far
 
Friendlyhillbilly said:
In my top 5 blow jobs are 4 men and 1 woman and she was a lesbian.
men and lesbians when they suck, its because they want too.
Straight women think they have too.
I think thats the difference.

Opinions?
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Anyone who ”thinks they have to” is unlikely to be enthusiastic about it, and enthusiasm is a major factor in “good.” If all the women you've been with have felt they had to, that's very unfortunate. Is there any possibility that you have anything to do with their feeling that way?
 
JT1999 said:
I know what you mean. The first time my boyfriend (husband now) went down on me it was eye opening. Even just the size of his head was far bigger than a typical woman. His tongue was obviously bigger and he would lick a lot harder with it. It was very intense and different from what I’d gotten used to. His stubble was like sandpaper on my inner thighs, which is such a shame cause he looks hot as fuck with really short stubble.
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When a girlfriend of mine purposely asked me not to shave before we met, I knew exactly what she had in mind, because she told me that the roughness of my stubble on her inner thigh as I feasted on her pussy was a major turn-on for her. So, I guess it's very much a question of taste. In all senses of the word!
 
Had a black girlfriend gave and loved to give head! Can't wait to find out and compare the two ! I will report back on the results! Hopefully it would be too long!
 
PhallicPleasure said:
I can only say anecdotally that the black women I got to play with were always very, very excited to receive extended pussy-licking sessions. It was true for all of them across a range of ages. While I never had anyone disinterested in getting head, the black women I was with were the only women who routinely would explicitly and intently ask for head. Meanwhile, every guy always wanted more head no matter their age or race.
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She loved to have her pussy eaten and she was a squirter which made it even more enjoyable she loved to have multiple orgasms and soaked the bed
 
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