Who is a male dom?

[Netzach]

Apparently you have the wrong idea of what dominant means in a mainstream context, because what you described is essentially a dominant nature.

Due to the feminization of America previously neutral and/or positive terms that describe typically male traits have become negative, such as dominant, aggressive and alpha.

OK Rush, explain to me how the above traits are male to a female alpha wolf.

 

[Netzach]

This pretty much nails it, in my opinion. It's about how a person sees himself in the private sphere and how other people relate to him in the private sphere.

I am me.

I own my girl janey.

I give her direction and guidance and focus in her life.

We work, eat dinner, watch TV now and then, go to movies, have friends over to the house, we listen to music, read books, we go to munches, demonstrations, play parties.

We make love. I beat her ass and back and boobs and thighs. Sometimes I massage her. Sometimes I dribble hot wax on her. Sometimes I shave her because I like running a razor over the most intimate parts of her body. sometimes I tie her up.

Sometimes I fix dinner. Sometimes I help clean up the house. Sometimes I take out the trash and mow the yard and trim the shrubbery around the house. Sometimes I go shopping, sometimes I work on the car. Sometimes I play with my kids. Sometimes I play with the cat.

What's a male Dominant? I am. janey knows that and acknowledges that, and has surrendered herself to me. How anyone else defines the role is irrelevant.

 

[riverofshudder]

Apparently you have the wrong idea of what dominant means in a mainstream context, because what you described is essentially a dominant nature.

Due to the feminization of America previously neutral and/or positive terms that describe typically male traits have become negative, such as dominant, aggressive and alpha.

I'm clear what it means but it's how you associate it's meaning I guess. That is more personal. To me a "Dominant" male in mainstream context is a alpha-male type, which isn't me. If not that a dominant male is someone who always gets there way, which again isn't me.

This has nothing to do with any feminization, it's perspective...

 

[FurryFury]

laughs........... the evil Assassin strikes again......its Monty Python Miss Fury

Know what I would like to do with a Holy Grail currently ? Though I doubt it would define dominance ...........smiles

Thank you Miss Rebecca!

I just watched a terrible film of "his?" the other night with my 15 year old. It was ALL about sex. Yucky!

Fury