Who opened all the cages?

[anne22]

I'm from Topeka/Lawrence KS, but moved to AZ about 3 years ago. I know exactly what you mean about it. I attended Washburn University, and KU Med Center while there, and, at the time I hadn't really been born into my submissiveness as I am now, but the sexual scene was frustrating nonetheless. When I lived in Eudora (6 miles east on K-10), I was exposed to a few people into a bondage play thing. I attended once at a frat party in Lawrence...but that may be out of the question if you're not into that sort of thing....

Sorry to say I don't have much to offer. T-town isn't exciting at all! Don't bother

Now that I think about it...there may be a place on Mass Street, I just can't remember anything about it. I know I'd been meaning to visit while I was there...looked like some king of cover dance/sex club and it was known for being kinky. hope I've helped, or at least commiserated a smile out of you.

annie

 

[h_i_s]

VandalHeart, have you tried the chats here at Literotica? The group who frequent the BDSM social room are a very friendly bunch. Perhaps you can find a submissive online who is local to you and interested in playing real time? Only problem One/one might find there is in locating A/another who is near to T/them... so as an alternative to that suggestion i HIGHLY recommend the following:

i am a registered member of a free "D/s Personals" web site: http://www.collarme.com/ . i HIGHLY recommend this site as one of the BEST for finding and meeting others within the BDSM and/or D/s lifestyles. It's certainly deserving of a five star rating in my experience!!

Registration/membership/access is 100% absolutely FREE !!! ... always!
The members consist of people from every state in the USA, and there are MANY members! At this site, it's not a difficult task to find & meet others who are quite local.
There, One/one will find Doms/Dommes, submissives, slaves, Tops, bottoms, & switches etc.
Many there are looking for 24/7 or TPE.
Many are simply interested in 'play partners'.
Some are monogamous.
Some are polygamous.


By the way, for those interested:

i joined collarme.com on June 24, 2004. Within less than 30 minutes of posting a profile i received well over 50 emails from others there (ok, so about 30 of those emails WERE from DomWannaBe duds.. BUT, every site has those.. trolls exist anywhere on the www... on the upside, the remaining 20 emails were worth reading and replying to). i found none of those 20 people to be 'exactly' what i was looking for.

To make a long story shorter, by the next day, after browsing others profiles in search of an honorable Dom who is into the same level of BDSM as i who understands and respects the rules of SSC. i found a Dominant who's profile facinated me. He sounded like He could be EXACTLY who i'd been searching for & He is located about 40 minutes from me. W/we met REAL TIME the next day.

That Dom is now the One i call Master. i accepted & wear His collar proudly. W/we are enjoying a wonderful & loving 24/7 REAL TIME BDSM-D/s relationship. W/we are currently working on O/our plan to marry (W/we will marry in about 3-6 months, just have not worked out the exact date yet).

P.S.
Ooops! i forgot to mention that the name/ID at collarme.com is a variation of this one that i use here at Literotica. the ID i use at collarme is : cynnacent1 ( for any who simply wish to say hello or send me spam or MONEY ... yes!! 20's or 50's only please.. no persoanl checks ... hehe ... LOL ... just joking! )

 

[InnerDarkness]

I, too, am originally from Kansas. Grew up in Topeka, college in rival Manhattan....

There used to be one cool club in Topeka but it was underground and I have loooooong since lost touch with anyone who knew anything about it.

KC is definately your best bet.

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

 

[rosco rathbone]

OK, fellow Doms, this one's for you.

Have you noticed a distinct lack of subs in your area? If not, more power to you, but I'm noticing that there aren't as many out there as there used to be...then again I just moved. Not real sure.

Thoughts?

I dunno, subs outnumber doms like 10 to 1 where I live.

 

[m wisdom]

Re: Re: Who opened all the cages?

I dunno, subs outnumber doms like 10 to 1 where I live.

You should start in the export business then.

 

[Kajira Callista]

good lawd...do you really need to give uncle rosco MORE ideas?

 

[m wisdom]

good lawd...do you really need to give uncle rosco MORE ideas?

Don't you want to be exported to Sweden
It's hard as it is to get good quality sub's over here

 

[Kajira Callista]

Don't you want to be exported to Sweden

no, i just need to be shipped 700 miles away.

 

[m wisdom]

no, i just need to be shipped 700 miles away.

See, I'm sure uncle rosco can take care of that

 

[Kajira Callista]

See, I'm sure uncle rosco can take care of that

HA! i know how you guys think...you will make me think he will take care of it then he wont because i think he will.

 

[m wisdom]

HA! i know how you guys think...you will make me think he will take care of it then he wont because i think he will.

I'm sure he will take care of it.

Rosco: 100$ if you ship KC over here.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I'm sure he will take care of it.

Rosco: 100$ if you ship KC over here.

 

[Kait!]

Listen to sinn0cent.. I just did a search on Collarme, using female, 18-50, submissive, and Kansas for the key words.. 52 Kansas subs are currently listed there..

I've also had great luck there. My first girl contacted me from my ad there and we had 4 wonderful years together before she got a job in Timbuk3.. (Actually, it was Kenya, but DAYUM.. Once you get more than an ocean away it might as well be the moon..)

 

[TaintedB]

Collarme sounds like a hoppin' place! I have a friend who is looking. She's posted her ad on a lot of personals sites with mostly bad results, so I'll see if she's run across this one. Thanks for the link, Sinn.

--Taint

 

[VandalHeart]

Re: Re: Re: Who opened all the cages?

You should start in the export business then.

Yeah, Rosco, spread the wealth.

As for me I'm heading over to Collarme right now

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I'm sure he will take care of it.

Rosco: 100$ if you ship KC over here.

Ummmm... m wisdom - the 700 miles she was referring to were in my direction.

Rosco - ship her this way, and you'll get the pics and/or videos first, at least a week before anyone else. (That ought to trump mw's measly $100! )

 

[kitty4ever]

<falls down giggling>

BDSM scene in KS?

<giggles more, wiping away the tears>

Sorry, born and raise in rural Kansas. I never saw it growing up, but I had a very sheltered childhood. Good luck.

 

[VandalHeart]

Thank you for such uplifting words of encouragement, kitty.

I feel SO much better now.

 

[kitty4ever]

Thank you for such uplifting words of encouragement, kitty.

I feel SO much better now.

Happy to help.

 

[m wisdom]

Ummmm... m wisdom - the 700 miles she was referring to were in my direction.

Rosco - ship her this way, and you'll get the pics and/or videos first, at least a week before anyone else. (That ought to trump mw's measly $100! )

I'm all to aware of that fact

Rosco: I don't have anything to top Sir Winston's offer, but you can keep the $100 if you send me copys of those pics and videos


I do wish the best to you and KC.

 

[Enndea]

Hummm....I'm from Kansas too. I'm starting to wonder what's in the water back home...? Who knew Kansans could be such wonderfully kinky individuals??

 

[kitty4ever]

Hummm....I'm from Kansas too. I'm starting to wonder what's in the water back home...? Who knew Kansans could be such wonderfully kinky individuals??

So, you think it's the water?

 

[snowy ciara]

Every body keeps saying there's no kink in Kansas.. But all these folks keep telling they're from Kansas or are living in Kansas.. My goodness. I'm even thinking of moving to Kansas..

 

[kitty4ever]

Every body keeps saying there's no kink in Kansas.. But all these folks keep telling they're from Kansas or are living in Kansas.. My goodness. I'm even thinking of moving to Kansas..

Don't. Move to MN.

 

[VandalHeart]

ciara, we are in desperate need down here

please come ease our (read: my) pain

BTW, collarme.com is paying off wonderfully