Who was the person your wife/spouse told you not to “worry about”?

[BioRef172]

Just to add on to my earlier post - this new connection was an all around win for our group. Won't be for all, but for us a solid yes. I get my kink fulfilled of having a hotwife. My wife gets to live the married life with me, and on occasion be the wild mistress with a rather hunky guy, and our gym friend gets to have great sex with my wife.

Not for the masses, but it really works for our little trio.

 

[BlueChamisa]

My wife knows I get off on "worrying about" her fucking other men, so she plays along with sexy texts and more. Has she done it? She won't say!

 

[zoso682001]

That guy who serviced the equipment where she worked . Before it was over he'd serviced her !

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I almost wrote something to the effect that no, there has never been anyone that she said that about. But then I remembered an old friend of hers from college. Tall, good looking, dressed well, and did some modeling work. She used to say all the time, "don't worry, nothing would ever happen, he's like a brother." The truth is, I wasn't worried. The guy was gay. Everyone knew it except her. That wasn't the first time or the last time she made that mistake about one of her friends.

 

[DickandDoof]

If you start with the basic premise that all women are sluts, then nothing should surprise you from there on out. Do I sound bitter? Damn right I am. So tired of being ghosted and stabbed in the back. Women have a unique way of inflicting pain.

 

[Justfantasies]

My first wife told me about men she knew at grad school. She made them sound like friends. Over the years, she confessed that she had fucked all of them

 

[spooz3x6]

meine Frau im Urlaub mit einem anderen Mann

 

[sftopbottom]

My wife worked with an old friend of mine. My wife would tell me not to worry. They fell into bed one night and had an affair for years. My friend would tell me all about it.

My wife and I had an "if either is unfaithful, I just don't want to know about it policy." Which kind of meant don't ask don't tell.

It turns out my friend was also telling my wife all about my business travelling affairs with men and women.

They eventually moved in together.

Life is funny.

 

[Representingmyhotwife]

My wife’s best friend.

 

[screwher]

Bumped.

I’m sure every man has been told “Oh don’t worry about him.” Then it turns out he was someone to really worry about. Who was that guy for you?

 

[summer_reine]

An online friend.

 

[easyoff]

Turned into a very hot threesome for us.

 

[Rackson]

My wife's boss has told me a swinging story and I've also heard him say he wants to fuck my wife, so obviously I worry (but am also secretly desperate for it!) She's unaware of both, so not sure if that counts?

 

[spooz3x6]

My wife's boss has told me a swinging story and I've also heard him say he wants to fuck my wife, so obviously I worry (but am also secretly desperate for it!) She's unaware of both, so not sure if that counts?

ich habe meine frau vom ihrem chef ficken lassen. warum nicht? beide hatten ihr vergnügen. sie ist jedenfalls nicht bei mir wenn sie in der firma arbeitet. da kann sie ja auch ficken, oder?

 

[Rackson]

ich habe meine frau vom ihrem chef ficken lassen. warum nicht? beide hatten ihr vergnügen. sie ist jedenfalls nicht bei mir wenn sie in der firma arbeitet. da kann sie ja auch ficken, oder?

Ich würde ihn mit ihr machen lassen, was er wollte

 

[spooz3x6]

Ich würde ihn mit ihr machen lassen, was er wollte

er hat viel mit ihr gemacht. ob er sie auch geshäftsfreunden überlassen hat, weiß ich nicht.

 

[Handydan]

Her ex bf she sexts often who has a 10" cock.

 

[screwher]

Bumped.

I’m sure every man has been told “Oh don’t worry about him.” Then it turns out he was someone to really worry about. Who was that guy for you?

Bumped.

 

[hiker283]

When we were in college, I ended up being away from the beginning of summer after junior year through graduation. It turned out, she gave up her virginity about six weeks after I left and had sex with five other guys (that she finally admitted to) over the next year. When talking on the phone, when she would mention some guy she would always tell me not to worry about him. The only reason I found out was because a college friend of hers talked too much when visiting us after we were married.

Since marriage, there have been two times she told me "Don't worry about him." when it turned out she was having sex. Once was a guy she was working with years ago, the other is a client in Seattle she has sex with every time she goes up there each month.

 

[screwher]

Seemingly, most people, at some point, have heard from their spouse/partner “Oh you have nothing worry with ____.” You have that gnawing feeling about the time your partner is spending with that person. When you confronted your spouse about it, they simply brushed it off. But as it turned out you were right - your spouse was getting naked and nasty with someone else.

For me, it was the first time my wife cheated years ago. She was working at a coffee shop. She developed an attraction to a regular customer. Started hanging out with him and his friends outside of work. She told me I had nothing to worry about. Soon after, that guy took my wife to a hotel and screwed her!

So who the person your spouse/partner told you not to worry about? We’re they cheating with that person after all? And what was effect on your relationship?

Gentlemen, who was that guy your wife/GF told you “don’t worry about him”?

 

[screwher]

Seemingly, most people, at some point, have heard from their spouse/partner “Oh you have nothing worry with ____.” You have that gnawing feeling about the time your partner is spending with that person. When you confronted your spouse about it, they simply brushed it off. But as it turned out you were right - your spouse was getting naked and nasty with someone else.

For me, it was the first time my wife cheated years ago. She was working at a coffee shop. She developed an attraction to a regular customer. Started hanging out with him and his friends outside of work. She told me I had nothing to worry about. Soon after, that guy took my wife to a hotel and screwed her!

So who the person your spouse/partner told you not to worry about? We’re they cheating with that person after all? And what was effect on your relationship?

Hey Guys, so who was that other man your wife/GF told you not to worry about. Even though your instincts told you otherwise.

 

[MikeXIrons]

Hey Guys, so who was that other man your wife/GF told you not to worry about. Even though your instincts told you otherwise.

I had a GF that I met at work. After we'd been dating for a while, I found myself working on a project in another city, so was away for 1, 2, or 3 weeks at a time, then back for a quick break.

A new guy started while I was gone that all the ladies in the office were smitten by (big guy, classic good looks, charming, hired at a VP level which was unusual). My GF was a sucker for a guy in a position of authority... and a guy who was popular and highly sought after by other women... a "prize".

I'd heard about the guy and wondered. He came up in conversation some, but, just that he was part of a friend group in the office that got lunch or went out after work.

I came home for the big company Christmas party and she said, "I've made lots of new friends while you've been out of the office, so, I want time to mingle with them, so, I want some time to mingle without you..."

At the end of the night we were headed out the front door to head to her place and the new guy appeared behind her. It was a really awkward moment because it was clear (to me) that he had seem her leaving and chased her to the door in hopes of a good night kiss or maybe to get her to stay at the party or to take her home.

She tried to step back inside to say good night to him. He and I made eye contact and it was obvious he was a little confused too... obviously not aware that I was headed home with her and confused why I was standing there waiting for her.

She never fessed up... and I mostly believed her then, thinking maybe she flirted and enjoyed the attention, but probably not more. Looking back that was crazy.

Crazy since, a little before that, while I was away, I called and she told me about her ex-BF (who I'd never met, but sounded like a mess) and how he needed her help. He came up a couple times and I was pretty worried about it. One night she was talking strangely quiet. It came out that he was there. She assured me I had nothing to worry about, but she really had to go. I called back numerous times during the night and she never picked up. She swore she had turned her ringer off while he was there, but, just forgot to turn it back on after he left. Then, much later, she admitted that he didn't leave, but they didn't sleep together. Then, later, it came out that yes, he slept in her bed, but they didn't have sex.

One minor regret is that, many years later, when other things happened and she wanted to come 100% clean and it was "safe" for her to fess up, I forgot to ask about those two guys.

 

[Johhnyrotten]

i know my wife has cheated. i don't mind. just wish she would share. any advice on how to get her to talk about it ? i think she is scared that i will cheat if i find out she does it did. so keeps her reserved

 

[Sclovers]

My wife has never told me that but she has told me about a couple of the guys she’s been with and how big thier cocks were! Would love to watch or better yet join her while she sucks this one guy off!

 

[call_me_sarge]

A couple that my wife played pickle ball with in the weekends, she told me not to worry they just playing. Well come to find out instead of playing ball, she was playing with them. Instead of teaming up they were double teaming her on Saturdays. The other couple kinda let it slip one day, and my wife finally fessed up to it.